Even with individualized education plans and medication, some children with ADHD continue to struggle in a traditional school setting. They need one-on-one attention, so some parents decide to give homeschooling a try. Homeschooling is a good option for children who are labeled as "bad kids" at school due to their symptoms, and get bullied or teased by their peers.
Learning Issues
The main symptoms of ADHD--inattention, hyperactivity and inattention--make it extremely difficult for children to learn and succeed in school, according to KidsHealth.org. They have trouble concentrating, forget important things such as their books at school or their homework at home, blurt out answers when they haven't been called on and act socially inappropriately. They often have difficulty finishing quizzes, tests and classwork on time which can cause them to develop a low self-esteem.
Benefits
The major benefit of homeschooling is the ability to tailor learning to your child's needs. For example, if your child does not learn by listening or lectures, you can provide visual stimulation. He'll get one-on-one attention and be able to learn at his own pace. You can break down tests into manageable chunks of time instead of expecting him to sit still for an hour to take them. Plus, if he succeeds and gets good grades, his self-esteem will improve.
Considerations
You'll have to come up with a curriculum and method of learning for your child. ADDitudeMag.com reports that there are many homeschooling methods, including the Charlotte Mason method and the unschooling method. The important thing is to avoid trying to replicate traditional school at home, since you know it doesn't work for your child.
Effects
If you choose to homeschool your child, she won't be around peers her own age which can really impede her ability to increase her social skills. Your child will still need be exposed to other children. The good news is there are many ways you can do this. Reach out to other parents who homeschool their children and set up play dates and field trips. ADDitudeMag.com reports that many parents who homeschool work together to provide normal activities such as spelling bees, art classes and debate teams. Also, encourage your child to play with others in your neighborhood. Get her involved in sports such as soccer to expose her to new friends and reduce hyperactivity.
Tips
Practice patience. If you're feeling frustrated, your child probably is too, so take a quick break. Remember, the best part about homeschooling is the ability to work at your own pace and cater to your child's learning needs. Stimulate your child by revolving learning around things that she likes. For instance, if you're teaching your child addition and subtraction, use her Barbie dolls as examples. Also, cover subjects that she really dislikes early in the day when her concentration is at its best. Don't wait until the end of the day when your child is running out of patience and focus, because you'll both walk away frustrated.
