Premature Ejaculation

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Overview
Premature ejaculation is a very common sexual disorder. When a male frequently ejaculates before he or his partner would prefer, this is considered premature ejaculation. Infrequent cases of this are normal, especially in young men.

Although the causes of premature ejaculation are not known, doctors believe that both emotional (i.e. guilt, anxiety) and biological (i.e. abnormal hormone levels, thyroid problems) factors contribute. Premature ejaculation is probably emotionally based if you have "secondary" premature ejaculation, meaning premature ejaculation has not always been a problem. Primary premature ejaculation means that this problem has existed since you first began having sexual contact (this includes masturbation).

Symptoms
While there's no standard for how long it should take a man to ejaculate, premature ejaculation is simply ejaculation prior to when the male or his partner wishes.

Treatment
There are a few things that may help. First, masturbate a few hours before intimacy with your partner. This will relieve sexual tension in the body and it will therefore take more time for arousal in the near future.

Daily Kegel exercises are another option. These exercises strengthen the PC muscles which contribute to control over the penis.

Antidepressants are sometimes prescribed because a side effect of these medications is delayed ejaculation.

You may also try the "Stop and Start" method. This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. Remove stimulation for 30 seconds and then resume. Repeat until the desired moment of ejaculation is reached.

Finally, there is something called the "Squeeze Technique." This involves having your partner squeeze the penis where the head (glans) joins the shaft when you are about to ejaculate. Squeeze for 30 seconds and then resume intercourse. If the desire to ejaculate resurfaces, repeat the exercise.

Ask Your Physician
It is very important that a male and his partner have open communication if this problem exists. Premature ejaculation can put stress on a relationship and even cause fertility problems for couples trying to have a baby.

Talk to a doctor about therapy and treatments that may aid in your problem. It is estimated that one in three men have this problem, so do not feel embarrassed.

Find out more about premature ejaculation and treatment.

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Last updated on: 11/18/09

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by justwant2help on May 15, 2009 at 11:06 PM

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by justwant2help on May 15, 2009 at 11:06 PM

the only thing worked for me was a desensitizing spray , which was different that other sprays in terms of u never loose erektion and ur not numb and dont feel a thing. if u need the name of the spray email me iam not a scam nor want to sell u anything just wana help
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by justwant2help on May 15, 2009 at 11:06 PM

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by Chicken123dg on July 18, 2009 at 1:42 PM

PREMATURE EJACULATION CURE:
Having suffered with this all my life I finally found only ONE thing that works for sure, Everytime.
PAXIL ... NO GENERICS ... ONLY TRUE PAXIL BRAND WORKS.
Not Zoloft, Lexapro, Wellbutrin, etc., and NOT just any (SSRIs)
I have tried them all.
I take 20 mg of Paxil 10-12 hours before sex and can last for at least 30 minutes. If I take 30 mg of PAXIL I will not cum at all. Experiment with your own dozage to get it right. I have tried everything. Everything mentioned here plus a lot of other stuff. If you truly have Premature Ejaculation none of the other things listed will work for you. I have been using it for 10 years with NO side effects. The best thing about this is you do not have to take it daily, just take when needed 10 hours before sex.

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by Carson32 on October 11, 2009 at 5:52 PM

The key to stopping premature ejaculation is gaining control of your ejaculatory reflex. Due to excessive masterbation many men have trained to their reflex to release quickly causing premature ejaculation. I found a site that me how to retrain my reflex and now I can last as long as I want. Hopefully it can help you to.

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by Mr-Manpower on October 23, 2009 at 8:00 AM

Good advice.... in many cases, however, SSRIs are not strong enough to cure premature ejaculation...

Some men have certain ejaculatory "triggers" that if not corrected, will still lead to a premature ejaculation. Check this out:

"Are SSRI's Good Enough on their Own to Overcome Premature Ejaculation?"

http://mistermanpower.net/blog/?p=255

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