Smart Shopping for Male and Female Condoms

A condom is the only method that will protect against both sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. Condoms come in all styles, colors and sizes. Usually when we hear the word "condom" we immediately think of the male condom. But the female condom, which was created in 1992, is a protective sheath that a woman inserts inside of her vagina that offers the same kind dual protection as its male counterpart. It is secured by two flexible rings at both ends of the pouch and keeps the vagina and cervix from coming into contact with the penis.

When male condoms are used properly, they are highly effective at preventing sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. In addition latex condoms offer protection against the spread of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, because the pore size in latex condoms is too small for the virus to pass through.

The discomfort or embarrassment over talking about condoms is minuscule in comparison to the health risks associated with not using one. There are many resources to help you become more comfortable and more confident in using condoms.

What to Look for

From shape to texture, choosing a condom style largely depends upon personal preference. It may take experimenting with several different brands and styles before you find one that suits you and your partner's needs.

Both male and female condoms are made out of either latex or polyurethane. Polyurethane which is made out of plastic and is thinner tends to be more expensive. Studies have shown that both materials are equal in strength.

When purchasing a condom, pay attention to what kinds of lubricants can safely be used with it. Lubricants allow the condom to slide on easier and they also prevent breakage. Water-based lubricants should only be used with latex condoms as oil lubricants deteriorate the latex. Oil or water-based lubricants are safe to use with condoms made from polyurethane. Many condoms are already lubricated with a water or silicone lubricant.

Most male condoms include a tip at the end to catch semen.They can be purchased with a ribbed or a non-ribbed texture. Ribbed is believed to enhance sensation for both the man and woman. Shapes include regular, form-fitted or flared. Sizes of condoms vary in length and width. Generally, a smaller width will result in a closer fit.

Female condoms are not as available as male condoms are and they tend to be more expensive. One female condom costs between $2.50 and $5.00. Since they are still new to the market, they do not yet have the versatile styles as male condoms do.

Both male and female condoms should be used only once and then disposed of. They should not be flushed down the toilet.

Common Pitfalls

There are few things to keep in mind when choosing a condom. If you are allergic to latex, make sure that you purchase condoms that are made from polyurethane. Also, check the expiration date on male condom packages as they can lose their effectiveness over time. Additionally, don't store condoms in a place that is sensitive to heat like your wallet or the glove compartment of your car.

When considering using a female condom, keep in mind that they have a higher failure percentage of preventing pregnancies than other forms of birth control. According to the American Pregnancy Association, female condoms have a 21 percent failure rate. Those interested in the female condom should also be aware that the outer ring of the female condom is visible even when it is fully inserted and the device makes noises during intercourse.

Whether choosing a male or female condom, it is necessary to follow the instructions on the package to ensure the condom's effectiveness and safety.