1. Gather a Team to Advocate for Your Child
When your child is diagnosed with autism, the effect can be devastating. Early intervention, however, is key -- so waste no time gathering a team of trusted professionals to work on behalf of your child. Your team should include your child's doctor and specialized therapists for the different types of therapy (behavioral, occupational, speech and physical) your child might need. Your doctor can refer you to the proper therapists. You may also want to consult with a registered dietitian, and with a case manager who can help you secure the financial and governmental services to which your child is entitled. Surrounding your child with people who are advocating on his behalf will help you access the treatment he needs.
2. Become an Expert on Autism and Teach Others
Educating yourself about autism and how it affects your child will give you a sense of empowerment. It's essential to learn the truth about what autism is and what it isn't, in order to be the best possible advocate for your child. You should research all of the various therapies to treat autism, including behavioral, occupational and communication therapies; drug therapies; dietary restrictions; and other, complementary therapies. Share your new knowledge with other members of your inner circle, including family, friends, neighbors and colleagues. Educating others about what your child and your family are going through will help prevent isolation and expand your support system.
3. Establish a Support System
Having a network of friends and family members you can count on for support is important when parenting a child with autism. Coping with all the challenges autism presents can be physically and emotionally draining. Make sure there are people you can call to vent your frustrations to, and shoulders you can cry on when needed. You'll also need a qualified babysitter you can count on when you need a break. There are numerous autism support groups nationwide that you can join to meet other families of children with autism. Scheduling outings with these families is a great way to compare notes and get moral support. Additionally, you can join online support groups for 'round-the-clock encouragement.
4. Don't Forget to Take Care of Yourself and Other Relationships
When you have a child with autism, it's easy to lose yourself in the pursuit of quality treatment. In the process, severe strain can also be put on your other personal relationships, such as those with your spouse, other children, friends and other family members. You will be a less effective advocate for a child with autism if you do not take care of yourself properly. Part of that is taking care of your other relationships. Schedule time to exercise and relax, as well as have one-on-one dates with other people in your life. Relieving stress and nurturing other relationships will keep you healthy so you can help your child with autism get healthy, too.
5. Appreciate the Small Victories
There's no doubt that parenting a child with autism is a constant challenge, but it can also impart a greater appreciation for the little things. When your child says a word for the first time, ties his shoe, reads a book with you or accomplishes any other little thing you might take for granted in a child without a developmental disability, it's cause for celebration. Moreover, dedicating your life to getting treatment for a child with autism can forge a unique parent-child bond that can bring immeasurable joy.
