Although it may be impossible to keep your child from accidentally spilling her milk or getting spaghetti sauce on her face while she's eating dinner, it is possible to teach your child manners by example. By encouraging your child to practice good manners from a young age, it will become a routine he is used to. By showing your child what is expected of him as a toddler, he will be able to continue using good manners throughout adulthood.
Step 1
Lead by example, recommends Cynthia Gorney of "BabyCenter." Your child will learn how to act by watching you, and will imitate how you act in social situations and at dinner. Instead of talking with your mouth full and being gruff with the grocery store clerk, be on your best behavior at all times. Your child is learning, even if you don't think she is paying attention.
Step 2
Teach your child "thank you" and "please" as soon as your child is able to talk. Even though your baby probably won't say the magic words right away, once she is able to say sentences, "please" and "thank you" will automatically follow.
Step 3
Prompt your child if he forgets to be polite in a social situation. If you have taught your child to extend his hand and introduce himself to adults, gently remind your child if he does not remember to shake hands, suggests an article in "Better Homes and Gardens" magazine.
Step 4
Make eating at the table a regular routine. When your child eats at the table instead of slumped on the couch in front of the television, you are given an opportunity to encourage your child to place her napkin on her lap, use utensils correctly and wipe her mouth after eating. Eat at the table as a family as much as possible to encourage good manners while eating.
Step 5
Praise your child when he remembers to use good manners. Your child will feel proud when you acknowledge what a big boy he is for using his manners, and become more encouraged to use good manners in the future.
Tips and Warnings
- Encourage your child to be polite when sharing toys and playing with friends.
- Do not give your child a sharp knife at the dinner table.
Things You'll Need
- Napkin
- Utensils
