Beauty is subjective, but many pre-teens are under pressure from society and themselves to appear attractive. Young people entering their teenage years are acutely aware of the reality that people who are attractive, whether through physical appearance or charisma, get more positive attention. Physical appearance is, sometimes unfortunately, important in making a lasting first impression. These societal truths are difficult for a lot of pre-teens, especially those with some sort of disability.
Smile
Beauty is not measurable, and it means different things for different people. However, in mainstream society, beauty means physical attractiveness. A smile often makes someone appear more attractive to other people, according to Dr. Mark Stibich, a behavior-change expert. Cleanliness and nice, appropriate clothing also make your appear more attractive, despite any physical flaw.
Accentuate
Look in the mirror, and think about your best qualities. If you like your hair, spend a little extra time styling it or brushing it. If you like your arms, apply some moisturizer, and wear short-sleeve T-shirts to show them off. People probably still will notice your disability, but they also will notice that you have gorgeous hair, strong arms and a spirited smile.
Minimize
Everybody has things about themselves that simply cannot be changed. People with disabilities often have defining, physically noticeable issues with their bodies. Find ways to cover or hide any perceived imperfections with pretty scarves, long skirts or concealing makeup. By minimizing your least favorite features and accentuating your favorite assets, you should feel more confident.
Celerate Your Differences
Some people find it liberating to show off their differences rather than hide them. The happiness created from celebrating yourself for who you truly are can make you look even more beautiful and vibrant. You also can help others with the same disability feel better about themselves. The decision to minimize or celebrate your differences is up to you; choose the route that makes you feel happiest.
Make Time for Yourself
Make time to improve yourself. This will help you get to know your body better and enjoy it. Give yourself a facial, or visit a spa if your parents will take you. Ask for a haircut or shopping spree for your birthday. Exercise to improve your appearance, energy and self-esteem. If you have skin issues, consult a dermatologist, who might be able to find solutions for you.
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