Violent incidents stemming from youth sports have made their way into the headlines and mainstream news media. While each incident reported is shocking, youth sports can be very emotional for parents, coaches and players. Parents want their children to get a fair opportunity in their sport and if they perceive some level of unfairness, it strikes a chord deep inside that triggers a protective instinct. When that instinct can't be controlled, children may be exposed to violence between their parents, coaches and referees.
Function
Youth sports is supposed to be about youngsters learning a sport, getting exercise and having fun. Youth sports is not about winning. Coaches are trained before they are allowed to run their teams and learning how to keep the game safe for all participants is vital. However, when these organized sports practice and play competitive games against opponents, another message is sent. Parents come to watch their youngsters play and referees and umpires are hired to work their games. As this happens, a message gets sent to all concerned: This is serious. Some outsiders may not think their son or daughter is being treated fairly and they may get upset.
Significance
Witnessing a violent incident can be traumatic for everyone involved. It may start with one remark from a parent. It could be a coach who argues with the umpire. One small event could trigger a violent incident. If a parent attacks a coach or referee, the children on both teams see this behavior. Children are instructed by society to keep their hands to themselves under all circumstances. They become confused and upset when they see an argument turn into a fight.
Considerations
Violent incidents at youth sports need to be avoided at all costs. Steps can be taken to help parents and coaches from getting themselves in situations that could result in serious injury or legal consequences. By educating all individuals prior to the start of the season, you can go a long way toward preventing violence. Have each player, coach and parent sign a statement of cooperation and a pledge of non-violence. It helps remind everyone that the game is for the children and not the parents.
Time Frame
Violent incidents can be incendiary and develop suddenly or they can be the result of a season's worth of resentment. When a parent expects his child to deliver a big hit in a baseball game and that child is put on the bench by the coach, the parent may seethe and confront the coach and get angry. A parent may not like the way his child has been treated throughout the year and may have resented the coach throughout the season and choose to confront him at the end of the year. The best way to avoid these incidents is to have regular communication between parents, coaches and league supervisors.
History
Violent incidents have hit all youth sports throughout the United States. In 2005, a 13-year-old youth baseball player killed a 15-year-old player in Florida when he struck him over the head with a bat. Full-scale brawls involving dozens of parents followed youth football games in California and soccer games in Florida. The parent of a hockey player beat another parent to death after a practice in Massachusetts. These incidents have led to arrests, convictions and jail time for the offending individuals.
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