Teen Pregnancy
Overview
According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the United States has the highest teenage pregnancy rate of all developed countries. About 1 million teenagers become pregnant each year and 95 percent of those pregnancies are unintended. Of those unintended pregnancies, almost one-third end in abortion.
If you are a young woman who finds out that you are pregnant, there are a variety of options for you:
1. Have the baby and take care of it.
2. Have the baby and place the baby up for adoption.
3. Have the baby and have a foster parent care for it for a short time.
4. Have the baby and live with her parents.
5. Have an abortion (done by a doctor in a state where it is legal).
If you decide to have the baby and take care of it, this can mean a big change in your life. Having a baby can be wonderful, but it is also hard work and costs a lot of money. The support of the child's father and your parents helps, but you may have to do this alone. Ask if this is something you are prepared to do. You must also get prenatal health care (special health care during pregnancy) right away.
Adoption means that you and the baby's father have decided that you cannot take care of the baby, and an agency or private attorney places the baby with another family. This is the adoptive family. It is important to get accurate information about adoption laws in the country and state where you reside. This is what trained option counselors, or professional pregnancy counselors, can help you find out.
If you aren't ready for a baby now, but will be in a few months or years, you could find a foster parent to care for the baby for a short time. Foster care means the baby is cared for by another person while you get ready to raise the baby permanently. Foster care can be difficult to arrange and may not be available in some areas of the U.S.
If you can tell your parents, regardless of your decision, it is often helpful. Many parents will be upset at first, but they may find out eventually anyway. It is better not to try to hide the fact that you are pregnant.
Symptoms
You may be pregnant if you have had sexual intercourse and have the following symptoms:
• Missed period
• Short, scant period
• Sore, tender or swollen breasts
• Nausea and/or vomiting
• Fatigue
• Frequent urge to urinate
• Mood swings
These symptoms most often don't occur until you have missed your period for about two weeks, but this varies from woman to woman. Symptoms can occur earlier for some women, sometimes just a week after a missed period. For more information on pregnancy symptoms, click here .
If you missed your period but have not taken a pregnancy test, don't assume you're pregnant. Continue to use contraception. Remember that the length of your menstrual cycle can vary.
If you have any or all of these symptoms, but don't want to go to a clinic yet, buy a home pregnancy test at any pharmacy. The test reacts to one of the many hormones in a woman's body. The hormone called HCG (human gonadotropic hormone) is in your body only when pregnant. Urine pregnancy tests are therefore designed to react with HCG after it is secreted into a pregnant woman's blood and urine. Many home pregnancy kits may be accurate as early as several days after a missed period.
Be sure to follow the test's directions when taking a home pregnancy test. You can use home pregnancy tests at any time of the day, but the urine is most concentrated in the morning. Be sure to refrain from aspirin use the day before and the day of the test.
Results can be one of two things:
1. Positive: Almost always means that you are pregnant. False positives (tests that says you are pregnant when you really are not) are very rare. Things that cause a false positive include marijuana, aspirin, hormones, birth control pills, methadone, tranquilizers and soap or protein in urine.
2. Negative: Usually means that you are not pregnant. False negatives (tests that say you are not pregnant when you are) are fairly common. This happens if it is too early in the pregnancy to get accurate results.
Treatment
Deciding what to do about an unplanned pregnancy can be difficult. An option counselor can help both women and girls with this decision. They will not make the decision or try to convince you to choose a particular course of action. Rather, they help all women decide for themselves.
These counselors have accurate information about all pregnancy options--having the baby, adoption, foster care and abortion. You do not need your parents' permission to talk with an options counselor, even if you are under 18. However, if you want to include your parents or partner in the decision, the options counselor can help.
If you believe that you have become pregnant within the past 24 to 48 hours but do not want to be pregnant, there is an emergency contraception method known as Plan B. It is FDA-approved and sold over the counter.
Prenatal care must be obtained soon after you find out that you are pregnant. It helps pregnant women stay healthy and have healthy babies. During prenatal visits you will have your blood and urine tested. You will also probably receive a prenatal vitamin to take every day. You also do not need parental permission to get prenatal care.
Prenatal care is especially important for teenagers, since teens are more likely to have a baby that weighs less than other babies at birth. Low-birth weight babies are more likely to have serious illnesses. An exam early in your pregnancy can help prevent this.
Teenagers are also more likely to eat improper foods during pregnancy. It is important to remember that whatever you eat, your baby eats, too. To have a healthy baby, you must also eat the right foods.
The same goes for alcohol use during pregnancy. If you drink any kind of alcohol, it reaches your baby right away. This can result in a baby born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS). Many babies with FAS are mentally retarded. Some have faces that don't look normal. Others have heart problems. Since even small amounts of alcohol can increase the risks of birth defects, the safest choice is to not drink at all during your pregnancy. After your baby is born, you should still avoid alcohol if you are breast-feeding.
Prevention
There are a variety of methods that can prevent pregnancy. The first is abstinence. However, if you do choose to have sex, there are a variety of contraceptives such as condoms, oral contraceptives or the Depo-Provera shot.
Ask Your Physician
Remember, you can be pregnant and have no symptoms at all except a missed period. If you have had sex without using birth control and are worried you might be pregnant, talk with a health care provider or with a counselor at your clinic.
If you use a home pregnancy test and suspect you are pregnant even though the results of the test are negative, you should have a pelvic exam by a GYN health care provider and blood test.
If you are going to continue your pregnancy, be sure to find a clinic or an obstetrician for prenatal care that you like and answers your questions.
If you want help quitting drugs, alcohol or cigarettes during pregnancy, talk to your health care provider or a local community support group.
Member Comments
by sexxiegurl on September 24, 2008 at 11:49 AM
what happens if your prenent at the age of 14
by sexxiegurl on September 24, 2008 at 11:50 AM
are you pregnet
by cerc on October 2, 2008 at 7:50 AM
i was pregnant at the age of 15 i am now 17 and my daugther is 2 it took a while to get my parents to understand my position, but now im living with my boyfriend and got my own place. It is hard to raise a child without some kind of support that's why theres social workers and people in agencys to help out...
by esha12345678910 on October 5, 2008 at 3:16 PM
how long does it take4 a sista to get pregnant cuz i toook a test a bout 6 days after an it was negitive
by babybooloveyou on October 4, 2009 at 1:52 PM
well you do it 2? days after your missed period or go to a doctor i don't trust pregnancy test so i just go to the doctor
by urmama on May 3, 2010 at 8:26 AM
do u wanna get pregnant? are you a SLUT?
by monkeyonegirl on October 9, 2008 at 10:59 PM
I'm 14 && I'm pregnant by a 19 year old. I'm keeping the baby, and I'm raising it.
by Carissabby131 on October 15, 2009 at 5:18 PM
Wow.
Me too.
Well i think i might be pregnant.
and he wants me to get rid of itt.
he told me to get an abortion.
i told him i cant do it. and he told me i can.
but i want to keep it, i jsut dont want him to get introuble because of the stupid law.
by dinergirl0123 on October 11, 2008 at 6:58 AM
im 17 and i had unprotexted sex at a party... and i got my period the day after sex.. can i still be pregnant? how long do i wait to take a pregnancy test?
by dinergirl0123 on October 11, 2008 at 6:58 AM
im 17 and i had unprotected sex at a party.. the next day i got my period.. can i be pregnant? how long do i have to wait to take a pregnancy test?
by IMHAPPY on October 28, 2008 at 5:33 AM
IM 15 AN IM PREGRANT...BY A 17 YEAR OLD...HE DONT WANT ME TO KEEP IT...
BUT MY FRIEND WANT ME TO KEEP IT...HE SAID HE WILL TAKE CARE OF IT...
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
by dasuwe on October 29, 2008 at 11:38 AM
What do YOU want to do? It's your body, and it's your choice. Would you like to go through the 9 months, and give birth to a baby (which, is quite painful, unless you have a C section)? If you do decide to keep it, there are limits on what you can and can't eat n drink (like no caffeine, and no super high sugar foods). For a little while afterwords you're advised not to have sex (even oral!), not to drive, and other things. Also, with the morning sickness it can make going to school hard, and teen moms are more likely to drop out of school. You should make the decision based on what YOU want, and whats best for YOU. Depending on what state/country your in, you may also need parental consent to have an abortion.
by mizzd8909 on November 3, 2008 at 7:56 AM
Hi my name is Crystal R. I am from Mississippi. I think you should keep your child. Fuck him if he don't want you to keep it. His ugly ass should have thought about that before he helped did it. You don't need his ass if anything he gone need you. Girl, Keep your child your mama didn't kill you. Look at it diz way he gone need dat child before that child needs him.
by Sanssouci on November 23, 2008 at 10:09 AM
It's up to you. It's a very personal decision, and it's one we cannot make for you. But I can give you my opinion. Personally, I think 15 is too young to raise a child. At 15 years old, you probably don't have money, a decent education, a place of your own, or anything else that a baby needs. And that means you cannot provide adequate care for a baby. Your friend might have offered to care for the baby, but does he have all that stuff? Does he have money in the bank, his own place, a job, someone to watch the baby while he works, an education, etc.? If not, then he can't care for the baby either. It's really not fair to have a baby before you can fully provide for it because that means the baby isn't getting everything he or she deserves, and it means someone else (usually the mother's parents) get stuck paying for another person that they didn't even choose to bring into this world. So when making your decision, think about everyone involved. Think about whether a baby is right for you right now or whether it would mean missing out on things. Think about whether it's fair to the baby to have a mother who cannot provide. Think about whether it's fair to your parents to have to support your baby.
by LiveLife708 on October 29, 2008 at 9:37 AM
I'm 14 and i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who is 15 and i'm waiting to see if im goin to get my period soon. my mom doesn't know about me havin sex and see just thinkin that i'm just friend with my boyfriend. Should I tell my mom? if i do get my period can i still be pregnant?
by dasuwe on October 29, 2008 at 11:34 AM
You should probably tell your mom if you are pregnant... If you are pregnant and decide to keep it, she'll find out anyway, but it's always better to give warning before you start to show. About being pregnant and still getting your period, when I was pregnant at 15 it took me a month and a half before I missed my period, but the chances of something like that are slim.
by shaquna on November 1, 2008 at 7:39 AM
hey im 14 i think maybe you should tell her if your pregnant.But if your not then next time please have safe sex ok are just don't have sex at all.
by iamay on November 1, 2008 at 9:28 AM
he im was pregnant
when i got pregnant i was 14 going on 15
i had it when i was 15 going on 16
its very hard somtimes
but im handle it ok
i really like it but it can be hard very hard
exspecially when there father not tryna do nothing
by heyitscokonifty on November 3, 2008 at 8:47 AM
im 16 and had unprotected sex at a party and he came inside me and i was on my period but like a day ro two after i was off, what should i do?
by Sanssouci on November 23, 2008 at 10:16 AM
If you're still wondering, you can take a pregnancy test at this point. You should also visit a doctor and get tested for STDs. In the future, make sure you at least use a condom.
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by alykitty on November 13, 2008 at 12:56 PM
um i am like really worried, i am getting all of these symptoms but its like been a week since it split, i am just really scared, i know my parents would murder me, i am 15
by Sanssouci on November 23, 2008 at 10:14 AM
So you were having sex a week ago and the condom broke? One week is kind of early to be experiencing pregnancy symptoms, so there's a good chance it's just your imagination or PMS. But you can take a home pregnancy test if your period is late. You should also visit a gynecologist. All girls need to see when they become sexually active. The gynecologist would also be able to give you another form of birth control to use in addition to your condoms so this doesn't happen again.
by biiancaaa on November 16, 2008 at 5:11 AM
i think people should have there proities straight!!
if you think you can handle a babyy and take caree of it for the rest of its and your life,
and you have the money to support it thann do it!!
butt if your gonna worry just be a little more carful!!
local medical clinics have free condoms if you ask.
Or you can go on the pill now there is a ring you can insert into your self every month!!
there are so many options you just have to talk to a doctor,,
and you will have no worry of being preganrt if you dont want to be!!
peace
by xxbbbxx on November 24, 2008 at 10:41 AM
im 17 i have had unprotected sex with my bf and i had my period but i don't know if it was my actually period cuz it was really light and not the same as it is normally and i don't have enough money to get an at home pregnancy test, and i don't have anyone to talk to WHAT IS IT??
by Sanssouci on November 24, 2008 at 12:13 PM
It's impossible for us to tell you if you are pregnant or not, only a pregnancy test can do that. If you cannot afford a pregnancy test, then you certainly cannot afford a baby, so why in the world would you have unprotected sex?
Go to www.plannedparenthood.org and search for a clinic near you. They can give you a pap smear, a pregnancy test, and birth control for free or low cost (price depends on your income). If you don't drive, have a parent, friend, or your boyfriend take you. If none of them can take you, take a bus. If you can't take a bus, stop having sex. Seriously. Sex is a huge responsibility. And if you can't afford a baby, don't have birth control, and aren't getting paps, then you are not ready for sex.
by mcsurdy23 on November 25, 2008 at 7:52 AM
im not even sure if i had sex , he said he came .. and as soon as he realized he jumped off. the only sign i've had was my breasts are sore. and for some reason , my pee has been really yellow.. it was only 3 days ago all this happened, but am i pregnant?!
by Sanssouci on November 25, 2008 at 8:51 AM
If a penis was in your vagina, then you had sex. Anytime you have sex, you can get pregnant. But if you have unprotected sex, obviously the chances of getting pregnant will go up. Three days is way too early to be noticing pregnancy symptoms though. So it's your imagination, PMS, or something else. You'll just have to wait to see if your period is late at this point. Take a pregnancy test if it is late. In the future, use protection every time. You can't rely on "the pull out method."
by promise_panda89 on November 29, 2008 at 3:59 PM
Well I'm 19 and about to st2t college n a coupla wks.my boyfriend n I had sex two days after my last period on the 24th. Well the condom broke while switching positions n I didn't take my bc that day I waited til I got home a coupla hrs later. I'm so scared b/c I think I'm pregnant n I've been feelin weird. I'm not sure if I should keep takin my pills r not n case I am n the affect that it might have. I'm taking yazmine n the past few days I've unusually got seriously bigger feelin the need to eat b/c it feels like somethings takin my food. My major concern is today I discovered hives of some sort all over my stomach n back. They don't itch r hurt. U can just see n feel d little tiny white bumps. I can't tell anyone n I don't have insurance to see a doctor r ne money to get a test. I'm scared. Please help!
by promise_panda89 on November 29, 2008 at 3:59 PM
Well I'm 19 and about to st2t college n a coupla wks.my boyfriend n I had sex two days after my last period on the 24th. Well the condom broke while switching positions n I didn't take my bc that day I waited til I got home a coupla hrs later. I'm so scared b/c I think I'm pregnant n I've been feelin weird. I'm not sure if I should keep takin my pills r not n case I am n the affect that it might have. I'm taking yazmine n the past few days I've unusually got seriously bigger feelin the need to eat b/c it feels like somethings takin my food. My major concern is today I discovered hives of some sort all over my stomach n back. They don't itch r hurt. U can just see n feel d little tiny white bumps. I can't tell anyone n I don't have insurance to see a doctor r ne money to get a test. I'm scared. Please help!
by promise_panda89 on November 29, 2008 at 3:59 PM
Well I'm 19 and about to st2t college n a coupla wks.my boyfriend n I had sex two days after my last period on the 24th. Well the condom broke while switching positions n I didn't take my bc that day I waited til I got home a coupla hrs later. I'm so scared b/c I think I'm pregnant n I've been feelin weird. I'm not sure if I should keep takin my pills r not n case I am n the affect that it might have. I'm taking yazmine n the past few days I've unusually got seriously bigger feelin the need to eat b/c it feels like somethings takin my food. My major concern is today I discovered hives of some sort all over my stomach n back. They don't itch r hurt. U can just see n feel d little tiny white bumps. I can't tell anyone n I don't have insurance to see a doctor r ne money to get a test. I'm scared. Please help!
by Sanssouci on November 29, 2008 at 5:38 PM
So you're talking about an incident that happened on November 24th? If you are pregnant from that, you would not be noticing symptoms this early. So your symptoms are due to your imagination or to something else, but not to pregnancy.
But that doesn't mean you're not pregnant. Anytime you have sex, pregnancy is a possibility. The only way to know for sure if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test. You do not need health insurance or money to see a doctor and have a pregnancy test. Visit a clinic like Planned Parenthood or Family Planning.
by cullen17 on November 30, 2008 at 7:56 PM
Last Tuesday my breasts began to feel weird. They feel light and almost weightless but heavier at the same time. I was worried about breast cancer but I feel no lumps. I am unsure if this could be a sign of pregnancy or not. I also felt nausea and some gagging but no vomiting or anything else and that has stopped. However my breasts still feel weird. I was told breasts go through different stages before starting a period. I have never felt that before at all but I don't know how long that has to occur before a period start..it's supposed to start this Friday. So my boobs started feeling weird a week and a half before.
The last time I had sex was Nov 15 and before that Nov 8 and that weekend I was on my period. I am on the pill but the last time we had sex I hadn't taken the pill for 24 hours and we used no condom. So afterwards I took the pill and have been taking regularly like always. I'm just put off by the breast issue.
by Sanssouci on December 1, 2008 at 8:17 AM
Your symptoms can mean a lot of different things. Breast changes can occur during pregnancy, PMS, when you're on birth control, and for a whole bunch of other reasons. If it continues, talk to your doctor about it.
It is impossible for us to tell you if you are pregnant. You will have to take a pregnancy test to find out.
If you are often late with your pill or if you often skip pills, you might not be fully protected. That means you need to either use condoms every time or talk to your doctor about other forms of birth control that you don't need to remember to take every day.
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by sexedavenger on December 2, 2008 at 6:04 AM
"If you believe that you have become pregnant within the past 24 to 48 hours but do not want to be pregnant, there is an emergency contraception method known as Plan B. It is FDA-approved and sold over the counter."
I am glad to see Plan B mentioned here because so few people know about it, but the information is inaccurate. First, Plan B cannot terminate a pregnancy that has already occurred. If you are pregnant and take Plan B, you will remain pregnant. It is NOT an abortion pill. Also, Plan B is most effective within the first 72 hours after unprotected intercourse, but it does have some effectiveness up to 120 hours (or five days). No study has shown that Plan B can terminate a pregnancy after it occurs, nor does it have any proven negative effects should a woman take it and later find out that she is pregnant. I have written the Livestrong site in hopes they would correct the information, but I never heard anything back.
You can find out about Plan B at their website www.go2PlanB.com. If you need to purchase Plan B, it is supposed to be sold over the counter at any pharmacy, however, there are pharmacies that will lie and say they do not carry it or you need a prescription. Plan B should be available at your local Planned Parenthood.
by teenag3_10 on December 8, 2008 at 7:52 AM
so, i know a lot of ppl are against teenage pregnancy. And when theyre my age, i understand that. i was almost a month when i found out. i hide it from my boyfriend, my parents, and even my friends. i didnt want anyone to know...
well, when i was about 9 weeks i got really bad pains that would last for hours. i was worried and broke down and told my stepmom. she was mad, but on the other hand she was worried for mine, and the baby's health. she took me to the doc and she said that the baby was just fine, and there was nothing to be worried about.
i knew i had to tell my boyfriend, i mean after all he was going to the dad.
he didnt freak like i thought he would. there were screaming, tears, and ?.
well, i started having the pains again when i was about 14 weeks. and me being a 1st time mommy i was worried yet again.
and when i was told i could not have been ready for. i dont think anyone could be ready to hear those words.
"im sorry to be the one to tell you, but its a miscarriage. its not your fault, these kind of things happen. and there was no telling that i was going to happen. if you have and ? or just need someone to talk to you know im here."
its only been a few days since i first found out, and its hard not to blame myself...
i mean, i was the mother, i should have known something was wrong.
i know, and understand that there was nothing i could have done. i took care of myself.
i did everything in my power to stay away from anything that could have hurt the baby.
i ate right, i sleep atleast 8 hours, i walked for 30 mins a day. i did everything the doc
told me to do...and it still happened....
how do you deal with this happening....how??
help, 911, sos.
someone.
by hersheylover123 on December 14, 2008 at 10:04 PM
first of all, i cannot imagine the pain you are going through. i have never been pregnant, and i do not claim to be an expert on the topic. I do know this: your doc was right-this is not your fault. I also know this: the pain doesn't go away, but it will fade in time. I know someone who miscarried 3 times and is still sad-even though she now has two kids. It's something that no one can tell you how to deal with-this is btwn you and God. I'm sure counseling and all that jazz wouldn't hurt, but prayer is more powerful than any of that stuff. I'm not trying to preach-i'm just saying that i know that Jesus's helped me through some awful circumstances that i wouldn't go through again for all the money in the world.
I'll be praying for you,
hersheylover123
by gaby13_g on December 9, 2008 at 11:24 AM
why do ppl do abortions it is not the childs falt
by teenag3_10 on December 10, 2008 at 7:46 AM
im prolife, and i ask that some ? all the time. i find the thought of abortions stupid, but then again some ppl have to get them. like....say the doc tells a women that if she gives brith to her baby it might kill her and she might not want to die so shell get one. and for some ppl who can not bring a baby into this world, like at the age of...idk...like 12. yea. but still. the way i see it, id rather have the baby and if i cant take care of it, id give it to a loving family to take care if it.
the way i see it, if youre gonna go have sex and get pregnant (rather you mean to or not) you should have him or her. its not their fault you got pregnant.
but other then that, the only thing i can think of is that they are only thinking of themself and not the unborn baby....which is stupid.
by walfordcali on October 15, 2009 at 3:37 AM
I'm 14 and i just got an abortion. its unfair on the child to be born if you cannot support it. My parents didnt know i was pregnant or that i had a bf. My other friend is 31 weeks pregnant. and i've seen what she has had to go through. first she was having triplets at 14, then one died of malnutrition, so now she is having twins. she was told she would die if she had the babies at 9 months. so instead she is having them at 8months. Seeing what she has gone through, with supportive parents, is hard enough, my parents would have kicked me out if they knew.
by sweetsolstice on December 21, 2008 at 2:03 PM
I will admit, I had considered abortion as an option if I ever got pregnant, that is before it actually happened.. I'm 17 and I'm nearly 8 weeks pregnant and wouldn't abort it for anything.. Once it actually occurred that I might be pregnant I was terrified that my parents would disown me or kick me out etc., but I ended up telling my mom and she scheduled an appointment for me at an OB/GYN.
I had taken 3 home pregnancy tests and they all came back not pregnant, but I had a feeling I was and that feeling was right. I just found out this past Monday that I am in fact pregnant and my family knows and I couldn't believe the support I got. The same people that I thought would hate me or disown me are supporting me 100%. I should also add that my parents are VERY overprotective and usually not very understanding about mistakes I've made, but they didn't react negatively at all.
Which brings me to the original reason I posted this: I believe that if you are a teenage girl that becomes pregnant from have voluntary sex, that you should have to keep the baby because abortions encourage irresponsibility and if you get pregnant then you should have to step up, be responsible and live with the mistake you've made. Whether they choose to keep the baby, put it up for adoption/in foster care or whatever decision they make they should still have to give birth to what they created by being irresponsible. I'm not being a hypocrite at all either since the same goes for me. I plan on having my baby and caring for him or her from that day on. I'm going to create a positive situation out of the situation that my boy friend and I caused.
by uloveme101 on December 22, 2008 at 7:47 PM
heyyy
so i think i am pregnet and i took like 2 test and its neg
but i think i am and i got ma period
but i dont no no wat to do plz help me
wat should i do
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by carmen_b45 on December 25, 2008 at 3:03 PM
I 18 and suspect I am pregnant because I am a few days late, however I'm not sure. If I am pregnant I will probably have an abortion not because I am irresponsible but because I got accepted into a university and am going away to college. So, abortion isn't wrong, sometimes things happen at the wrong time. Everyone makes mistakes but have an abortion only if your sure thats what you want.
by nevar09 on January 8, 2009 at 6:52 PM
don't abored you baby just give it up for adoption pleases i'm not trying to tell you what to do but God has a plan for that baby give to someone who can care for it don't please don't kill your child
may God Bless you
signed just a helpful friend
by kaileyann on January 12, 2009 at 12:56 PM
Just because you're going to college doesn't mean have an abortion, honestly, I'm 17 and a junior in highschool. I have my whole life ahead of me, I'm 3 months pregnant and honestly after my sonogram and seeing my baby i couldn't be any happier. Adoption is always there. There are many people looking for a new born. If you can't raise it I'm asking you to think about things research on abortion. && Make sure you know it's what you want. You'll be thankful you did && kept the baby in the future.
God Bless You
&& You're decision.
Remember;; Theres a reason for every child to be brought into this world
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by babyonboard on January 7, 2009 at 12:38 PM
hey well im not mentioning who i am but iv been 4 months late on my periode and yes iv had sex a bunch a times but only twice without protection and wen i did it with my boy friend he used thing so idonno wut to do my friends are telling me i look bigger and that my boobs have been getting bigger too so yea if u get this can u help me out cuz i don't wanna tell my parents yet well ever so yea bye
by nevar09 on January 8, 2009 at 6:47 PM
well all i can tell you is if you are you need to tell your parents yea they may get mad but it will be bettere of you and your unborn babies health and just pray every day for God to make a make for you
may God Bless you
signed a little helpful friend
by teenagers on January 12, 2009 at 9:45 PM
Teens premature pregnancy is highly devastating problem in whole world. Large numbers of teenage girls are suffering from the side effects of teen pregnancy. These girls have to face the problems physically, mentally and socially also.
http://www.troubledteensguide.com/
by troubledone on January 16, 2009 at 7:52 AM
Well im a teanager and i think my girlfriend is pregnant, i am so scared. shes said shes missed her period and her bellys been sore all i want to be is get a pregnancey test for her where can i get this?
by troubledone on January 16, 2009 at 7:52 AM
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by troubledone on January 16, 2009 at 7:57 AM
Well im soo scared, annd my girlfriend thinks she is pregnant, shes missed her period this month and i don't know what to do, she cant be pregnant because when we had sex i used a condom and plus we didnt have sex for long just like 1 minute because someone came in, it was our first time. We both never have had sex before, and we want to have a future she might keep it if she is pregnant but i don't want to because i want to live my life. please tell me what to do, where can we get a preganacey test from?. please please help me!
by frightenedteen on January 20, 2009 at 7:32 AM
hi im very young and fear i may be pregnant.
i took tests when i first found out the contreceptive wasnt safe.
the pregnancy tests showed that i was safe
but i have heard that you can get pregnant in a month..
i got really scared and havent done anything about it yet..
i have skipped a period and they are only scarce.
if i am pregnant do you think i would know by now.
it's been three months and it is only as of now im starting to feel dizzy and nausia.
i cannot keep this child.
but i don't know what to do.
please help!
by whorker on January 21, 2009 at 8:19 PM
so im so scared, i think i might be pregnant, its been maybe a week, we didnt use a condom, n i pee all the time. n if i am i cant tell my family.....wat should i do?????
by honeydoo on January 23, 2009 at 12:12 PM
it is okay and you can get through this. their is help eveywhere out their. and if you cant talk to your parent tell an older friend you can trust and when you are ready tell your parent cause its going to hurt you if you dont. tell the truth and yeah at first they will get mad but then they will relize you have a baby inside of you and most defitnily inform the babys dad that he is going to be a father and what is he going to do to help you and the baby.
by honeydoo on January 23, 2009 at 12:15 PM
you can go to your nearest planned parenthood clinic. they are very helpful.
by colbyman on January 24, 2009 at 8:59 PM
To troubledone--your girlfriend could be pregnant even if you used a condom because condoms have a pretty high failure rate. If you are worried about "living your life" then decide right now to wait to have sex again until you're ready to possibly be a father. Don't risk a pregnancy if you aren't ready. It's not fair to your girlfriend and it's not fair to your son or daughter! If she is pregnant, find a pregnancy resource center in your area that will give you a free pregnancy test--not Planned Parenthood that might encourage you to abort your baby. Hopefully the center you go to will have men's services so there might be a guy there for you to talk to.
by colbyman on January 24, 2009 at 9:07 PM
Hey "troubledone", and all you other guys out there you may think your GF's are pregnant, or they are pregnant---check out this website-- www.guys.pregnancychoice.net It has lots of info on it about being a teen dad, about sex, pregnancy, etc. Check it out--lots to read.
by deesbabymama on January 26, 2009 at 10:23 AM
i need help my bf and i r tryin get preg. we had sex on sat how long will it b till i kn if i got preg? u can email me at deesbabymama@ymail.com
by DALLAS126 on March 9, 2009 at 6:57 PM
I HAVE A 13 YEAR OLD THAT IS PG I NEED HELP SHE SAYS SHE HAS NEVER HAD SEX EVER...BUT SHE IS PG SHE SAYS PLAYED WITH HERSELF WITH CUM SHE FOUND IN THE BATHROOM AN GOT PG 5 PEOPLE SAID THEIR IS A CHANCE OF THAT.PLEASE IF THEIR IS ANYONE OUT THEIR WITH INFORMATION ON SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE SHARE .I WILL BE CKECKING BACK AGAIN THANK YOU FROM A LOVEING MOM
by punkrockbby22 on March 27, 2009 at 10:28 AM
if someone sticks spern in to therir vagina they can get pregant they dont have to have actual sex
by punkrockbby22 on March 27, 2009 at 10:28 AM
a girl can get pregant without having sex if someone just sticks sperm inside of her
by scared_of_life on July 13, 2009 at 12:49 AM
Im not really sure that can happen bc sperm only last like NOT LONG outside of the body.
by walfordcali on October 15, 2009 at 3:43 AM
its very possible to have a child without actual sex, through masturbation, even if you have very little sperm on your finger.
by Mike444 on March 11, 2009 at 6:24 PM
bullshit PLANNED PARENTHOOD CLINIC is dumb as hell and they suck ass
by hizworld14 on April 12, 2009 at 2:42 PM
mehh an my bf had sex almost a few weeks ago mayb 3 weeks an i had a period lyk a week after that bt it wuznt normal it lastd 4 a day than quit than 3 dyas later startd than stopp[d than startd again lyk a few days later 4 half a day an ive been peeing alot an hve had these stings n my stomake
am i prego? email meh at ally2013softball@yahoo.com
by teenagers22 on June 17, 2009 at 9:40 PM
Teens private Christian schools are the right place for those defiant, depressed and struggling teens. The schools offer religious based education programs to the students, which is very effective and helpful to get rid out from various troubled teens problems.
http://www.restoreteens.com/
by walfordcali on October 15, 2009 at 3:44 AM
thats not correct. i go to an all girls, christian private schoold and i see so many troubled, slutty and depressed girls come through. it doesnt make a difference, the difference is just giving the teen the support they need
by 2f6aaa77 on June 20, 2009 at 1:45 PM
My boyfriend and I had sex last night. He used a spermicde condom, and there were no breaks. After for only a few seconds he didn't use the condom and didn't cum. I'm so incredibly scared and I can't have a child. I am fifteen- is there any way i can buy Plan B? Are there any symptoms i can experiance immediately? :(
by Sanssouci on June 28, 2009 at 11:36 AM
Yes, you can get Plan B from a clinic like Planned Parenthood. But you need to take it very soon after sex, so it's too late for that now.
You cannot rely on symptoms to determine whether you're pregnant or not though. The symptoms for early pregnancy are the same as symptoms for lots of other things. The only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. In the future make sure you use birth control every single time and for the entire time.
by 2f6aaa77 on June 20, 2009 at 1:46 PM
Please help
I don't know what to do
by TMLOVEKB on July 5, 2009 at 3:02 PM
I am a 15 yr. old girl, who had sex using the "pull-out method" with her 16 yr. old bf. Now, I'm afraid i am pregnant because i've been having pregnancy symptoms. Though, I am not sure if it would be to early for them and if they are just there because I'm paranoid. My periods are so out of whack that i don't know when to take a test, but i don't want to talk to my mom until i'm positive that i am.
by Sanssouci on July 7, 2009 at 1:05 PM
The pull out method is very risky, especially for teens, so you definitely could be pregnant from that.
Never try to determine whether you're pregnant or not by symptoms though. It's very easy to trick yourself into having certain symptoms when you're worried, such as an upset stomach or even a missed period. The symptoms of early pregnancy are also very similar to the symptoms of other things, including an oncoming period. So the only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test.
If you're irregular determining when to take the test may be difficult. You can try testing a month after your last period, then testing again a week or two later if you still don't have a period. Or you can go to the doctor for a test since theirs are often more accurate in early pregnancy than the home tests.
Sex requires a lot of maturity and self control. If you two are going to keep being sexually active, you need to use at least one reliable form of birth control, such as the pill or condoms. If you two don't know about your birth control options or where to get birth control, then it means you need to do more research before having sex again. You can go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood or Family Planning for help. You can even go without your parents if you want and if you have someone else to give you a reliable ride.
by BrittanyReneaa on July 7, 2009 at 7:27 PM
I had a period May 10th. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend May 25th and 26th. I havent had a period since May. I took three pregnancy tests and they were all negative. I have been sleeping alot, and I constantly have to pee. Even though three pregnancy tests were negative, I may have taken them too early. The last one I took was Sunday. What should I do??
by Sanssouci on July 7, 2009 at 7:58 PM
Missing a period, sleeping a lot, and needing to pee can definitely all be signs of pregnancy. But they can also be signs of stress.
You can test as early as the first day of your missed period. Since you're talking about a sexual encounter that took place nearly two months ago, you're definitely not testing too soon at this point. So if you've had three negative results, you're probably not pregnant.
However, you can check with a doctor if you want. The doctor can give you another pregnancy test, and that way you'd know for sure that it was done right. In the meantime, make sure you use protection every single time unless you're actually trying to get pregnant and have the means to support another person.
by just_jessica on July 8, 2009 at 7:58 PM
im 14 turning 15 and i am pregnant too,it sucks but im keeping the baby. i know it'll be hard especially since the father cant take of it (has to live in texas) it went by so fast im so confused but im learning to own up to my mistakes,cuz in life thrs always an inevitable consequence
by izzyfbabie on July 10, 2009 at 12:57 PM
im 17 n i had unproteced sex 4 days aqo
n im startinq 2 feel like i qot pee all da time
n tender breats
isnt it a lil early?
by Sanssouci on July 10, 2009 at 9:13 PM
Yes, it's too early for you to be experiencing symptoms if you are pregnant that. So your symptoms are more likely due to stress or an oncoming period.
Take a pregnancy test if your period is late. In the meantime, you should be using birth control every single time!
by justallen89 on July 12, 2009 at 7:58 AM
A couple days ago, i was making out with my boyfriend. We were down to boxers and panties. He might have pre-ejaculated and we didnt know. We didn't feel anything. I was also wearing a liner because my period ended the day before. Could I be pregnant? I've been peeing a lot and I felt kind of nauseous that night but this could all just be my paranoia.
by Sanssouci on July 12, 2009 at 10:36 AM
It\'s difficult to get pregnant with clothes on. Pretty much the only way that\'s possible is if semen completely soaked through your underwear and was able to touch your vagina.
by scared_of_life on July 13, 2009 at 12:46 AM
Im kelsy. I am 18 years old. A few months ago i was on birth control. I stoped about a month ago. I was ment to start my prd. 2 weeks befor July 4th. (( didnt get it)) ((didnt do anthing befor that time)) Me && my boyfriend have had unsafe sex many times the past few weeks. He had cum in me. I was wondering how long i should wait befor i take a test bc my prd. isn\'t normal so that wouldnt really help me any! Thanks
by Sanssouci on July 13, 2009 at 11:18 AM
You should be able to take a test now. If it is negative but you still do not have a period in a week or two you can test again.
And of course, you need to be using birth control unless you two are trying to get pregnant right now and have the money, room, health insurance, time, knowledge, etc. that having a baby generally requires.
by scaredd2222 on July 19, 2009 at 1:52 AM
me and my boyfriend had sex 4 weeks ago but we used a condom.My period is 2 weeks late could i be pregnant?
by Sanssouci on July 19, 2009 at 11:52 AM
Yes, no method of birth control is 100% effective. You can take a pregnancy test to find out. In the future, you could invest in a backup method of birth control to use in addition to your condoms.
by ViRgO09 on July 20, 2009 at 7:08 AM
H3yy I'm 17 years old and i have been having unprotected sex since i was 15 years old and yes i been pregnant once but my boyfriend made me get and abortion but i didnt on that because i really didnt want to kill my first child, it hurt me like crazy but about a month later we had sex again and when i found out that i was pregnant i told him and wanted to keep it but he keep doing stupid stuff that keep me stressed and i had a miscarriage and he was mad but it was his fault. And til this day me and him is still having unprotected sex and i have a feeling that I'm pregnant again but I'm scared to find out because idk how ima tell my parents.
by Sanssouci on July 20, 2009 at 9:19 AM
It sounds like you two are not responsible enough to be having sex then. Birth control is easy to use and easy to get, so there is absolutely no excuse for not using it.
Go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood as soon as possible. They can give you a pap and pregnancy test. They can also give you birth control if you decide to stay sexually active, but like I said, it sounds like you're not ready for it quite yet and should probably hold off until you can handle the responsibility that comes with it.
by ohmybaby on July 20, 2009 at 10:18 PM
hi. im 18 going on 19 next month.. i was wondering if im pregnant? me and my boyfriend had sex last july 6, 8, and 11. and after that week im not feeling well.. before i can sleep as late as i can but these days i get sleepy, i feel like i want to vommit and sometimes feel like fainty. and sometimes imma kind of tired even if im just relaxing.. and i just took my pregnancy test and the result turns into a one line that is visible and the other one is slightyly visible.. does it mean i am positively pregnant?? thanks
by Sanssouci on July 21, 2009 at 9:40 AM
Those symptoms could mean pregnancy, but they could also mean many other things.
A faint positive result on a pregnancy test often means early pregnancy, but it can also mean you didn't follow the instructions properly. You can visit a doctor to have another test done or you can wait a few days and perform another home test.
If you plan on keeping the baby if you are pregnant make sure you avoid alcohol, avoid cigarettes, see an ob-gyn, avoid illegal drugs, ask your ob-gyn about any prescription or OTC drugs you take, and eat healthy.
If you are not trying to get pregnant, make sure you are using protection every time.
by ohmybaby on July 21, 2009 at 4:32 PM
thanks. me and my boyfriend was thinking that we're going to keep the baby coz' we came into this responsibility so we should take charge of it.. but we're on the part that how will i say it to my parents. we're kinda worried about it.
by cdouglas123 on July 25, 2009 at 4:34 AM
im 16 nearly 17 and i think im pregnant. i have a full time job and a flat and a very suportive boyfriend. do you think i should keep the baby?.
by FayyF on July 31, 2009 at 12:15 PM
iv only just turned 14 but i think i might be pregnant as i had unprotected sex wit my bf at the end of may i have been on my pirod evrey month so far tho but iv put on wieght i normaly dont and its like a baby bump an im allways hungrey never youst to be an my breasts are very! sore an my wee is very yellow Plese help! i dont no who to talk to iv told my bf hes fine wit it but we dont no exsacly wat to do Please Help Me! :s
by FayyF on July 31, 2009 at 12:22 PM
and im gagging all he tim and allways feeling sick
this goes wit the other one above ^^^^^^^^^^^^
by asianbaby10 on August 6, 2009 at 11:45 PM
hi , im destiny. i had an unprotective sexs couple days ago, with my bestfriend. yeah i know its stupid. im 14 years old. and i've been missinq my period for a while now, but this was my first time i ever had sexs in my life. ive been peeinq alot lately. and something bothers me, wen i pee, and when i pee, theres like light blood. im scared if im pregnant. help me immediately.! ):
by katrinasteel on August 11, 2009 at 5:29 PM
hi, i was hoping if you could help, last week while i was having sex with my boyfriend i noticed that some of his cum was at the bottom of the condom so i asked him to pull it down a bit but as he did he touched some of it but wiped his hand on a towel but then touched the condom with the same hand to put it back in as he was holding himself up with the other and today ive noticed that my belly is quite bloated and the lower part feels hard, im not due on till the end of the month, could it just be me panicing or could i be pregnant? x
by vane011 on August 12, 2009 at 5:13 PM
hey im 13 years old turning 14 very very soon i got my period july 22nd and it ended july 28 my period comes every 3 weeks as ive noticed and well....
alright well today is my 15th day after my period and well my boyfriend and i got intimate and he had his boxers on and i was wearing nothing and well his pre *** was coming out and went through his boxers more like just wet his boxers on the outside and touched the vaginal hole and maybe did stick it in me just a little little bit can i get pregant keeping in mind he had boxers on and today is my 15th day i have a 21 day cycle and suppose to get my period this tuesday> please help super paranoid-
by katrinasteel on August 13, 2009 at 5:51 PM
you could get pregnant if it was soaked through coz pre cum has some sperm in it, not alot but some, and if he put his dick in you with it being like that then it increases the chances a bit more, but seems as u have a 21 day menstural cycle you should be ok to be honest x
by Shelly09 on August 14, 2009 at 2:41 AM
Sooo idk if I'm pregnant or not... i keep thinking i am because I'm having these horrible pains in my lower stomach which i haven't had before. and i read that was a sign.. idk what to do.. my period is suppose to come in like 5 days but idk if its cause of that or what? tell me what u think please
by soccerchick27 on August 19, 2009 at 4:17 PM
Do you think i'm pregnant? I had sex on Sunday. we didn't use protection which was a HUGE mistake and i don't know where to get birth control cuz i live in a small town. He didn't cum inside me but i know that usually doesn't work. My pee is really yellow and i started to feel nausus* this morning but it hadn't happened before. My period is supposed to come in like 11 days and i'm getting like really anxious! am i just supposed to wait?
by Gabbb on August 19, 2009 at 7:28 PM
I had sex on Friday night and we used a condom and then we had sex agian and we didn't use a condom, but it was 20-30 minutes after the first time and he didn't cum and it was for less than 30 seconds, can I be pregnant?
by clg0893 on August 22, 2009 at 2:19 PM
i am 16 years old & i think i might be pregnant.. the sex happened about a month ago, no more than that.. i've missed my period, i have mood swings, & i've gained some weight. im not too sure what i should do? i havent taken a test yett.. my mom knows about the situtation & she thinks i should get an abortion, i dont think so. i mean, its not a good look to be 16 & pregnant, of course what will your friends & family think runs through my mind all day, but it was my decision to have sex & if im pregnant i think i need to take responsibility for it.. im not too sure what i should do, im not even 100% positive im pregnant yet... i just need help on the situtation? any advise?
by Sanssouci on September 4, 2009 at 10:13 PM
The only way to know is by taking a test.
I am not a huge fan of abortion, but I am also not a fan of 16 year old mothers. Most 16 year olds are still kids who can't provide anything that babies need. So I'd probably side with your mother.
by clg0893 on August 22, 2009 at 2:24 PM
also, i've been havin these really bad pains in my lower stomach that feel 2 times worse than cramps, i also get nausous & cant handle certain smells.. is that a sign?
by ShanezBabygurl on August 24, 2009 at 9:01 PM
im 14 and possibly might be pregnant. i have all the symptoms of pregnancy except for vomiting.....so far. my boyfriend will stay with me and help me raise the child bc neither of us believe in giving up or abortion.but im not sure how to tell my parents, i havent taken a test yet but, if i am what do i say? should i just straight up say it or kind of hint at it? i just dont know. i need major help. my boyfriend works two jobs and i have a job but what do we do? i am sooo confused and scared.
by Sanssouci on September 4, 2009 at 10:10 PM
Be upfront about it.
by clg0893 on August 26, 2009 at 2:16 AM
i'm pregnantt; juss found out today, im 6 weeks, they assume.. i'm thinkin about keeping it.. i think i should take responsiblity for my actions.. what do you guys thinkk?
by babybooloveyou on October 4, 2009 at 1:47 PM
never kill a baby abortion is never the option think if you do want an abortion then your killing your own little innocent babies life and you never want that to happen
by torres-girl on August 27, 2009 at 10:54 PM
Hello. I'm 16 yrs old me & my boyfriend have been together for 2yrs. Now I think I might be pregnant I don't remember the last time we had sex but almost everytime me & my boyfriend see eachother we have sex I got my period but I'm having symptoms of pregnancy even my friends notice that I've been really tired lately I get really bad lower back pains & sharp pains in my stoamch all of a sudden. We have been having unprotected sex ever since last year when I lost my virginity to him & I never thought I could get pregnant. I've been having to pee alot & it's really yellow my period only lasted for 3 days. I need advice is there any chance that I could be pregnant.
Please let me know something as soon as possible
thanks
:)
by Sanssouci on September 4, 2009 at 10:09 PM
It's possible. The only way to know is by taking a pregnancy test. And you need to be using protection every time.
by scaredteen17 on September 24, 2009 at 11:25 AM
I Am 17 years old and im worried.I have this boyfriend me and him have been together, about 1 year.He is 24 years old. Before you juge me you would have to walk in my shoe's to understand why i am with him.I am in love with him and i would do anything for him...i think thats why i found myself in this situation rite now.
I THINK IM PREGNANT!
-I took a home preagnancy test but it came out neqative.
(2 weeks after inccedent.)
-Now it is about 7 weeks and 2 days since we last had sex.
-I havent gotten my period for about a month and a half now since the last time i had it.
-And i still havent takken another test.( I think im to scared to.)
my reasons for being scared are, My boyfriends a drunk.
And my mom is a sinqle parent of four, and i would hate to
take any finacial help from her what so ever. i have an autistic brother
who really needs the help.
So the only people i have told would be My boyfriend and his mother.
I need advice what to do....
Im 17 And scared.
How to tell my mother?
And Should i take another test.?
Are dollor store test accurate?
by scaredteen17 on September 24, 2009 at 11:30 AM
and to add we never used protection... just a really fuckin dumb teen move!
by Sanssouci on September 26, 2009 at 9:10 PM
I am going to say a lot of thing you probably do not want to hear.
Why aren't you using protection? It's inexpensive, easy to get, and easy to use. So there is on excuse whatsoever for not using it unless you're just plain not mature enough to be having sex in the first place.
I can understand that you love your boyfriend. But sometimes love isn't enough. A relationship can be really unhealthy even if love is involved. If this guy is 24, a drunk, and not even urging you to get on birth control, he's sounds like a huge loser. Losers don't usually have good relationships, and you really don't want to have a baby with one.
So here's my advice. Either leave the loser or sit him down and have a serious talk. Let him know that if you're going to stay he needs to stop drinking and be a lot more responsible. Let him know that there isn't going to be any more sex until you have protection. Have him grab some condoms at the store at least.
Tell him he also needs to take you to Planned Parenthood. You can search for a clinic near you at www.plannedparenthood.org Planned Parenthood is a clinic. They offer birth control, pap smears, STD tests, pregnancy tests, and more. So they'll be able to tell you if you are pregnant, and they'll help you pick out a method of hormonal birth control. And all those services are free or low cost. Considering your age and that your mom does not have much money, it'll probably be free for you.
If you are pregnant, your options are keeping the baby, giving it up for adoption, or having an abortion. I think keeping the baby would be an awful idea to be honest. It sounds like you're in no position to give a baby even a halfway decent life at this point in your life. So I would suggest looking more into abortion or adoption. The women at Planned Parenthood will be able to give you more information.
by scaredteen17 on September 26, 2009 at 9:35 PM
Hey,Sanssouci!
Thanks for response...
you'll be pleased to hear im one less teen having a baby!
three days ago..I posted ^ as you can see, since then I have left the loser! He had absolutely nothing going on for him and he is a waste of our tax's. He applyed for foodstamps and money support for him self...so they granted it to him_ewww not even kinda atractive...
Anyways, I told my mother about the scare, and she took me to the doctor and i had a pregnancy test. results were NEGATIVE.!
Finally, I had my period this morning. I wish some one would have told me poor diet's cause delayed period.
To all Girls..
Use the Glove OR No Love!!!
I know! who am I to give advise rite...?
Well youll be shocked to hear...
While i was worried about being PREGNANT!
I CONTRACTED A STD! KNOWN AS A (sexually transmitted diseases)
But lucky me I have hope there is a cure for what I have
But you might not be some dont have a cure..some could kill you.
STAY SAFE :)
LIVE LIFE :)
LIVE STD FREE!
by Sanssouci on September 27, 2009 at 12:27 PM
Great to hear that you left him, talked to your mom, saw a doctor, and are not pregnant. Sounds like you have made a lot of mature decisions since posting! Keep up the good work. Get paps, get birth control for the future, and use condoms for both birth control and STD protection!
by SweetHeartx33 on September 28, 2009 at 1:39 PM
hey everybody , im 15 years old and my boyfriend and i have been having
unprotected since i lost my virginity, him and i have been dating for 9 months and i think i might be pregnant...is too quick for us to have a child .. but i don't wanna kill our baby, my brother and his girlfriend are having a baby and its hard for them to convise our parents too keep and shes 17 years old and my brother is 19 ... should i tell my parents ??
by Sanssouci on October 1, 2009 at 10:42 PM
Why would you not be using protection if you don't want a baby? That doesn't make much sense, does it?
Just my opinion, but I don't think you should keep the baby. At 15 years old, there is just no way you can give a child the life that he or she deserves. You're still a child yourself. If you really don't want an abortion, look into adoption.
You can tell your parents so that they can take you to the doctor. You can also go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood, even without your parents.
In the future, use birth control or don't have sex. It's inexpensive, easy to get, and easy to use. You can get condoms over the counter, and you can get other forms of birth control from a doctor or from Planned Parenthood. So you have absolutely no excuse for not using it.
by Racheldelaine on September 30, 2009 at 8:15 AM
I'm thirteen, And I fear that I may be pregnant. My boyfriend is fifteen but he is not the boy I want to have a child with. He already has a two year old daughter that he never gets to see because of the childs mom, and he says he wants to, but I don't know if he's telling the truth. He tells me all the time that if I am to be pregnant then he will stay with me and the baby, but how am I supposed to know that he's telling the truth? What if he's just lying so I will stay with him for now.? If I do turn out pregnant then I will keep my baby, because I do not believe in abortion, but I do not know how I am going to take care of it. Besides my boyfriend and my parents, I have no income. He works at a shipyard and sometimes he goes out on the boat, but still thats only about $100 a day. Is that enough money to take care of our baby?
by Sanssouci on October 1, 2009 at 10:54 PM
You need to have a lot if you are going to raise a baby. It's not even just about money either.
First of all, you need to think about health insurance. At 13, I doubt you have your own health insurance. If you have any, it's probably mom and dad's, right? So then the question is, will their health insurance costs go up if you have a baby? Whose insurance will the baby be on? You can't stay on mom and dad's health insurance forever either. Most insurance companies make parents drop their kids when the kids get out of school. So you only have a few more years.
Where will the baby live? I doubt you have your own place. That baby won't stay a baby for long either. So he or she will need their own room. And having another person in the house, even just a small child, will raise things like the electric bill.
Who will watch the baby? If you're 13, you should have quite a few more years of school a head of you. That means someone else has to watch the baby all day every day, and childcare is not free.
So even if your boyfriend stays by your side (which is doubtful, most couples your age do not stay together) and gives you all his money, a 13 year and a 15 year old just cannot provide for a baby. You'd basically have to have your parents provide most of the time, energy, money, health care, food, etc. Even if they can afford it, that's not really fair to them. And it's really not fair to the baby either.
Like I said to some of the other girls, there is no excuse for not using birth control. I don't think it's right to make a baby pay for your mistakes just because you had sex before you were ready. Every baby deserves more than that. So if you are pregnant, I would recommend considering adoption.
Talk to your parents about it or visit a clinic. Planned Parenthood would be able to give you a pregnancy test, birth control, information, and more.
by Miss-confused on October 2, 2009 at 8:46 AM
Im 16 and will be 17 very soon and i am pregnant me and my boyfriend who is 19 had unprotected sex on May 27 and didnt use the pull out method. My boyfriend is very supportive and is very happy that im pregnant, there is just one problem im 4months pregnant but im not showing yet and i asked the docter why im not showing yet and he said because im carrying my baby in my breast cause they have gotten huge i havent told my mom yet cause she havent seen me yet i just talk to her everyday. me and my boyfriend has our own apartment and we both have jobs so we can do alot for the baby i plan on finishing school and going to college but i just need to find out how to tell my mom she probably wont be mad but i really dont know. I also have a question because i know alot of girls that have babies and their boyfriends were very supportive throughout the pregnancy but when they had the baby they changed but i dont think my boyfriend will do that because he wanted this baby and this is hi first child and he tells me all the tyme that he will never do me like that and i believe him but im still a little scared please give me advise of what i should do if he changes
by Sanssouci on October 2, 2009 at 1:09 PM
Many women notice an increase in breast size during pregnancy and breastfeeding. That's due to the hormones and milk production.
Your baby is carried below your breasts, in your uterus. Most women don't really start to get their big pregnant belly until they are five or six months along. Before that, the baby is very small.
If your doctor told you that your breasts are large because your baby is growing in them, you might need to find a new doctor. Do some research and learn about what is going on with your body and your baby's body during this time. Because women who understand their baby's development are more likely to eat healthy, avoid alcohol, etc.
I'd recommend telling your mother as soon as possible. If she is close by, she might be able to help you find a good doctor, drive you there, etc. If she's not local, she can still give you valuable information.
No one knows what the future holds. So your boyfriend might stay with you, or he might not. If he doesn't stay with you, you two would need to decide what to do about the baby. You could have custody, he could have custody, or you two could share custody.
But at 16 and 19 years old, it'll probably be very difficult for either of you to care for a child on your own while still working and going to school. To be honest, I can't imagine a 16 and 19 year having everything a child deserves even when they are together. So make sure you are putting your own desires aside. Make decisions that are best for this child.
by babybooloveyou on October 4, 2009 at 1:41 PM
im 16 and i am pregnant but unlikke all the other young moms and stuff i don't have the babys father their to support me instead he ignores me and acts like i don't exsist except for when he told the guy i like all the stuff we did and stuff like that. i have a boyfriend but he doesn't know im pregnant and when he does know i probably will not have him as a boyfriend anymore. my friend is 14 going to be 15 and we both are sophmores at the same school in the same grade and we both are pregnant. but her boyfriend is their for her and everything. im also a cheerleader so the work outs and stuff are helping not showwing but it still kinda is. i don't know how to tell my mom i am to afraid please tell me what i should do to tell my mom
by Sanssouci on October 4, 2009 at 1:54 PM
Sex is a big responsibility. If you are ready for sex, you are ready for all the things that come along with sex. That means communication, seeing an ob-gyn, using birth control, having a plan of action in case of accidental pregnancy, etc.
It's hard, but you'll probably have to come right out and tell your mom. Write her a note if that makes it easier. But the longer you wait, the harder it will be. And if you wait too long, you might have fewer options. For example, you can only get an abortion early on in pregnancy. So if you wait too long, you lose that as an option.
I'd recommend telling your boyfriend too. He might stay with you, or he might leave you. But either way, you have to start taking responsibility for your actions. And it's not fair to keep something like this from him.
In the future I hope you will be a lot more careful. Birth control is so inexpensive, easy to get, and easy to use. So there is no excuse for having unprotected sex if you're not ready for a baby.
by babybooloveyou on October 4, 2009 at 1:44 PM
plus we didn't use protection and i don't have a job because cheerleading.
by babygirl17 on October 11, 2009 at 12:21 PM
I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18 I'm 9weeks pregnant. We decided to keep the baby and raise it. I have yet to tell my parents I just need advice on how to tell them.
by Sanssouci on October 13, 2009 at 8:56 PM
Just come right out with it. You can write them a note if that makes it easier. But don't beat around the bush and don't stall. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. And waiting can actually be bad for your baby's health if you need your partner's help getting to your doctor appointments, buying your prenatal vitamins, buying healthy food, etc.
by Carissabby131 on October 15, 2009 at 5:20 PM
Im 13 turning on 14.
I might be pregnant with a 19 year old.
He wants me to get rid of it.
He doesnt want to go to jail.
My mom doesnt know.
If i tell her she would flip out.
But she wouldn't get him introuble because of his age.
What should i do ?
by Sanssouci on October 16, 2009 at 3:38 PM
Talk to your mom. Of course she'll flip out, you did something incredibly careless. But you have to take responsibility for what you did, and going to your mom for help is the first step in that.
If you are pregnant, your options would be to keep the baby, have an abortion, or give the baby up for adoption. I would not recommend trying to raise a baby at your age though. 13 year olds don't have anything that babies need, and that's not really fair to the baby.
Now that you're sexually active, you'll have to start seeing an ob-gyn. The doctor will be able to tell you for sure whether you are pregnant, give you birth control, give you information, give you STD tests, and more.
In the future I hope you will be more careful. There is no excuse for not using protection.
by jk909 on October 21, 2009 at 2:02 AM
im 14. me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex kind of about two weeks ago. i havent been torn though, so it wasnt really sex. i was meant to get my period the day after we did it, but its been over two weeks and i still havent got it. ive been having thick white discharge for the past 4 days and my vaginas been sore and itchy. he didnt cum in me though. is there any way i could be pregnant? im really worried
by Sanssouci on October 22, 2009 at 12:36 PM
If a penis was in your vagina, you had sex. It doesn't matter if it wasn't there long, if your hymen is still intact, if he didn't ejaculate, etc. It's still sex. And yes, you still can get pregnant from it. The only way to know if you are pregnant right now is to go to the doctor or to take a home pregnancy test.
If you are not pregnant, you should still see a doctor because you could have an infection. The doctor will also be able to give you birth control.
And obviously if you are don't know the basics when it comes to sex and pregnancy, if you're not on birth control, and if you're not seeing an ob-gyn, you shouldn't have had sex. So make sure you are prepared next to time.
by PullitOut_Duh on October 21, 2009 at 1:34 PM
Come on kids! Being pregnant is no excuse for horrible grammar. The grammical errors in the comments posted are absolutly terrible. No teenager should raise a child if they are unable to offer a positive learning enviroment for their child. Dumb teenagers + SEX = Babies. Im a teenager.
by Sanssouci on October 22, 2009 at 12:45 PM
I agree. I see bad spelling and grammar all the time on this site and on others. And it does scare me a little. Because it seems like a lot of girls want to try to raise a child even though they don't even have a basic middle school education themselves. I don't think that's very fair to the baby.
And on a slightly similar note, we all know where babies come from. So I don't think "I didn't know where to get birth control" is a good excuse for having unprotected sex. If you want to have sex but don't know where to get birth control, then either do some research or wait. It really shouldn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.
by babealicious on October 25, 2009 at 6:37 PM
Hello, im 17 years old. I got on birth control pills about two months ago. But they told me that the first week your not protected, me and my partner had unprotected sex though. I got my period last month but this month i havent. I took a pregnancy test last week but it came out negative. could I still be pregnant?
by Sanssouci on October 26, 2009 at 3:20 PM
Absolutely. You can get pregnant any time you have sex.
You certainly took a risk by having unprotected sex. And condoms are easy to get, so there is no excuse for taking that risk. However, if you got pregnant from that particular night, you should be showing up as positive on a pregnancy test by now.
But you still could have gotten pregnant after that. Most methods of birth control are very effective, but none of them are 100% effective. And if you don't use them as directed, that lowers their effectiveness even more. So even if you've taken your pill every day and at the same time every day since then, you still could get pregnant. And if you have missed or been late with any pills in all that time, the chance of getting pregnant goes up even more.
If you want to double check, you can visit your doctor for another pregnancy test. In the future, be careful every single time. Take your pill every day at the same time. If you really want to play it safe, you can use condoms or spermicide in addition to your pill. And definitely use condoms if you skip pills or are on antibiotics.
by PullitOut_Duh on October 26, 2009 at 4:14 PM
Birth control can mess with your period. It takes sometime for your body to adapt the the effects it has on your body. I have friends that have experienced what you are experienceing so its possible you could be pregnant, but its unlikely.
by babealicious on October 26, 2009 at 7:16 PM
Okay, well I was only on birth control pills for a month actually because I was with my boy frend but his out of town for a while so I sttoped taking them
So you have to take the pills everyday at the same time??
I didnt really take them at the same time,, because sometimes i would forget. So im guessing that theirs a bigger chance that I could be pregnant, or is it just me?
Do you think that I havent got my period because I stopped using the birth control pills, my period is late, thats for sure. I was suppose to get in since like two three weeks ago and a couple of days ago I started trowing up alot and I dont usuaaly trow up at all.
I dont kno, Im kinda worried because Im too young and my mom would be upset but I know that my boyfriend will be by my side because he wants a baby, but were too young and I still want to go to school.
by Sanssouci on October 26, 2009 at 8:50 PM
Yes, you have to take birth control pills every day at the same time. Your doctor should have gone over that with you, and it should have been on the paper that came with your pills.
If you have not been taking them at the same time, yes, they're going to be less effective. If you often forget them, then you need to be using condoms every single time or talking to your doctor about other forms of birth control that you wouldn't need to remember as often (such as the patch or ring).
We have no way of knowing whether you didn't get your period because the birth control threw you out of whack or because you are pregnant. Either is possible right now.
If you stopped taking your pills because your boyfriend is away, just remember that they will take a week to get into your system again, just like when you first started taking them.
Good for you for being realistic and knowing that now is not the time for a baby. But make sure you practice what you preach as well! You have to be careful. You have to understand how your birth control works and how you're supposed to take it, then you have to take it as directed. If you have questions, speak up. Let your doctor know. Do some research. You cannot believe everything you read on the internet, but there are a lot of reliable and easy to find websites that explain various methods of birth control. When in doubt, use a condom.
by babealicious on November 1, 2009 at 5:36 PM
Hey, I wanted to use this article for my Health class. We need a couple of articles and write like a review about them, something like that. My teacher said that they had to be professionals on that subject.
I liked this article "Teen Pregnancy" but i dont know if I can use it. Can you tell me your name and well in your profile you put that you have a BA in Psychology.
by Sanssouci on November 2, 2009 at 8:22 AM
If you're talking to me, yes, I do have a BA in Psychology. I could give you my name if you wanted to quote me for anything for school.
However, I did not write the original teen pregnancy article. I simply answer the questions posted after the article. And the original article is probably what your teacher would be more interested in.
Many teachers will let you use an internet article even if there isn't a name attached to it as long as you cite the information that you do have. I'd recommend asking your teacher. Describe the article, print it out to show her, or ask if you can email it to her. She can let you know if it's acceptable for the assignment or not, how to cite it, etc.
by babealicious on November 2, 2009 at 5:31 PM
Oh okay. Well the problem is that it's due tomorrow, so I dont have time to ask her aymore. but thanks either ways. =)
by virgingirl on November 5, 2009 at 9:33 PM
Is there any way to get pregnant if you had your underwear on and he didnt but he had cummed a little while before he put his penis on your stomach? He never got inside my underwear and we did not have sex. But ive heard horror stories where people got pregnant from just him cumming and somehow the sperm find their way down to that area...is that possible?
by Ang3l_Baby14 on November 11, 2009 at 10:00 AM
Hi im 17yrs old and i had unprotected sex the day i ended my period and the guy i had sex wit came in me and i was wonderin is there a higher chance of getting pregnant then normally!?!
by Lillyfree on November 12, 2009 at 2:19 PM
HOW COME I DONT SHOW AFTER IM SIX MONTHS PREGNENT?
by youngtiana on November 15, 2009 at 8:39 AM
hey im 13 and im pregnant by a 17 year old. were keeping the baby and hes going to move in with me. i wanted to know about how your boobs get bigger when your pregnant. if they get bigger when your pregnant do they get even bigger each time you get pregnant? or do they stay the same after your first pregnancy?
by kitt-katt25 on November 16, 2009 at 1:14 PM
Ok. So I'm 15 and about two weeks ago, I had sex for the first time with this guy, I barely knew. I was drinking and ended up messing up. But now, I have this fear that I might be pregnant, because I can't stop peeing, I always feel sick, I'm always hungry, and I get headaches a lot. Im hoping I'm not, but I can't shake the thought that I might be... Plus, I talked to my guidance couselor, and he ended up calling my parents, and now my mom seems pissed... I'm totally freaking out...
by Meamea92 on November 20, 2009 at 10:37 AM
The day after you have sex how long do you have to wait to find out that you are pregnant!
by DeejstCurious on November 24, 2009 at 7:22 AM
Hi I'm 19 years old. Last month i had sex everyday of the week my period was supposed to start. My period came 5 days late but it seemed normal, maybe just a little lighter. Now my period should start within four days, On November 28th. Your probably wondering what I'm worried about. Well, the past two weeks, I have been exhausted and always hungry, like there's no filling me up! Also I get headaches for no reason and I get easily irritated. I've been cramping ocassionally for two weeks. Also, I cry just because somebody is talking to me. I don't know what is going on? I am gonna take a test if I miss my period but I just want to know if it seems like I'm preggo or what? My main qusetion is if it is possible to get pregnant the week of your period and have a period still? Hope I'm not confusing anyone? I'm not really stressed if I am preggo, but I would like to know what ppl think
by rhonda_justine on November 29, 2009 at 7:32 PM
Hello everyone. I think I might be pregnant, I had sex on the 4th day of my period (we used a condom but it broke, twice) then the next 2 days I had a little bleeding but it was brown. I have researched this and I've gotten all different anwser on if you can get pregnant when you have sex during your period, I'm worried that I might be. So can anyone tell me if its possible and/or how possible it is that I could be pregnant?
by erdb81109 on November 29, 2009 at 7:40 PM
hi, umm i new to this whole thing, but me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on the 2nd, we didnt use a condom, but the only thing that happend was an in and out kinda of deal. sence then weve had sex 3 times. weve used a condom. but were worried becuase i havent gotten my period and i was sapposed to have it like 2 days ago. and im not sure what to do. im affirad to tell my dad becuase, im his baby girl. and im only 15, and idk what to do. help?
by starbabyeee on November 30, 2009 at 2:14 PM
iam 16 i had unprotected sex and not sure if iam pregant should i take a plan b pill would it effect me if iam not pregnant
by yungBabyBelly on November 30, 2009 at 6:16 PM
Im 14 and im pregnant...im scared
cause later this week my boyfriend is going to be telling my dad
I dont feel alone but i just feel like im missing something
My bf is kinda happy with the pregnancy as well as scared
I really dont know what to do....?
by wantobeamommy on December 1, 2009 at 6:11 PM
well first of all dont worry about it im sure your parents will be (like all parents) a bit dissapointed but im sure they wont like disown you or anything like that im 16 and ive been with my botfrind for 13months now we have never used birth control although for a while we did do the "pull out method" but all of a sudden we have gotten careless and we just dont pullout anymore i CAN afford a baby and i would be happy but it would just be difficult. does anyone have any opninions? anything would help
by ninarea on December 3, 2009 at 9:14 PM
what if me and my boyfriend had sex day after my period ended, then we had sex two days later unprotectively but we did pull out method and five minutes later we go at it again with a condom awhile later condom breaks we dunno if we caught it when broke or what then two days later we do it again without condom then same night we do it again with condom then after he cum on my leg an wipes most of it off and i take the clear stuff put it on my fingers and put in my wet vagina not sure ir got in or not. can i be pregnant?
by lilma1 on December 4, 2009 at 8:37 AM
Hey i'm 17 and have a boyfriend that is 23. we've been together for 3 years and i'm 5 months pregnant. it's hard for me because he's not here to soupport me, he's in Iraq but will hopefully be home soon. He want's to get married but i don't know if i can be married to someone that's not going to know if he's going to have to go to war agina what should i do?
by ForeverFree on December 4, 2009 at 8:50 PM
I'm 14 and pregnant. i need help my mom doesnt know but i need help. i'm not sure if i have an std or not. i need an exam but i jump when my bf touches me. whats wrong? any advice?
by maifevg_1911 on December 8, 2009 at 12:26 PM
im 15 and i just had sex like on saturday with a guy i ddnt kno very well, and i had my period at that time , i didnt use a condom , and im really worried i dont kno wat to do , + my mom found some pregnancy tests in my cupboard and she is non stop calling me a whore a slut and all those kind of insults , i dont kno wat to do , im really stresse dout cuz i dont kno if im pregant i hopwe im not but i really need advice!
by riya9 on December 8, 2009 at 8:51 PM
will i know the sex of my baby at three months??
by PGsex on December 10, 2009 at 10:58 AM
i was wondering if i was pregnant. i have the symptoms but i had sex when i was on my period. can i get pregnant on my period?
by bre09 on December 15, 2009 at 10:34 AM
i had to qet an abortion because i didnt knoee wat too tell my babies daddy and he reali wanted me too have dis baby but i was lyk damn babee i cant do dis. im still in skool and how we suppose too have thee support too takee care of dis baby either, so i jus went with thee abortion. i knoee dat ihts wronqq too punish my unborn baby and do dis but damn (CRY) ! i had too and ihts nawt my babies fault ihts my fault dat i madee dis decision and i reqret wat happen. ne ways ladies after my abortion i went too thee teen clinic and i qot thee depo shot and iht keeps yhu from qhettin preqnant yhu may have mood swinqs and weiqht qains but iht works real qudd. me and my man been havin lots of sex and he reali want uh baby too so we been workin on iht too.
by caLiL0ve on December 15, 2009 at 2:06 PM
im 18yrss 0Ld &myy boifriend &ihave unprotected sexx =/ &evrytimee he teLLss mee he nutted in mee &it hasnt onLy happend once N0R twice , itss happend severaL timess . myy period came but it was onLy for 3dayss & ive waited 6wkss to pass &now im jst havingg weird symptonss. (sharp stomach painss). im N0t sayingg im pregnant &im N0t sayingg iam im jst curiouss WHAT D0ES THiS MEAN ???
by urgfml99 on December 16, 2009 at 3:44 PM
i think im pregnant i was with my boyfriend for 9 months and im 13 and we had sex last summer and juts continued it fora while buh i think im pregnant because i skipped for 3 months,all i do is get sick, im always neauous by different things, my back kils and im loosing weight like crazy in 2 weeks i went from being 97 to 89 and my stomach keeps getting bigger and i dnt think its fat because it doesnt jiggle and when i lay down its just a bump and me and my bf just broke up on friday do u think im pregnant?!?!
by yankeebaby978 on December 18, 2009 at 8:13 PM
im 18 yrs old and i had a bf i had sex wit about 2 months ago but since we broke up i got myperiod but this moth i didnt get it at all and ve had some weird dreams an everyone keeps making jokes that i look and act prego i dnt have any of the symptoms besides the no perid part.. Could I be prego??
by prego_ash on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 AM
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by prego_ash on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 AM
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by prego_ash on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 AM
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by prego_ash on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 AM
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by prego_ash on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 AM
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by GRABOWSKI1989 on December 21, 2009 at 5:16 PM
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by GRABOWSKI1989 on December 21, 2009 at 5:21 PM
9 days ago I was hanging out with my boyfriend and we started to get intimate. I'm still a virgen and I'm going to wait until I'm married. However, I am terribly frightened that I might be pregnant. He masturbated in the bathroom and cleaned up his mess. After he came out of the bathroom I was on the couch waiting for him and we started making out. I was getting into it and before he was going to finger me I asked him if he washed is hands and he said yes. I have OCD and am a big worrier. I'm really scared that I might be pregnant, I know he washed his hands but I just don't know. I was supposed to get my period today and didn't. What should I do?
by jay-lee11 on December 22, 2009 at 8:45 PM
im 18 and i ahd sex then started my perod but im haveing all the symptoms of preganancy im goiing to get tested tommorow the only thing is the dad is a travler and we connected really well when we met but now hes an ass hole should i tell him now or like later on when im 8 months...... 0.o idkk
by jay-lee11 on December 22, 2009 at 8:45 PM
im 18 and i ahd sex then started my perod but im haveing all the symptoms of preganancy im goiing to get tested tommorow the only thing is the dad is a travler and we connected really well when we met but now hes an ass hole should i tell him now or like later on when im 8 months...... 0.o idkk
by nataliexx on December 23, 2009 at 8:16 PM
im 15 im from newzealand but living in western austrailia nd i had sex unprotected with this 22 year old guy which is my older brothers mate and he cumed in me its been a week do you think im pregnant?
by horsebackCRAZY on December 24, 2009 at 11:41 AM
im 15 and had protetced sex but i havent gotten my period yet for almost a month im freaking out i dont noe what i would do if i am pregent
by mary_love_12 on December 28, 2009 at 8:53 AM
hi, my name is Marylin and im turning 15 in new years i think i might be pregnant. it could of happened any time sense i live with my bf we have sex almost everyday. my period came on the 13 but it wasnt a real period it only lasted 1 day it was just spots of blood. now i feel so tired my breast hurt and i have morning sickness through out the day. could i be pregnant? plz help me i dont know what to do and i dont want to tell anybody.
by JulesMC20 on December 28, 2009 at 4:04 PM
Okay so me and my boyfriend had sex last night but the condom broke near the end of it. It was the day I was supposed to start my period. I'm on birth control but I still haven't gotten my period... Could I be pregnant?
by XXXEMO on December 29, 2009 at 6:27 PM
Hey everyone. I'm 15 years old(almost 16 in feb) And I think I may be preggers. I had sex two days after my period, and the guy did not fully cum in me, more on me. It has been 2 weeks and 4 days senice I had sex. I can not buy a prego test b/c my mom will totally FREAK OUT! I'm really scared. My breast are sore. But besides that, I feel fine. The nearvs are getting to me though. I googled it and everything and it is only a 3% change I could be. Please I need help, Any tips anyone?
by Emotional_girl on December 30, 2009 at 9:24 AM
Hi everyone. I'm 17 years old and i think i am pregnant. I had unprotected sex with my 18 year old boyfriend but he did not come in me. Could it be pre-cum. i live with my grandma and she does nto know i am having sex. i am afraid to tell her and i am still in school and dont know what to do. my period was suppose come on last week what is going on. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME I AM VERY CONCERN. I DO WANT TO KEEP MY BABY PLEASE HELP.
by --rosalyn on January 1, 2010 at 7:09 AM
im 13 and was pregnant before but had a misscarrige around when i was 6 months 2 weeks. now im fourteen and i think im pregnant and i took a clearblue test one came out postive and another came out negative.What does this mean?
by --rosalyn on January 1, 2010 at 7:14 AM
Ello<3,well at 13 i got pregnant my first time but did not carry fullterm because i had a miscarrige at 6 months and 2 weeks. Now im 14 and think im pregnant again i took a home pregancy test (clearblue test] one came out positive another one came out negative. So now im stuck what should i do? andd what does this mean?
by xxhayliixx on January 1, 2010 at 1:58 PM
Im 14 and im really worried i might be pregnant, me and my boyfriend(15) had unprotected sex, but he did not come in me. i have a lot of the symptoms and now im just waiting for my period... should i be worried? also if i dont end up getting my period should i tell mymom right away or take a pregnancy test first.
by x333 on January 1, 2010 at 9:05 PM
Well I'm 15 yearsx oldd& I think I'm preqo.
Well meh& myy boyfriend done 5 timesx alreadyy widd out a condom.
The last time we did it wasx a month aqo & since den I haven't had myy period.
My period isx 3 daysx late alreadyy.
I have a test wid meh buhh idont knoe wen I shouldd use it.
by Bbaybe on January 2, 2010 at 1:59 PM
heyyy im 14/15 and pregnant by a 16 year old be both planed to hve a baby and he said hes gonna be there and do everythin he can for me and the baby only thing im worried bout is will he go prison for it?
by blaaaaah on January 2, 2010 at 8:49 PM
Hey, I'm 15 years old and I sort of had sex but not really. Ha. Well, my boyfriend is 18, and we are very safe. I am on birth control (YAZ). However, for anyone who takes YAZ, I was to the pink pill, but I was just getting over my period. I still had a little bit of it, but I had taken the pink pill (which means that it is not the plycebo pill). My boyfriend and I tried having sex and he pulled out before he let it go. I am just really paranoid about it. There is really a small chance I could be pregnant I think, actually I think there's really no way. But it is now 2 weeks later, and I am just paranoid because my stomach looks like it's getting bigger. I am a very petite person, but I eat like a bottomless pit. And I am on Christmas break so I just eat whenever I want. But my stomach looks much bigger than usual. Can someone give me some answers maybe? Thank you!
by blaaaaah on January 2, 2010 at 8:50 PM
We've also done this before, and it's been fine.
by hickgirl_09 on January 3, 2010 at 8:19 PM
If you n your boyfriend have sex n the condom breaks n he dont enject but he pulls out and you notice it was broken and you dont finish.. can you get pregnet????
by CHAMPi0N on January 4, 2010 at 7:39 PM
Hi iM 15 AND i WiLL BE 16 iN 19DAyS((; && My B0yFRiEND iS 16 G0iNG 0N 17..
ME && My B0yFRiEND HAVE BEEN DATiNG F0R 8 M0NTHS, G0iNG 0N 9 MONTHS 0N THE 18TH 0F THiS M0NTH..
My M0M PUT ME 0N BiRTH CONTR0L..
i HAVE BEEN TAKiNG iT F0R A WEEK,.. BUT F0R THE LAST 3DAyS i HAVE BEEN TAKiNG iT AT THE SAME TiME.. && WE HAD SEX T0DAy && HE LET iT iN ME..
CAN i BE PREGNANT!?!?!
by successfulmommy on January 5, 2010 at 10:37 AM
omg im so sorrie but most of these comments are bugging the shyyt outta me.. look im 17 single and i am 5 months pregnant with a baby girl. Its not the end of the world. Girls need to grow up and if u cant face the facts that u can and probably will become pregnant by having sex then DONT HAVE SEX. True fact 99% of the time the baby daddy is not going to be there. and its your time to prove to the world you are mature and women enough to make it on ur own !! F**k what people say.. the baby has no fault for your mistakes. Trust me theres nothing more beautiful then a baby in your life. as far as your future goes.. you can still carry on like a normal person only you have more responsabilities and truth is sooner or later you will have responsabilities its part of growing up! im graduateing this year and im going to a four year college... my baby is going to be fine im provideing us both with a good future.. she will be in day care part time while i work and go to school and by the time shes 4 i will be done and we will be abule to travel and do whatever we want. she will get older and i will have enough time to party and do all that later.. for now shes my main focus... COME ON NOW GIRLS GROW A BRAIN...
by Emily_2010 on January 6, 2010 at 6:38 AM
Hey This Is Emily From Tx.. I am 17 And In HighSchool I Was Wondering.. if u dnt have symthoms.. or missed periods but when i get my period its just for like a day and a half.. its for a little while and u dnt want to have sex n e more.. and u eat to much.. and gained alot of weight.. wat should i do
I dnt want to tell my mom.. and if i am pregnet.. who is gona help me.. Can i Have Help Or Answers.. Plz.. Thanks
by bria_jusme on January 6, 2010 at 4:40 PM
im 16 ill b 17 ths yr n my baby will b born jun1 at first i was very nervous about this pregnancy my b.d use to tell me to get an abortion he didnt want anything to do wit me nor my child so im keeping my baby its a girl and i dont have anything to do with him ive moved on with my life and im with someone else ive found someone special that accepts me and my soon to be just as well as i accept him and his 2 kids we have plans to be with each other but now that my b.d see im happy with someone else he wants to be back with me if allowed myself to back track i would feel very dumb so i stay strong with the support of my mom dad n bestfriend and boyfriend but to all you thats having doubts about it all just weigh out the good and bad and what ever decision you make just be strong about it and carry on but i dont support abortions
by babysadgurl on January 7, 2010 at 8:24 AM
if i am really pregnant wat can i do with my mom i dnt want to tell her because she make me lose it and i dont want too???? and im only 14!!
by babysadgurl on January 7, 2010 at 8:30 AM
hey dis is destinni c. and im only 14 and mite be pregnant?? and i really dnt know wat to do.... ma dude wantz me to have it but not ma mom i took a test early so ma mom wont knw.... if i am im going to hide it for a few months till ma finds out is that rite???? plz help mii
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by Genesis21 on January 7, 2010 at 10:47 PM
Im so scare, i think i might b pregnant...im just gon turn 16 n didnt use protection the first time i had sex which wasnt too long ago..i havent talk to no1 bout it yet thou n today i got mah period but is too light n is not even mah right day to get it..mah back is hurttin n i feel mah body very weird..i dint kno what to do or how to deal wit it..!! how long you need to wait to get a preggo test??
by Genesis21 on January 7, 2010 at 11:11 PM
ZBut i dont support abortions n i believe that if iam i have to deal wìt it..i kno mah future us still oing to as right because i kno i can do it n so as yuh gurls..But alwayz keep in mind to use protection, that way uz aint gon b worring bout it like me!!...but im not worry bout the bby, im worring bout mah parents..the gon Flip Out!!
by CANDI_BABII34 on January 8, 2010 at 7:47 AM
IM 14 AND I MIGHT B PREGNANT BY A 16 YEAROLD BOI BUT MY MOM DONT KNOW THAT AND IM 2 SCARED 2 TELL MY MOM AND MY DAD....WHAT SHOULD I DO????AND I DO WANT 2 KEEP MY BABY BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT MY BOYFRIEND GONNA SAY ABOUT IT...IM JUST SCARED OF WHAT GONNA HAPPEN TO ME..
by iloveyou1231 on January 8, 2010 at 12:03 PM
i am 16 and i think i'm pregnant. me and my boyfriend are trying to have a baby he is alos 16. he's getting a jog and i'm staying in school his mom wants me to live there but i don;t think my mom will let me i want to move out so bad because i hate liveing home. me and my brothers and sisters used to get abused i am affried if i am pregnant and my step dad does hit me again i'll lose my baby. is there any other way for me to move out other then emmancipation and calling th cops???? please comment and help!
--a worried and trobbled teen.
by angel017 on January 8, 2010 at 3:30 PM
I am seventeen, turning eighteen in a few days. My boyfriend is currently nineteen, and attending a local community college. I had sex on the 26th of December, and was supposed to have my period by the end of Deccmber, early January. We used protection, and we even pulled out too. It has been about two weeks since we had sex, and a week since I missed my period. I have no symptoms so far, but have been worried about it. Is there a chance I could be pregnant, and if so, what do I do? I had been planning on attending a four year college next fall, and had many schools asking for my attendence. I don't know, if I had a child, how I would go about going to college still, and/or working.
by bamapride on January 8, 2010 at 11:21 PM
I'm seventeen. My boyfriend (who is 18) and I had unprotected sex about a week ago, and i don't know what we were thinking. Anyway, I had my period almost a week before that, so i think i was ovulating already, which would make the chances of me being pregnant very high, right? I was on birth control but was having bad headaches and my gyn told me to stop taking it the month before. I'm really eager to find out if i am pregnant or not, and so is my boyfriend. Do i have to wait until it's time for my period to come to take a pregnancy test or would it show this early? Or could a doctor tell me this early? I have about 2 and a half weeks until my next period and i'm a little too impatient to wait that long. If I do happen to be pregnant we are definatly keeping the baby though. Should I wait?
Thanks.
by babydrea on January 9, 2010 at 9:41 AM
Okay so me and my boyfriend were having sex last night and the condom broke,He said he didnt come inside me but he wasnt sure if it got in me,When i felt my vagina it was really wet from his cum and im guessing it got inside me but im not really sure,is it more likely im going to be prego or not?
by Ravena701 on January 9, 2010 at 12:16 PM
geuss what i support teen moms. i dont support getting pregnant at a young age but i support any teen who has a baby and raises it. i am 18 i have 2 beautiful daughters. ones 1 1/2 and ones a new born. i ahve a freind whos 17 and has 2 kids. i ahve another friend 19 and has a kid. and tons and tons of other who are teens and have kids and they are doing so well on there own. i dont know hwat i would do with out my daughters. i cant imagine a life with out them. if u need a friend or some one to talk to u can email me anytime orlilover232@yahoo.com i have a myspace and so do all of my friends. just know that if u choose abortion u are killing a baby with a heart beat with eyes with finger nails. look up a video and watch it and see if u could put ur self through it. i thought about it withmy daughter and now i look at her face and think how in gods name could i have done that. or choose adoption thats a GREAT idea. u can even have an open one where u can see ur baby and name ur baby. sorry for my ramblings bye
by brittbaybe9124 on January 10, 2010 at 5:40 PM
im 15 and this is the second month i havent had my period i was supposed to start on the 7th of this month but i never did. my last period was november 7, 2009. i have taken home pregnancy tests and they came back negative. i have a boyfriend who is 18 we have been together for 3 and a half years. we have unprotected sex and im not on birth control. i spotted one time in december cause i thought it was my period but it didnt even last a whole day. i have been getting bad pains in my lower stomach side and back. i just want to know if anyone knows anything that could help me.
by candymae91 on January 12, 2010 at 3:52 PM
britbaybe9124 i did a research paper a while back and had to do plenty of research on pregnancy, one thing i realized when reading your post is that you were spotting and you r having cramps, now im not a docotor im just a high school senior but from wat i have read spotting isnt good you should see a doctor and make sure your not pregnant if you are spotting might not be good.
by ChyannaMcConnle on January 12, 2010 at 5:24 PM
Why would you kill the baby? THat terrible if you dont want it just have it and put it up for adpotion. Im a 14 year old and im 17 weeks pregnat and my boyfriends wants to give up the baby but I could never do that. So we're more than likely gonna breakup...Im scared to do it on my own but his parents and my family are there for me. I really hope I have a girl!!!!!!!
by 13andstrong on January 12, 2010 at 8:38 PM
hi, im 13 years old.
i thought i was pregnat but it was a false alarm.
now i wanna go on birth control. but will it keep me from having a baby in the future.
by kiekie12 on January 14, 2010 at 3:01 PM
If you had unprotected sex when during ovulation and your sex partner semen got in your vagina and you had a period 2 weeks after can you be pregnant?
by kiekie12 on January 14, 2010 at 3:06 PM
If you had unprotected sex when during ovulation and your sex partner semen got in your vagina and you had a period 2 weeks after can you be pregnant?
by 13andstrong on January 14, 2010 at 6:21 PM
i am 13 years old.
i had unprotected sex and thought i was pregnat.
it was a false alarm. but now i wanna go on birth control.
i heard birth control will make it hard for you to have a baby in the future. is that true???
by chien on January 15, 2010 at 1:27 PM
i don't uderstand why girls can't be smarter. instead they go off and have sex like if they really know they won't get pragnant.they think that once they hae sex with their bf, they are in love, but then the bf breaks up with his gf. next think you know the girl regrets what she did. some girls are just being used. when a guy says "i want to have sex" and the girl says "what if i get pregnant?" then the guy is like "i take care of it." he only says this cuz just wants to have sex.next think you know you get pregnant and your bf won't be there instead he will say "get away from me."
by MiiszYesenia on January 17, 2010 at 12:01 AM
Hii im yesenia from longisland ny && ii haven't gotten my periiod usually ii get it every 13 of each month me &&'' my boyfriend had unprotected sex twice but we aren't sure if I am prego..he is 22 years old &&'' ii am only 17 about to graduate high skool but ii am not sure if ii am iif ii would keep it ii don't even think he would want a kid..he acts like a lil boy himself still...&&'' how would I be able 2 tell my mother ii wouldn't want 2 disapoint her ..help plz
by MiiszYesenia on January 17, 2010 at 12:01 AM
Hii im yesenia from longisland ny && ii haven't gotten my periiod usually ii get it every 13 of each month me &&'' my boyfriend had unprotected sex twice but we aren't sure if I am prego..he is 22 years old &&'' ii am only 17 about to graduate high skool but ii am not sure if ii am iif ii would keep it ii don't even think he would want a kid..he acts like a lil boy himself still...&&'' how would I be able 2 tell my mother ii wouldn't want 2 disapoint her ..help plz
by MiiszYesenia on January 17, 2010 at 12:01 AM
Hii im yesenia from longisland ny && ii haven't gotten my periiod usually ii get it every 13 of each month me &&'' my boyfriend had unprotected sex twice but we aren't sure if I am prego..he is 22 years old &&'' ii am only 17 about to graduate high skool but ii am not sure if ii am iif ii would keep it ii don't even think he would want a kid..he acts like a lil boy himself still...&&'' how would I be able 2 tell my mother ii wouldn't want 2 disapoint her ..help plz
by MiiszYesenia on January 17, 2010 at 12:01 AM
Hii im yesenia from longisland ny && ii haven't gotten my periiod usually ii get it every 13 of each month me &&'' my boyfriend had unprotected sex twice but we aren't sure if I am prego..he is 22 years old &&'' ii am only 17 about to graduate high skool but ii am not sure if ii am iif ii would keep it ii don't even think he would want a kid..he acts like a lil boy himself still...&&'' how would I be able 2 tell my mother ii wouldn't want 2 disapoint her ..help plz
by teenmom2013 on January 18, 2010 at 1:54 PM
my best friend was pregnet at 15 she had so many things to think about when she found out she was pregnet and i felt really bad she was thinking
of going for adoption
but she just could do it cause
she thought it would
hurt now she has a beautiful little boy named tristan
and she is together with the father and is doing grad
by lovebug1693 on January 19, 2010 at 7:13 AM
I am 16 years old and possably pregnet. The condom broke last night. I can't have a baby. my parents are going to kill me. what symtoms do i need to watch for and how soon can i find out if i am? email me at princesskayla1693@yahoo.com
by QUANEISHA on January 20, 2010 at 11:12 AM
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by jalena4 on January 20, 2010 at 7:24 PM
~Well Im 17 and I think Im Pregnant But it wasn't a mistake I wanted It To Happen but if i am i dont know what to do Im just try to get a job and take care of it~
by iliketities on January 21, 2010 at 9:26 AM
hey im 12 and i had sex with a 25 year old. he was reall sexy and cute so i thought it would be alright. i guess i was wrong because i missed my period and my boyfriend said hell kill me if i have it. i cant tell my parents because my dads a drunk and my moms a sripper. what should i do help me
by Kingri on January 22, 2010 at 4:50 AM
m 20yrs of age n ma prb is dat i nvr had periods on tym since d start, atr cmpltin ma 16 i wnt 2 a gyno n she chckd me welln said dat i hav a hormonal imbalance so she prescribd me medicine named deviry, whneva i use 2 hav it ma periods starts n whn i stop using it dn it again stops...i hav ma periods only whn i use 2 tak dat pill, may its a matter of 3-4 mnths gap or more den dat bt whneva i use dat pill it happens..
bt nw i d prob is i had sex wid ma mate 3weeks b4 bt we used condom n nthin went rong, aftr dat since few days m feelin tired n m frequently visitin toilets bt all signs of preg r nt matchin as i dnt hav nausea or vommitinneither faintin or ne cramp or spot....bt nw aftr 3 weeks i tuk 20 tablets of deviry 2gthr n aftr 4 days frm havin i still nt havin periods....mnw scared...m i pregnant or is it sumthin else as i nvr had periods on tym...help me out
by GabsterBabes011 on January 22, 2010 at 4:54 PM
hi. im 17 and i think i might be pregnant! I cheated on my boyfran9who off at college) with a good friend of mine a couple months ago and still to this day he has yet to find out. well, anyways me and my "good" friend had sex 4 times....2 in which was unprotected. everybody kept assuming something was going on but we always denied it. well, one day me and my boyfran were arguing over other stuff and i broke up with him. we always break up and get back together. then 2 days later, my friend asked me out and i told him no in a nice way. then later that week, my friend found out that i got back with my boyfran and he got really upset cuz he really liked me. and we really havent talked since. he cut off all means of communication. then a month and a half...2 months later i realized my period still hasnt come til this day and it was 3 months ago that me and him had sex. i told him that and he got scared. he said that was the reason he stopped talking to me. he said that if i am he doesnt want me to have it. i have been vomiting every so often but not like every day. and i took a pregnacy test last week and it was negative but my period still hasnt come. what should i do? could i still be pregnant? i need help!
by lovemy2kids on January 23, 2010 at 11:48 PM
you can still be prego when i was preg. with my first child i was 17 i would take 3 test a day when i missed my period for 2 months. it said neg everytime then after 4 months i went to plan parethood and they told me i was preg. i would jus go get check out dont trust home preg test!!!
by Ms-Perez on January 24, 2010 at 9:25 AM
Okay, I'm 14 and my Boyfriend is almost 16. WE decided to have a Baby. WE are both very excited. But About 2 days ago we had Sex and Now i'm feeling Sick. Headaches, Backaches, Hunger, Vomitting, and Pee-ing like Crazy, and My friends say I'm having Mood Swings. Can I tell I'm Pregnant after 2 days? Please Help.
by Crystalt92 on January 25, 2010 at 8:12 AM
Im 17 years old about to turn 18 in about 5 months and my boyfriend is 18 about to turn 19 in a few months. We have been dating for awhile now and we had sex two times in different days but the first time he used a condom then later the first time he told me he would pull out. So couple days later it was January 3, 2010 we decided we would try to have a kid together. We had sex for a good 5 or 6 times that night. So January 5,2010 i got my period and i have took two pregnancy test since then but they was negative i think it was to soon to take them.. And my boyfriend is worrying if am pregnant or not... And we had sex during my period too. So i want someone to answer this. Am i pregnant????
by RachelF1008 on January 25, 2010 at 11:04 AM
Hey, im 15 and pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months and we both want it. But my parents are against sex before marriage, how do I tell them? If they freak out and kick me out is there any where I can go to that would let my boyfriend and I live together? He has a job so he could pay rent, and im hoping to get a job soon also. I just want to live just him, me and the baby. Any one have any info on where to go to and how to tell me parents?
by lovebabesarah on January 25, 2010 at 11:52 AM
im 17 and 4 months pregnant they wont let me go on income support cos my mums gettin child benefit they wont cancel it. I Ant got any money to get its stuff when its born my partners on job seekers but we dont live together. dont think i l be entiltled to surestart 500 grand please could i get some advise from some one with exsperience.
by softballbabey86 on January 25, 2010 at 10:58 PM
im 15 and my boyfriend just turned 18. and i had unprotected sex only a little bit over 2 weeks, so kind of soon to be worrying, but i have missed my period. it usually comes around the 22nd or 23rd and im just gonna give it another week or 2. i have been having horibble headaches everyday, lower back pain, lower stomach pain, kidney pain, im always tired becaue i can't sleep. i have been cramping slightly for a few days &moody&getting pimples& i thught it was jusst pmsing. everytime i get up from laying down or sitting i get light headed very badly and my vision blacks out for a minute or so. i feel nautious al the time. but i have not thrown up at all, i figured its too early for morning sickness. i have talked to my friend about it and shes very scared i am pregnant. im too young to have a baby. me and my boyfriend have been together about 5 months and we have a long distance relationship.
by softballbabey86 on January 25, 2010 at 11:00 PM
im 15 and my boyfriend just turned 18. and i had unprotected sex only a little bit over 2 weeks, so kind of soon to be worrying, but i have missed my period. it usually comes around the 22nd or 23rd and im just gonna give it another week or 2. i have been having horibble headaches everyday, lower back pain, lower stomach pain, kidney pain, im always tired becaue i can't sleep. i have been cramping slightly for a few days &moody&getting pimples& i thught it was jusst pmsing. everytime i get up from laying down or sitting i get light headed very badly and my vision blacks out for a minute or so. i feel nautious al the time. but i have not thrown up at all, i figured its too early for morning sickness. i have talked to my friend about it and shes very scared i am pregnant. im too young to have a baby. me and my boyfriend have been together about 5 months and we have a long distance relationship. I am the youngest in my family. My oldest sister had her first kid at 18 &now she has 7 and my parents sort of dis own her. The younger one after that cant get pregnant and the one thats 18 now is like the angel and i was hoping to be like her. But if im pregnant i know my parents wouldnt kick me out, but they would be extremly disapointed in me & im sure my dad wouldnt talk to me for a very long time. My mom would only help me to stay healthy... should i take a pregnancy test yet?
by shortcake9849 on January 26, 2010 at 4:03 PM
im 18 and my boyfriend is also 18 and he currently going to college out of state, i found out a couple weeks ago that i am pregnant and that the baby is his, i told him and he was shocked, i told him that i was unsure about having the baby because he is not here, he said that he will help me anyway that he can and that he will be happy with the choice that i make. what should i do?
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by dorklover95 on January 28, 2010 at 12:54 PM
Ok,so im 14 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, but he's affraid i'll get pregnant. it woould be both our first time, can i get pregnant my first time?, and if i did get pregnant is my dad able to take him to court and register him as a sex offender??
by yungBabyBelly on January 30, 2010 at 4:00 AM
okay so a while ago like November of last year I posted a comment if you can see and I was scared cause of my parents and what they would say. I'm now 4 months pregnant and we did tell them but they were super mad and told me abortion I sad no cause really who wants to live with something like that in there past I don't know everybody is different I wouldn't be able to the factvi help at a nursery. But all of that is besides the point my parents refuse for me to be around the baby daddy and I get depressed we go to school together but it's not the same. My mom is pregnant to she is 2 or 3 months ahead of me and me and her clash big time I wanna move out but they won't let me?! Their pretty controlling seriously I just want advice what do I do? I want to have this baby but their not gunna let me it's a democracy in my house and I'm not liking it? How do I get out? Should I actually go through this or give in and do what they want? And if I do stay what do I do about clashing with my mom? It causes me stress and crying and that's the last thing my baby needs and the last thing my boyfriend needs to worry about (his son being okay as well as his girlfriend). I wanna make it a bit easier on him?! Sacrifice my youth or sacrifice a life?
by yungBabyBelly on January 30, 2010 at 4:08 AM
ooh I also left the dram part out of this which also causes 75% of my stress my ex is marriage related to my boyfriend at the moment... My ex was my first and he can't get over the past he wants to be with me and tries to make me jelious and it's stupid he threaten to hurt my boyfriend and my son he's quite stupid cause that would never happen but the fact is my ex is a stalker and needs a life i'll be honist I get scared at times cause he knows where I live and I'm scared he will hurt me and I have to thin for the lives of 2 people what should I do about my ex without involving the cops? I really wanna stay away from the whole law thing and restraining order cause they are related as cousins through marriage. What do I do?
by jacky10 on February 2, 2010 at 7:57 AM
Hi I'm 18 years old. Okay so about 3 weeks ago I had unprotected sex and it was my first time with my boyfriend and he told me that he came inside me and lately I have been feeling nautious but I have not thrown up yet, I also have been getting really bad headaches and I'm really tired and my chest hurts once in awhile. I was supposed to get my period yesterday but it never came. Do you think there is a possibility that I am pregnant?
by lovebug212 on February 2, 2010 at 1:44 PM
hi I'm 15 and really don't no what to do so i been getting my period but its not right somtimes i get late or early or miss the whole month i look pg my breast or sore im always finding my self tired now thats not normal for me.well the main reason iam writing to u guys is because i took to test one was positive nd one was negative my mom just refuses to take me to the dr.s kinda like i am but she doest want to think it. what do i do?
by Stephanie007 on February 2, 2010 at 3:17 PM
So me and my Bf had sex on the 23rd yes we had protected sex but the condom broke(he didnt cum) but im afraid pre ejaculation may have gotten in.And now on the 6th of febuary im going to a clinic for a pregnancy test is it too soon?I feel/see my own pulse in my stomach aswell..is that normal?is it a symptom?
Thankyou so much in advance.
by BOSSLADY2010 on February 3, 2010 at 11:22 AM
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by happygirl13642 on February 3, 2010 at 8:09 PM
hi, im 18, me and my fiance have been having sex A LOT. all unprotected. im on birthcontrol called trisprintec, its the generic for orthotricyclen lo. i wasnt even beginning to think that i may be pregnant until, i read my birthcontrol case and it said something about antibiotics may cause this medicine not to work correctly. so i googled the medicine i am on for acne (tetracycline), and sure enough it said it could affect it. i had my last period on jan. 14th 2010. it lasted 4 days.(it was normal), then my fiance and i started having a lot of sex after i got off, sometimes 6times a night. he blows in me everytime. now im feeling very funny, my stomach feels tight and certain smells are making me feel like i want to puke. i cant take a test til next week as my period is supposed to come the 10th or 11th. im gunna take a test if my period dont come. also yesterday, ( the 3rd of february) , i went to the bathroom and spotted pinkish blood, there wasnt a whole lot but just enough to cover a half dollar and it was wicked light, i havent had it since. do you think these are signs that i may be pregnant? like i said im gunna test to be sure but i just want an oppinion.
by babymommy12 on February 4, 2010 at 9:59 AM
Wow, All these people on here tryin to tell somebody wht to do when they never been in are shoes, im 16 and pregnant, And for people to judge is going to hell, because your not sopost to judge. but i dont care at all one bit, your right i shldnt have been having sex, but is tht rlly any of ur businees? no its not at all, and i was on the shot for 2years and i still got pregnant on it. all birth controls do not work, but you know wht i have family and friends there to help me. im going to be the best mom i know how to be. and if your pregnant, you know wht caused it so stop doing it, Believe me im sad to have this lil baby but u know everything happens for a reason and i thank god he sent me this angle, this baby is my world and its not even here yet! And people who have abortion is going to burnn in hell. and thts wht they get. if u didnt want to get pregnant you shldnt have spread your damn legs. And some people dont need the dad of the baby around cuz there a piece of shit any ways. Be INDEPENDENT. thts wht i am. i dont need no damn man. and thia is how i feel, you dont have to like wht i say but im gonna say it any way. And ppl shldnt judge no one in till there in there shoes. so every who thinks pregnacy is bad at 15 it might be but SHIT happens.
by BOSSLADY2010 on February 4, 2010 at 11:12 AM
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by Tuhalfvenez17 on February 4, 2010 at 7:20 PM
Hi, I am really desparate for an answer I'm 16 going to 17 and I recently found out that I am pregnant I told my mom but she ended up kicking me out I am worry if I need parental permission in the hospital if I want to give birth? Can you answer the question right away since you might have some experience! By the way I live in. NJ get at me asap thanxx!
by hcbruce18 on February 6, 2010 at 11:34 PM
Im 18 living with my dad..getting ready to move in a month..im claiming i live by myself..but scared that medicaid wont pay for the whole pregnancy...ive been told to say i dont know who the father is and they will pay the netire thing? IDK!! help? please!
thanks
by SupaMomAndWifey on February 7, 2010 at 2:01 PM
This is a message for BOSSLADY2010 Im only 18 years old I had my first son when i was 16 yrs old and now I am almost 3 months pregnant with my second one and everything is going great with me. My and my babys father got married when I turned 18 and he turned 19. We have been going strong in our marriage as well as our family. We have had our struggles just like anybody else but for the most part everything has been fine. Its not your age that makes you the mother you are it is how you take care of your child/children. Im just here to let everybody know teen mothers can make it!! I finished high school, have a full time job and so does my husband and we provide for our children. You just have to have the mindset to be able to do it. How are you going to say some of the things you are saying and you can't even spell and apparently don't know what the hell you are talking about. To all these teen moms on here you can do it, its not going to be easy that's for sure, but you just have to be strong!!! So good luck to everybody!!
by onelove420 on February 9, 2010 at 12:09 AM
how long after sex until symptoms come up. and how fertlie are u 3 days after ur period having sex 3 days in a row unprotected
by onelove420 on February 9, 2010 at 12:14 AM
how long after sex until symptoms show up. and how fertile are u 3 days after having your period es[ecially after having 3 days of unprotected sex. please just give me a mature straight up anwer. and im 16
by redd18-2010 on February 9, 2010 at 3:49 PM
ok its lyk dhs um 18 an meh and mii dude had sex durin mii period las month on dha 9 and 10, now its february an mii period was pose ta ckum on dha 8 an it ain ckam yt we didnt use condoms or nun bt whn ii tuk a test it ckam up negative, so y hvnt ii strtd mii period??
by onelove420 on February 9, 2010 at 5:35 PM
how likely is it that u will get pregnant if u are 16, 3 days after your period having sex 3 days in a row and the guy came everytime, unprotected? and when do symptoms first appear. how long until a test will show? please just give me a mature straight up answer
by Jayboo7 on February 10, 2010 at 10:22 PM
My name is Jerrica I'm 14 I turn 15 in April 2010 and I went to a party with my boyfriend who is 17 and we had sex protected and unprotected and yes I was drunk but they lied to use and said it didn't have alcohol in it. We had unprotected sex multiple times bu he said he pulled out 3days after my period it's been 2 weeks since that might and andy friend said I came out saying my croch burns and my sister said it usually burns when you get cum inside...I've been craving food, tired,having to pee alot,really bad mood swings,and more discharge than usual. My boobs are a little tender and I've been really restless..I've been extremely stressed and I don't know what to do he wants to stay with me and help me cuz he doesn't believe in abortion or adobtion or leaving me as a single mom and Im suppose my period in a week an I've taken quizes that say I probably am and idk how to break this to my dad...idk what to do plz help!
by Jayboo7 on February 10, 2010 at 10:42 PM
My name is Jerrica I'm 14 I turn 15 in April 2010 and I went to a party with my boyfriend who is 17 and we had sex protected and unprotected and yes I was drunk but they lied to use and said it didn't have alcohol in it. We had unprotected sex multiple times bu he said he pulled out 3days after my period it's been 2 weeks since that might and andy friend said I came out saying my croch burns and my sister said it usually burns when you get cum inside...I've been craving food, tired,having to pee alot,really bad mood swings,and more discharge than usual. My boobs are a little tender and I've been really restless..I've been extremely stressed and I don't know what to do he wants to stay with me and help me cuz he doesn't believe in abortion or adobtion or leaving me as a single mom and Im suppose my period in a week an I've taken quizes that say I probably am and idk how to break this to my dad...idk what to do plz help!
by Jayboo7 on February 10, 2010 at 10:44 PM
Please email me at jayboo7@itunes.com thank you! I'm freaking out I need advice tips and I got questions for you thank you
by Cakess21 on February 11, 2010 at 11:07 PM
Im 15, and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We use the "pullout method" 90% of the time. Lately I've been so on edge about everything. All my thoughts are "what if Im pregnant." Like if I pee more then 2 times in an hour I get really worried, or If I eat too much in a day. Things like that make me freak out. Its a constant fear, even when i KNOW it couldnt be possible. I want to take a test to calm the fear, but what if it came out positive? Or something went wrong with the test? We started using a condom everytime now, and I still dont feel safe. How can I rid my fear?
by AliInWonderland on February 11, 2010 at 11:55 PM
I'm 17 & i had unprotcted sex about three weeks ago, but i got my period literally 24 hours after. I'm not sure if i could be pregnant or not, but i havent gotten my period this month yet ? What should i do?
by rayliz on February 12, 2010 at 4:20 PM
hi am rayliz am 19 go to college am preg and scare. i been with my bf 4 3yrs and am not sure what to. plz help oh by the way i have hpv and am scare that i can not have a child in the future..what can i do????????????
plz help
by Cakess21 on February 14, 2010 at 7:30 PM
Okay, so me and my boyfriend had sex the other night. When I got home about a few hours later I went to the bathroom and I saw blood when I peed. Now I knew my period had been done for almost 2 days..and I thought maybe it just wasnt done. For the past two days now It still bleeds a little, and Its like I still have my period, but Idk how thats possible. Anything you guys can tell me to explain this? Is it something I need to worry about?
by kiekie0009 on February 16, 2010 at 5:28 AM
well i have a friend that is 15 n she thinks that she is..
she said the next day she started to have symptons..
is it possible to have it that quick. idk but she i really scared
how should i help her.
by shaniya on February 18, 2010 at 7:49 AM
i'm 17 and willbe 18 next month i hd my firt chld when i was 15 and when he was 3 months t got pregant again. i had my scond child when i was 15 to they are now boyh 3 and we are doin good.
by madelineferrell on February 18, 2010 at 8:43 AM
cakess21 if that was your first time having sex then that happens, your "cherry" pops, which is a thin layer of skin that breaks when you have sex or are a very active in sports. You wouldn't normally show signs that soon of being pregnant it takes about 72 hours for the sperm to reach the egg. You should be okay, it can last from a few days to a week. It's nothing to be concerned about.
by Jesslorien8 on February 18, 2010 at 8:46 AM
Wow, you all have some serious problems.. i mean really if you are scared then dont have sex. I mean really use ur mind. If you are 14 then dont even thing about letting a guy get in your pants... let alone a guy that is like 4 or 3 years older then you.. i mean serioiusly you guys who are getting pregnant at 14 or 15 are really stupid. My brother who was a senior in high school got his girlfriend pregnant and right now his life is hell.. cause the girl he got pregnet is being a major brat and if you think about it he doesnt have a very good life. he goes to college, goes to his classes and comes home to take care of his child. so why dont u stop ur whinning like a baby and get over it.. this is ur own dang fault and now one eles. so get over ur selfs and grow up.
by cheeks13 on February 18, 2010 at 9:05 AM
Ladies listen to me. . . i know most of you are scared shitless and i get that. . . but you have to understand the world will give you no sympathy, this is your and your 'partners' fault (i hate to say fault because the babies you girls are having is not a crime, they are lovely gifts of god, cherish them). You and your 'man' should have thought about the consiquenses that can happen from having sex. i have had my fair share of trouble but come on ladies suck it up and do what you have to to provide a resanobly good life for your baby!
by loveinhim on February 18, 2010 at 9:22 AM
I'm 17 and I am pregnant with me best friends baby. He says he's excited about having a baby but once hes around his friends he totally ignores me. we fight everyday and he always has a reason why hes not good enough to have a baby. im keeping the baby no matter what but i want him to be a part of his sons life. what do i do
by hotttachickkka on February 18, 2010 at 12:16 PM
im 14, scared. i may or may not be pregnat. i was suppose to get my period two days ago..and i guess im may be just overreacting but im very nerves. i feeel pregnat. and i did not use protecctiionn.
by native10angel on February 19, 2010 at 9:06 AM
im 14 going onto fifteen and im scared. me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and im not on birth control. we only did it for like 15-20 seconds without one. he said he didnt precum or inject sperm in me. am i pregnant? im so scared, i dont know wat to do.
by 123poppy1993 on February 21, 2010 at 11:44 AM
I am 16 and had unprotected sex with my 51 year old boyfriend 8 days ago. Is it possible to have pregnancy smyptoms this early? I'm getting shooting pains in my lower abdomen at the left side and i'm having shooting pains in my breasts, however the time we had sex was 6 days before my ovulation day so is it still possible?
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by Lydiascared- on February 22, 2010 at 10:06 AM
i'm 13 and might possibly be pregnant. i don't know what to do if i am if i am i want to keep the baby but my mother would throw me out of the house or something like that please someone please help me if i am
by Lydiascared- on February 22, 2010 at 10:14 AM
i had my period a week ago and i'm having it again i was spotting but i've been sick. i usually don't have my period for a while if anyone knows something let me know please.
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by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by LUVLY_1309 on February 22, 2010 at 3:19 PM
im 17 with 2 kids having kids at a young age is hard and a big responsibility im finishing skool graduating in june still wit ma baby daddy and that makes it a lot easier so anybody that decides they wanna get pregnant and a bby make sure yo boyfriend/ babydaddy 2 b will stay by ur side kus ur truly gonna need him...................
by adina18000 on February 23, 2010 at 9:53 AM
im 14 and im pregnant im so scared just thinking about having to care for another life
by ireezybaby on February 25, 2010 at 6:01 PM
i am 15 turning 16. i got drunk and had sex but dont really remember much, the next morning i found out he didnt use a condom... i also found out he was 25..... this happened two weeks ago and i'm waiting to get my period in a week. what should i do? please help!
by Lexoabcd22 on February 26, 2010 at 8:24 AM
Hey I'm 15 and think I might be Prego it's been about a week and 8 days since we had sex. I'm tired have head aches and super sleepy my period didn't come idk wht to do... Help
by Run027Away on February 26, 2010 at 10:14 PM
ok well im 18 and im on birth control but i forgot to take my pill one day and had unprotected sex the next day with my boyfriend. i cannot believe i forgot to take the pill and then didn't even realize it until two days later!!! i keep beating myself up about it but my boyfriend says i should stay calm until we know. my period doesn't start for 13 more days and I'm going crazy. i was only on the pill for a few months before this happened.. does anyone know what my chances are of being pregnant? am i just over reacting or am i making sense?
by Run027Away on February 26, 2010 at 10:18 PM
so im 18 and im on birth control. i forgot to take my pill one night and had unprotected sex the next day. he did not pull out. i didnt do it on purpose. i dont know how i forgot my pill and then didnt realize it the next day. but ive only been on the pill for a few months before this happened. i heard that since i was only on it a few months my chances are higher than if someone was on it for a few years. my boyfriend is telling me not to worry about it too much until we know for sure. my period isnt suppose to start for 13 days. what are my chances of being pregnant? and am i over reacting or should i be worried? im really scared.
by yettaAll on February 27, 2010 at 2:27 PM
im doing an report on teenage pregnancy. when will more information be provided? Is there even a such thing as having a whole page about teenage pragnancy birth rates on a computer print out page.
Also when pragnant and a teen what are the most coming dieases you can catch and who many can you catch at a time?
Yetta ;
by dreamer444 on March 2, 2010 at 4:43 AM
hey
im in my teens, im going through a rough time ive missed my period which was supposed to come sunday but hasnt come and its now tuesday.. im very worried because ive had unprotected sex with my now ex bf and im scared that i might be pregnant.. should i be worried? if so what should i do first ? this is really killing me having to wait and wait
by amybutterworth on March 2, 2010 at 6:45 AM
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by amybutterworth on March 2, 2010 at 6:47 AM
You all call yourselves unlucky?
Im 9 years old, now baring my second child, i dont think the life of a mother is all that complicated. :D
by casshidyy on March 2, 2010 at 2:24 PM
I'm 13. My boyfriend is 17. The first time we had sex was 16 days ago, and we had sex twice afterwards. I think I may be pregnant, and I'm scared. My mom said if I ever go back out with him again, she'd put him on jail. I'm soooooo scared, and I love him so much! What do I do? So far, I have the early symptoms of pregnancy. If I'm pregnant I want to keep the baby, but I don't know! Please help me!
by alice_blase on March 4, 2010 at 7:33 AM
im 16 and i think i may be pregnant. i have all the symptoms and my tummy is getting alot bigger. i have gained weight. and theres another issue, the guy im pregnant by lives in tennessee. i live in louisiana. i had sex 3 months ago with him before a moved, we used a condom but it slipped but i also was on birth control. another issue, my parents know im sexually active and i had a miscarriage that they know about about 7 months ago. is it possible that i might be pregnant again? and wat do i do about the whole guy thing and the whole parent issue?
by chrissycee01 on March 4, 2010 at 9:29 AM
hello im 17 years old an i believe i am pregnant because missed my period for about 5 days... my bf is 19 and becoming a doctor.. we both have jobs.. and have been saving up money.. the problem is that i dont know if i am pregnant.. i cant get a pregnance test because my parents. and he doesnt know because i dont want to worry him. he has school to worry about.. so if i am..my parents will kill me.. like for real and stress will be added.. they told me they would send him to jail.. i live in oh btw.. and my brother and dad will try to kick his butt for real!.. im scared..i will be almost 18 when the baby is here.. and i will work out school like online.. but its just my parents.. its also b/c im suppose to be there Christian daughter. and everyone makes mistakes.. well me and my wonderful bf have been dating 4 3 years.. and he told me before we wouldnt leave me if i was prego.. we r so wonderful together.. hes everything to me. well almost.jkjk.. we use the "pull out method" dont ever do that ppl because he didnt pull out right away!.
the signs im having. and i do not know if the "are" sign..
-my breast KILL.. he cant even hug me.. and i cant lay on them
- feeling sick...after smells or in the morning and about to go to bed.. and when tired.
-headaces.. none stop..
-miss period
-high body temp. not really high though.
-moody.. my bf even noice that.
-my bf been sick. throwing up.. idk if thats one.
-i want ice cream soo bad. cookie dough
-need of water
-tired all the time.
please help
thank u! =D
Chrissy!
by awesome1994girl on March 5, 2010 at 3:12 AM
im 15 and terning 16 in November. the last time i had sex was unprotected and was at the end of January. I never had my period since December (i have my period every 3 months). i toke a prego test like last week and it said negative but my nipples have bin killer sore on me plus my boobs have gown. ..heres my email to give me advice tisblueyez@yahoo.com
by honey-jackson on March 5, 2010 at 6:50 AM
hey am 19...i had sex august 2009.......but i missed my period jan
2010...till now i haven't see my period...and i am not having any symtoms.and if my parent gott to no about this they are going to kill me..but am not sure if am pregnant...please help me .....i need help badly
by SCFORD on March 6, 2010 at 6:51 PM
0K SO IM 19..I HAD SEX DEC. 30 & 31ST...ITS NOW MARCH 6TH..I HAVE NOT GOTTEN MY PERIOD..I HAVE ALSO TAKEN 3 TESTS WHICH ALL CAME OUT NEGATIVE. BUT I HAVENT HAD MY PERIOD SINCE B4 X-MAS. PLZ HELP ME..I KNOW THERES NO WAY 2 TELL IF I AM OVER THE INTERNET..BUT I HAVE NO I.D CARD SO I CANT GO 2 THE CLINIC..CAN SOMEONE PLZ THROW SOME SUGGESTIONS OUT THERE OF WHAT IT COULD BE? THANK YOU SO MUCH.
by good_person101 on March 7, 2010 at 5:23 AM
Hi heres my story, I am 18 and I am 4 months pregnant. I graduate high school in about 2 months. I just found out that I am pregnant. I really really want to keep the baby, but my mom and bf don't they say the baby will have a crappy future and that I' "not ready" or "to immiture" to have a kid. I don't think I am... I think I could be a great mom and I don't mind sacraficing for my kid. I was just wondering if anybody else out there thinks I shouldn't do this?
Oh btw my bf is in the army and he still dosent want me to have it.
by MegLeeMo on March 8, 2010 at 7:49 PM
i had sex 4 days ago. the condom broke so he decided to put a new one on. the new one ended up breaking and he came on me. on like my pelvis. can i still drink this weekend? or is that still dangerous incase i am pregnant?
by abarksxoxo on March 9, 2010 at 8:54 AM
i'm 15 and i'm pretty sure i'm pregnant i had most of the symptoms...i have no idea where to go. I haven't told my boyfriend, or my parents. i've only told my 3 best friends and their parents. what should i do?
by xoCathyyxo on March 10, 2010 at 5:56 AM
i need help can anyone anwer this question?
im 15 years old. and i have all the pregancy symtoms and i dont wanna get checked for many resons i have ptsd and derpression and idk if i should be takn my meds. will it harm the baby? i need HELp. nd im really scared to take the test.!
by Baby_Gurl15 on March 10, 2010 at 10:48 AM
I am 15 also and I think I am pregnant also but I have major depression also and I don't want anybody to know about it but my belly keeps getting bigger. :(
by SuusiieeS on March 10, 2010 at 12:23 PM
What would happen if you just turned 15 and you got pregnant by a almost 24 year old n was in a care home??
please find out and let me know thank you:) x
by nervetired234 on March 10, 2010 at 12:49 PM
i am terrified. i've used a condom when we had sex and nothing went wrong but im 4 days late for my period. i hope im not pregnant. how could i tell? are there physical symptoms? ive been experiencing more indigestion then usual...maybe thats a sign. SOMEBODY HELP ME.
by yungBabyBelly on March 10, 2010 at 10:08 PM
last time I commented on this I said I was 4 months prego! Sadly to much stress and my ex being an ass made me have a miscarrage I'm sad when I think of the baby I lost and it's from not controlling what I let get to me....I feel bad cause once I told my bf he felt like a failure. I try to cheer him up cause he'll randomly yet drepressed. Even though we are so young he was happy to have a baby. He wanted to be with me cause he says I'm the only one who makes him feel loved. I wanna make him happy but my parents don't let me around him except at school. Now the weird part of this is that I think I might be prego again cause me and him are both gaining weight and I'm getting my symptoms back I think maybe this time if I am I'll take care of it for a while before telling my parents and maybe him just so I won't put him through depression again? Help?!
by NobleCross on March 14, 2010 at 7:54 AM
I have no experience in this department about being pregnant but I just want to say that you guys can do it! I know there are times when you hate your decision and wish that this was never happening. But you know your parents, friends, and hopefully your bf (you don't always need him you can stand on your own)are there to help you and your baby. But please don't give up. Your baby has no one else to stand up for them but you. By standing strong you not only give your self a voice but your baby as well. So all I have to say to all the teen mothers/fathers stand strong and good luck!
by WhitCT on March 14, 2010 at 9:00 PM
My name is Whitney im 16 and me and my bf had unprotected sex on feb 2nd and again the 25th. I'm terrified that im pregnant and im afraid to tell my mom cause she will never trust me ever again so long story short i wouldn't be as scared if i didn't have diabeties and celiac disease(both food dieseases) very dangerour and deathly. i don't have the slightest idea and i told my bf and he said that no matter what he will be there for me and he said"honestly i really do want a baby by you your everything to me and if you don't want a child then please just give birth to him/her and i will take care of it" im scared to death and my mom is a control freak & bipolar please help me!!!!??????
by palomita94 on March 19, 2010 at 11:52 AM
y does ur stomach hurtz wen u go to pee wen ur bf but da sperm inside of mee..
by palomita94 on March 19, 2010 at 11:52 AM
y does ur stomach hurtz wen u go to pee wen ur bf but da sperm inside of mee..
by lovingyou on March 21, 2010 at 11:28 PM
Hi, im 15 going on 16 and my bf is 17 bout to be 18. i turn 16 a month in ten days after him. we have been having sex. and i want a baby and he does to. he has a 16 moth lil girl and he wants another one. and i want one. but if i do get prego my mom would kill me. she had me at the same age. i want to now and how do i do it?? i mean i know how but i mean how to get around my parents. can i move out with him and get our own place. because we can afford it. but... i need advice. from a mom or a young teen pregnant or somebody.. i have asked my friends but thay say do it because its what you want and some say no because he is leaving after next year to go in the air force. but what if he does not come back..
by lovingyou on March 21, 2010 at 11:39 PM
i am 15 about to be 16 in October and i want a baby!my boyfriend is 17 about to be 18 in September. he wants one too.. but he leaving for the air force in like one to two years. he has a little girl named Skyla she is 16 months. We both want a kid. for him another for me my first. but i want it to be with him not just anyone. i love him soo much and im ready. but my parent is the problem. my momhad me at the same age and did just fine. i need advice. from a prego teen or a mom.. you can email me at pink_mouses08@yahoo.com
by Jojo213 on March 22, 2010 at 4:08 PM
Im 14 but my boyfriend thinks im 15 anyways i lied to him, we been qoinq out for 7 months and december we had decided to do it i know too quick but my hormones were likee OMG ! anyways so i didnt qet my period on the first of the month of january and then feb and then marsh so i know forsure im pregnant anyways so like im scared of my dadd. but i have my cousin support and i feel more confident im scared but i have to tell them i cant just wait, i have to make sure i have my vitamins and my baby is healthy i know i made a mistake and im not the type of qirl to get give up the kid for adoption or abortion. i made a mistake because i thought i was grown and i made an adult decision now this is the consequences im young and all but now i have to grown up. i just cant find a way to tell my parents.
by Jojo213 on March 22, 2010 at 4:10 PM
I still have to take the pregnancy test to make sure but i know i am . anyways im like scared to death my boyfriend supports me too. which that makes me happy. i just didnt think i would end up like this . i need tips on how to tell my parents
by angell14 on March 23, 2010 at 10:42 AM
Im 14.
Me and my bpyfriend have sex often.
We use condoms or he pulls out, and I'm on bith control.
I'm ten days late for my period, but I'm not having any other pregnancy symptoms.
Do you think I'm pregnant?
by lifexoxo on March 23, 2010 at 1:05 PM
So many of these young teenagers that are ages 14 and 15 years old are having sex. Your bodies are not ready for this and your not mentally ready for it either. I hate to break it to you young teenagers but when your this young many boys will say that they love you just to get what they want, most won't be there for you if you have a baby. Many of you don't even know things about sex when your in middle school, you need to enjoy your life as a kid before your chance is too late. There is plenty of time to have sex when your older just not now. BE SAFE, so many of you are having unprotected sex, it will effect you in the long run considering there is so many diseases out there. If your having sex, then your ready to except all the consequences that come along with it. Teenagers if you are thinking or about to have sex, step back talk with your parents and get the right stuff to be safe.
by texascowgirl09 on March 24, 2010 at 11:47 AM
i am 18 and i think i am pregant but i cant wait till my miss period because i am on birth control and i only have a period every 3 mounths! i know you think birth control you should not be able to get pregant but i think it had a hard time mixing with some other meds they just put me on!! idk what to do and my bf is freaking out!!
by ellolove21 on March 24, 2010 at 5:47 PM
Hi Im 16 going on 17 in May. i have a feeling that i want to be pregant, and that i am. but i've had my period, and no symptons. it's just a feeling i get. like i dream about it, like i want to be pregant. I dont know what it is! it's starting to scare me, my Boyfriend would be happy, but i know he really doesnt want a kid this soon. we've planned to have one once we move out next summer but 1 or 2 years later. We talk about this subject a lot, and he know's how i feel. we both respect each others feelings and wishes. i mean as close as we are and how kinda of prepared we are i think we'd be fine. like seriously i should really be calling him my fiance' because we are engaged. i mean, how we feel about each other we'd be there for each other if i was. idk what this feeling is. i just really want to know why i dream about being pregant, feel like i am, and want to be at such a young age.
HELP!? Please! i need to figure this out.
email me please :
mcrimnotokay521@yahoo.com
:)
by maggie097 on March 25, 2010 at 8:50 AM
do you guys believe in something supernatural like ghosts or spirits? In oriental world , we believe that ppl who do abortion, the ghost of their babies will fellow they everywhere asking for their rights live and with the babies' ire, their perents' cant be good, the babies' ire will bring their life down.
for ppl who have 6th sense or can see ghosts, the ghost of babies are always walking behind their parents.
believe it or not?
by xerinn on March 25, 2010 at 2:44 PM
I'm 17 and I think I might be pregnant.
I took two pregnancy tests and they both came out negative
but that always doesn't mean anything.
I gained 5 pounds, I have been eating more than usual and
I am tired a lot more.
I have also thrown up twice in the morning and have felt
naucious through out the day sometimes.
What should I do?
by gloNmike4ever on March 25, 2010 at 8:17 PM
K so im 15 yrs old and live in utah. my boyfriend is 19 and is in the army. he came home on the 6th of march and when he came i was still on my period. two days later i got off it. then on the 10th he came over and we had unprotected sex. he cummed on my vagina not in it but i am aware that sperm does travel and it could've traveled into my whole. then on st. patricks day we got us a hotel room and again had unprotected sex again but this time he pulled all the way out before bustin. but now he's gone and before he left i told him a i was a little scared about maybe bein pregnant but he says he doubts that i am but im still a little scared. i don't really keep track of my periods and stuff but im pretty sure i should be startin it pretty soon maybe this weekend or sometime next week and i've just been so anxious. we decided that if i am we're keeping it. i am however really scared of him going to prison for it. we've been together 9 wonderful months now. but anyways lol i have been having to pee alot i don't feel sick at all or anything else that could be a sign of pregnancy. i have been thinking it's kinda soon to be experiencing any symtoms at all but i could be wrong i just want to kno if i am pregnant or not. please HELP ME!!!!
by akrapm on March 26, 2010 at 5:31 AM
hey this is ariel i have been engaged in sex and had many scares and iv been lucky and so has my girl anita, it is scarey and you feel alone i understad and if i ever got prego id be dead and have no life. you may think ur bf will stay with u but he wont trust me they almost sometime always leave..
by akrapm on March 26, 2010 at 12:30 PM
life is what you make it you make mitakes and you may regret them but there is always a good cause in the end..
by deebow on March 29, 2010 at 2:10 AM
Hey ima boy friend to a very panoid girlfriend she is 18 and i am 17. i took her virginity last year on may 22 and since then we have been sexually active. when ever we are we are EXTRA careful using condoms all the time never has been one time that we havent used one. this year shes had her last period on january 24 wev had sex after that on feb14 mar5 and mar 20 during and in between those times she has takin 3 pregnacy tests that have came back negative..now its going to be two months in april now. shes not on birth control. but she does have a very high stress level which has now increased because she might be pregnant. now me i no i was safe i didnt go to fast and after i was done i always did the water check n wev been good....NOW I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH HER CAN SUMBODY HELP US PLEASE??!! THE ONLY WAY SHE WOULD BELEIVE ME IS IF I GET SUM PROFESSU\IONAL HELP AND SHE WONT GO TO THE DOCTOR TILL HER PERIOD COMES...
by ALostAngel10 on March 29, 2010 at 9:17 AM
IM 15 YEARS OLD AND MIGHT BE PREGNANT? IDK I STARTED FEELING SICK THE 12TH OF MARCH AND A COUPLE OF MORE DAYS AFTER THAT. ON AND OFF I'VE BEEN FEELING SICK AND HAVING MOOD SWINGS AND EVEN SORE BREAST SINCE 2 DAYS AGO...BUT RECENTLY MY BOYFRIENDS MOM FOUND OUT THAT I MIGHT BE PREGNANT..THE ONLY ONE THAT DOESNT KNOW IS MY MOM...I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TOO TELL HER IF I AM WHICH I DNT KNOW YET. MY BOYFRIENDS MOM OFFERED TO BUT ME A PREGNANCY TEST TO FIND OUT FOR SURE...IF I AM HOW DO I TELL MY MOM??
& AM I PREGNANT?
HELP!!!!
by melissakl on April 2, 2010 at 6:28 PM
im 17 years old. turning 18 in july. and i yesterday was suppose to be the last day of my period, so me and my kinda boyfriend had sex yesterday, but with a condom.. and once he cummed and pulled out the condom was broken. today i felt like total shit. i had a really bad headache and felt like i had an upset stomach all day, and i still feel it now.. he wants me to get plan B before tomorrow morning.. do you think im pregnant? if i am, i dont want to take the plan b. and i would keep it... so please let me know if you think im pregnant.
by babylover on April 4, 2010 at 2:41 PM
im 17 nd im 5months pregnant i ran away tho bekuz my mom wanted me to get rid of it . but im so damn scared they gonna take this baby from me . but i already love him his father nd my current boifriend both support me . but my mom doesnt wat do i do ?
by ambie1994 on April 7, 2010 at 5:18 AM
hi my name is amber from indiana i am 15 going on 16 on december 12 me and my boy friend had sex a month ago i did not have my period last month i think i might be pregant ad i dont know what do do i dont want to give the baby up for adoption because i was and i dont want to kill the baby WHAT SHOULD I DO HELP ME PLZ
by warhyn on April 8, 2010 at 1:49 AM
on what time that the teenager notice that she is pregnant?
by warhyn on April 8, 2010 at 1:50 AM
on what exaclty time that pregnancy is detected..??
by r3dstar0549 on April 8, 2010 at 12:00 PM
it is very dumb of people to come and post things about teenage pregnancy because mostly alot of people have had babies wen dey were young n its not a problem because to god we werent a problem a child is a gift from god n every body wonders y this world is going down in every aspect cuz we are the ones doing wrong in killin g our unborn children if u dont regret killing a child now u will some day n god will judge u for that there are no excuses to killing n inocent child
by Kateykat94 on April 8, 2010 at 1:05 PM
Hey, Im 15 years old and I had unprotected sex yesterday....he stuck his penis in and then took it right out...no precum or cum, could I still be pregant?
by Kitty1327 on April 8, 2010 at 9:27 PM
Hi I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 23. We have unprotected sex 3 times this last week but I was ovulating now I think I'm pregnant. I'm kinda of excited because we both have jobs and go to college and I have my own place =] cross my fingers.
by neztlei on April 13, 2010 at 6:42 AM
hi im
by neztlei on April 13, 2010 at 6:48 AM
hi im a 19 yr old girl..
i have a delay period..i had sex the day i had my period..it was a couple of hours when i got my period after my boyfriend and i had a sexual intercourse.it is now my 38th day of not having my period.. im irregular when having my period. i don't feel any sign or symptoms.. i read some articles about delay menstruation. it says there that it can be because of stress. this past few days i had an activity that really makes me tired, did not have a long sleep and can't eat properly.. i also have an eating disorder..can this be the reason?..
is it possible to get pregnant even if you had your period after having sex?..pls answer it..tnx..
by neztlei on April 13, 2010 at 6:50 AM
to add more.. i got my last period last march 6.. and today is april 13..about a week to be delay..
by kiddo1994 on April 14, 2010 at 3:00 PM
What if your scared a guy cummed in you trying to get you pregnet but your only 15 and hes 25 and it happened afew days ago?
by HelpfulFriend on April 14, 2010 at 11:08 PM
Alright i have a friend (aha i'm not just saying that cause i'm trying to cover up my own self, my friend is actually the one i'm worried about) and she is 15 about a week ago she got fingered by a guy who had cum on his finger, but it had dried a little bit. She has been experiencing pain in her upper Abdominen and nasuea (which she claims she felt before her and her boyfriend got intimate) she is still a virgin and she isn't anywhere near her period. She's afraid to take the test and i do not know how to convince her. I'm pretty sure that after she knows that i'm here for her through whatever she'll be able to find the strength to find out but...i still need to know more
I've done some research but i'm still looking for more information. Is it possible she could be pregnant?
by ErinMariee on April 19, 2010 at 11:01 AM
Im not to sure if im pregnate or not. I am 15 and had sex with my boyfriend on the 29th of march. The last time i got my period was on the 18th. We used a condom and everything but im just not sure. Right now i am only like a day or two late, but im worried. My parents have no idea i have had sex, so i cant go to them for help. They think teens who get pregnate are trashy. Saturday we were watching 16 and Pregnate and they made some rude remarks, which is when it dawned on me that i very well could be pregnate. I have been tired and iv noticed my brest have been sore. Could i be pregnate? How long should i wait untill i take a pregnacy test?
by ilmb2011 on April 21, 2010 at 5:26 PM
im 17 and a month ago i had protected sex with a friend of mine, and had my period a week later,then 2 weeks ago i had unprotected sex with a different guy, my boyfriend, and he made me take a pregnancy test. well it came out positive but that was only 1 week after we had sex when i was ovulating. can the test actually tell that soon? i really am scared that it could be the first guys baby, and that would ruin my life more then if it is my boyfriends. so idk wut to think or who to talk to about this.
by peekinboo on April 22, 2010 at 1:42 PM
What if you took three home tests and one was positive and the last two were negative? Are you pregnant or not?
by emo_princess100 on April 27, 2010 at 3:23 PM
I'm almost 15, i'm in high school. And I may be pregnant. My boyfriend and I are scared but have decided that if I am pregnant then we'll keep it and raise it. We just don't know what we'll do to support it. He'll be off to college in a few months. What can we do?
by crisy00003 on April 27, 2010 at 6:16 PM
Somebody please answer. I live in a small town where about 10% of girls in my high school are getting pregnant. I try to be safe, I use spermicidal condoms, gel, sponges, and avoid sex around my period. But last week I had sex with only a latex alternative condom and gel, but when we were finished the outside of the condom had a milky look to it. Do my "secretions" and the gel react to cause this, or should I be worried?... I don't want to be the next teen mom in school. I just found out yesterday my ex boyfriend from freshman year is having a baby with an old friend of mine. Also, this is gross, but when I went to pee a few minutes ago a clear gooey substance came out of my vagina and I don't know what it is. Someone please tell me if you know what this was!
by rockylove18 on April 27, 2010 at 11:35 PM
I think all preganant teens should go to this website it offers great adivce.
http://healthyrelationships411.webs.com/
by rockylove18 on April 27, 2010 at 11:36 PM
i think that all pregnant teens should visit this website it offers alot of advice.
http://healthyrelationships411.webs.com/
by healthExpert on April 28, 2010 at 12:59 AM
Since, a teenager?s body is still growing, it is necessary to eat the right amount of pregnancy diet that is essential for you as well as your baby. Correct composition of vitamins and minerals are required mainly in case of a teen pregnancy. It is normal to gain 25-30 pounds during pregnancy and the minimum intake of calories per day should be no less than 300.Gaining weight is much more important if you want to breastfeed the child. Never skip meals and avoid junk food as much as possible as the have very little or no nutrient value at all.
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by breababy on April 28, 2010 at 2:50 PM
my best friend died when she had hers she was 13
by breababy on April 28, 2010 at 2:52 PM
my friend just died a year ago from being pregnant at 13
by breababy on April 28, 2010 at 2:53 PM
yupp yupp
by monamck on April 29, 2010 at 8:48 PM
okay well im 16 about to be 17 and im pregnant, im scared crapless and dont know what to do, if someone will talk to me, i have a whole future ahead of me and ill be a senior next year, i got cheer captain and volleyball.im not ready for responsibilty, im not ready for any of this.im in depression and so confused, ive been with the guy for over a year, but this isnt what i want..please pray for me.
by auraraine on April 30, 2010 at 12:23 PM
well i was 17 when i got pregnant. i'm 18 now and my daughter is almost two months. shes the happiest thing thats ever came into my life. i will never regret a thing, never wish anything different, because she's changed me so much already, being a mommy knowing you have someone who will love you forever no matter what and someone who looks up to you, it makes you try so much harder. i'm graduating this year, but have nothing to my name. no money, no job, no car-not even a license..my boyfiend isnt the greatest, he's hit me, we fight almost constantly(cheating issues and lying) but i love him, and i believe everything gets better in time and i know he will change at some point. I want him in our daughters life and mine, together as the happy family we believed we would have. i've been with him almost 2 years but he's the love of my life, my first real love. i think young teens need to start learning that no matter what! you can get pregnant, the only way to not, is to not have sex. I want to tell all these young girls...wait for the special guy, wait till your older and know what love really is. dont just hop on the first guy you think you love because honestly, i bet it wont be your last. Live you life, be a kid for awhile longer, before you take on this responsibility. and please, if you are pregnant, you need to tell someone right away because there are things you must do when your pregnant. get regular checkups for the babys health and yours, you need to get on pre-natal vitamins, make sure you dont drink/smoke/drugs etc. Do whats best for that little person you have inside you..they truely are an angel. A baby is a special gift, do the right thing for them and you...sometimes its a hard decision but no choice is the wrong choice..i'm a proud mommy =D
by babyashlei on May 3, 2010 at 7:14 AM
i'm 17 and i'm on the depo shot and i had unprotective sex with an 28 year old (not even my boyfriend just a fwb) a week before my next depo shot. i'm feeling nausa after i eat. I grew up around the smell of smoke but lately its been making me want to throw up. I had a very lite period the day i was supposed to get my next depo shot. I don't know if i am or not.and it is scaring me not knowing. i'm a senior in high school barely about to graduate. My friend like i said is 28 in college and works a clinc. I'm too scared to tell my parents because they would freak.(trust me i know) I just don't know when i should take the pregancy test. its only been alittle over a week. and my friend thinks i am, but i don't know. He wants me to go to my parents, but im scared to and i don't want to go before i know for sure i am or not. I have less than 4 months til i'm 18. I truelly don't know what to do
by SUGARB133 on May 3, 2010 at 9:51 PM
hi im 15 bout to be 16 i had a abortion when i was 13 but after a mouth me n my boyfriend had sex and we didnt use protein for almost a year now and i got my period every mouth but i think i might not get it this mouth cuz usally i feel it comming or crumps come early to know im bout to be i had it last outh and me n my boyfriend have sex all the time when i stay or spend time with him !HELP ME PLEASE NEED TO KNOW WHATS GOIN ON IM WORRIED?
by clauflo on May 4, 2010 at 10:00 AM
Ive gone through this but in all case, sometimes your period can be delayed and not always do you feel cramps or other symptoms to when you have your period, if your worried about being pregnant.. do not have any sexual activity near your usual period date and you could purchase a pregnancy that is accurate and gives you results 4 up to 6 days before your expected period. :)
by cookie_monster0 on May 4, 2010 at 5:54 AM
Im 15 && i had sex on the 14 of april like 3 days after my period he came in me then we had sex on the 29 of april he came in me again... i am suppose to get my period on the second of may && it is the 4th of may now && i haven't got my period yet...could i be pregnant????
by clauflo on May 4, 2010 at 10:13 AM
The higher chances of being pregnant is through out your period cycle, by saying this it doesn't mean the days you actually have your period, as teenagers your menstrual cycle lasts up to 25 days, from before you have your period and afterwords..Then again your period could be delayed, if you haven't had any sexual activity since that day i would recommend you to take a pregnancy test for it to be accurate.
by clauflo on May 4, 2010 at 9:52 AM
I am 15 and i am pregnant by a 19 year old. Were raising it, abortion isn't the best way to get rid of an innocent baby, you'll regret it later in time.
by MayEM93 on July 13, 2010 at 1:30 AM
Girlllss, girls, GIRLS;
We all know about sex, we've all had sex, most more than others. Its greattt rigthhht? Well how about use these things called BIRTH CONTROL PILLS, or CONDOMS. If ya don't plan on having a baby when ur 13, 14... then use those dandy tools! Ha, just saying its basically common sense! We see all these new shows "16 and pregnant" and stuff, and we see how hard they have it now that they are 16 and have a baby.. they are like sophomores in high school and have babies.. its tough! Stay protected girls <3 :)
by HMNHS on July 20, 2010 at 2:34 PM
im 14 i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period has ended didnt use a condom...... are the chances of getting pregenate high, haveing sex the day after you finished your period?
by HMNHS on July 20, 2010 at 2:34 PM
im 14 i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period has ended didnt use a condom...... are the chances of getting pregenate high, haveing sex the day after you finished your period?
by HMNHS on July 20, 2010 at 2:46 PM
CAN I PLEASE GET AN ANSWER FOR THIS QUESTION: im 14 i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period has ended didnt use a condom...... are the chances of getting pregenate high, haveing sex the day after you finished your period?
by Icexxxx on July 24, 2010 at 3:59 PM
This is so damn confusing. I heard that implantation bleeding can be like a period, or really light, and some women don't experience it at all.
I had protected sex on July 4, and my last period was around June 19th or 20th. I was worried for some strange reason that I might be pregnant (just my paranoia, because there was no good reason to think that), but I started getting scared when my period was not coming. Scared to the point of crying and worrying and even getting weird physical symptoms...
Period came on the 22nd, heavy like normal but now is lightening up again, and stopping? I think
I don't know if I'm pregnant; no other symptoms, and I really don't think i can buy a pregnancy test, at least without covering myself from head to toe so no one can see my face. Dunno, I'm really worried, and I haven't exactly told my boyfriend, but he expresses this 'I don't care' mentality about getting pregnant, probably just because he's a guy.
Life is stupid and unfair; I wish I had like a close girl friend or something to buy a pt for me. I'm too scared to do it myself (dollar store needs to get a damn self-checkout)
Ps. most people here don't seem to be able to spell, especially the word "pregnant"...it's so weird
by babyb1 on July 24, 2010 at 6:52 PM
im 16 and i had sex wit my boyfriend of 22.....well it wasnt really like sex cuz he just put it in like 6 times and dint cum inside me.......i havent seen my period nd im scared of being pregnant....my father wuld kill me.do u tink im pregnant?im scared of doing a test
by lillysexjay on July 26, 2010 at 8:05 AM
im 17 and i have a boyfriend that is 20. we had sex on july 4 & 5 and my mom doesnt know and shes not going to find out. when i get my period i know what day it comes, how many days between every month, and i even know what time of the day it comes i keep it on track. but i guess i dont now. i was suppose to get my period on thursday july 22 but it never came. then i was with my boyfriend yesterday july 25 and we had sex while we had sex i started bleedin so we thought i got my period, but its not there anymore. what does this mean ?
by lawera13 on July 27, 2010 at 11:32 AM
Ok im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 about to be 18 and we had sex and he came in side of me and i have my period next week but if it dont come at all does that mean i am? please help me.. :(