1. Make Them Feel Important
Elderly people like to reminisce about their youth and experiences. Rather than ignoring their stories or dismissing them as redundant, take time out of your day to sit down and listen. It will make them feel like they have something important to say and will probably enlighten you in the process.
2. Find Alternative Solutions
Many elderly people have trouble reading, walking or moving around as easily as they did in the past. Finding ways to make these activities easier on them can do wonders for their self-confidence. Most of the solutions don't require a large time or money investment. For example, buying a few large-print books for a reader or installing holding bars for those who enjoy taking long baths can mean a lot to an elderly person. Other things may require some research, such as finding a special reading lamp with a magnifying glass or upgrading a home to make it safer or easier to navigate.
3. Provide Some Busy Work
Elderly parents may not be able to run after a toddler, but they can probably babysit an 8-year-old if you need to get out of the house for a few hours. You can also encourage them to start a garden, pursue a hobby or take a class. All are great ways to keep the mind young and the body moving. Even something as simple as a crossword puzzle book may be enough to keep an elderly person's mind busy and sharp.
4. Don't Dwell on What's Gone
Avoid comments regarding their appearance or physical limitations. If you see the elderly person taking pity on himself because of things he's no longer able to do, steer the conversation in an entirely different direction and encourage him to find new things he can enjoy without feeling sad and inadequate.
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