Why a Toddler Won't Keep His Clothes On

Why a Toddler Won't Keep His Clothes On
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When a toddler undresses, he or she is communicating a message to you as a parent or caregiver. This stage starts around 18 to 24 months and won't linger if reactions are curtailed. Your toddler has developed a sense of appearance, independence and desire for comfort during playtime. Buttoning, zipping and snapping are alluring new activities, and are beneficial for your toddler's fingers. The process of toilet training seems to encourage undressing. Close observation will help you uncover the reasons your toddler undresses.

Time Frame

Note when the undressing behavior occurs, then ignore it. This relieves the parents' frustration and discourages the undressing. Your toddler seeks independence along with your approval and attention. Act casual when embarrassing or funny moments of nudity occur. Dr. Don Shifrin from the American Academy of Pediatrics, suggests as long as the child is not in any danger, allow the behavior to continue uninterrupted, and then praise your child when the behavior stops.

Significance

There is a message to decipher when your toddler continues to undress. Notice whether your toddler changes clothing and then seeks your approval afterward. Determine if uncomfortable clothing is removed during active play. Your toddler will show independence in the challenge of undressing. A toddler is capable of showing strong emotional reactions and might undress in anger to get a response. Try to understand the significance in the message of your naked toddler.

Size

Because toddlers' bodies are not evenly proportioned, it is difficult to find clothing that fits properly. The wrong sized clothing is unsafe and can hinder your child's movement and play. Clothing that is too small or too large is uncomfortable. Climbing and crawling in clothing can restrict freedom of motion, so your toddler might undress during play. Buying clothing with adjustable shoulder straps made of fabrics that stretch might help.

Benefits

It is natural for your toddler to use these newly developed fine motor skills and begin practicing putting on socks, buttoning up shirts or snapping things into place. Clothing that is easily removed will be taken off. Help encourage this development in your child by supplying articles of clothing that incorporate large buttons, zippers or snaps. This will create a sense of accomplishment.

Considerations

Wet or soiled clothing is uncomfortable for a toddler. Removing a diaper or training pants to use the toilet adds to your toddler's frustration.Toddlers need pants with elastic at the waist to make toilet training easier. Monitor toilet training closely, so soiled or wet clothing is handled in a sanitary fashion.

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Article reviewed by Teresa Daly Last updated on: Apr 13, 2010

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