There are over two dozen different herpes viruses. The term "herpes" is commonly used when referring to genital herpes. This can be caused by herpes simplex type 1 and herpes simplex type 2, and is usually the result of infection with the latter. Many people have no symptoms, but when symptoms do occur, they usually involve sores in the genital area that break open, ooze liquid or blood, feel painful and resolve within a month. Most people have recurrences of these breakouts throughout their lives, decreasing over time. There are several methods to prevent or reduce the likelihood of contracting genital herpes.
Avoid All Sexual Activity
The only sure way to avoid herpes is to avoid all sexual contact. This includes abstaining from vaginal intercourse, oral sex, anal sex and genital-to-genital contact.
Have Sex Only With a Monogamous, Non-Infected Partner
You will not get herpes if you only have sex with a monogamous partner who is not infected with herpes. If your partner has never had sexual contact with anyone else, you cannot contract herpes by having sex with him. If your partner has ever had sexual activity with someone else, he must be tested to learn if he has a herpes infection. The fact that someone has never had lesions is not adequate proof that he doesn't have the virus; many infected people do not have blisters or any physical signs of the virus. Mayo Clinic advises that open communication should be an important part of any intimate relationship.
Use a Latex Condom
Having sex with someone whose sexual background and STD status is unknown to you is risky. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention explains that most people with herpes simplex type 2 do not even realize they have it, so do not rely on thinking that you are safe because someone would not knowingly pass the virus on to you. If you do wish to engage in this activity, use a latex male or female condom every time you have sexual contact. Be aware that you can still contract herpes when properly using a condom.
Avoid Sex With a Partner Experiencing an Outbreak
If you are in a relationship with someone who has herpes, there are steps you can take to limit your odds of contracting it. Avoid all sexual contact when the individual is experiencing an outbreak. This is because the lesions are filled with the virus, making transmission highly likely. When your partner is free of outbreaks, use a latex condom every time you have sexual contact. Your partner may wish to take daily medication that reduces the risk of spreading the virus to you. Speak with your physician if you or your partner wishes to become pregnant for specific advice on how to achieve pregnancy without contracting herpes yourself. It is especially important to avoid getting herpes if you are pregnant or immunocompromised due to having HIV/AIDS, or are taking immunosuppressive drugs, or have another condition that affects the immune system.
