Signs of Cheating Spouses

The idea that your spouse could be cheating on you can cause so much dread and disappointment that you may try to convince yourself that you are wrong. It is important, however, to be fully aware of the signs of cheating spouses in case this situation develops in your marriage. It is also helpful to know the signs of a cheating spouse to make sure you do not unnecessarily accuse your spouse of being unfaithful.

Excessively Nice Behavior

Extremely kind behavior from your spouse can rightfully arouse your suspicions. Cheating spouses frequently overcompensate for their behavior and try to assuage the guilt they feel about cheating by being extra nice to you.

The Desire for More Privacy

Everyone deserves some privacy, but if your spouse insists on having more privacy than usual, this request is often a significant sign that he is cheating on you. One spouse's desire for privacy usually develops because the cheating lover wishes to continue having a relationship with someone else without the other spouse's knowledge.

Unsteady Work Schedule

If your spouse's work schedule fluctuates a great deal, it can really be a sign of cheating. In this case, your spouse could be cheating on you with a co-worker or boss and only claiming to work extra to cover up the fact she is actually having an affair. The best way to be able to tell whether your spouse is cheating on you with a co-worker is if she cannot answer exactly why she suddenly needs to work more often or at odd hours.

You Get Accused of Cheating

Although it may seem like a strange sign of cheating, one of the most significant signals you have a cheating spouse is if he is suspicious of you. This suspicion often becomes aroused because your spouse knows just how easy it is to get away with such behavior himself. The accusations of cheating are often meant to deflect attention from the husband's behavior more than they are based on his actual belief that his wife is cheating, however.

Guarded Cell Phone

Some people are generally private with their cell phones. If your spouse has always been secretive about his phone, the fact that he starts to guard it even more carefully can be a possible sign that he is cheating. If your spouse starts to keeps his phone tucked away all the time, puts a lock on it or is constantly deleting incoming or outgoing calls or text messages, these are also possible signs your spouse is cheating.

References

• First Wives World: Seven Signs Your Husband Is Cheating
• Pattaya Daily News: Is Your Partner Cheating on You?