A person being stalked or harassed can get a restraining court order. A parent or guardian can receive a restraining order for a minor child. Restraining orders are issued for protection, security and privacy, and do not require any former relationship between the parties. You should take certain steps to make sure the restraining order is issued properly and legally, and works in your favor.
Details
A thorough restraining order is full of details that make the court instructions clear and enforceable, according to Criminal Justice Intervention. When you fill out the affidavit and the petition for a restraining order, provide as many details as you can about the kinds of threats you have undergone, the places you have been harassed and all distinguishing features about the harasser. Provide all the contact information you have about the person, including addresses, work locations, phone numbers and email addresses.
Follow-Up
A temporary restraining order may be issued to last until the formal hearing is scheduled. Follow up with the local sheriff's department to make sure the order was delivered to the alleged harasser to verify your protection. If the sheriff's department is not in charge of delivering the order, find out which agency handles the notice and follow up with that department. A temporary order lasts only for 14 days if it cannot be delivered. You can post the restraining order publicly in the local newspaper if the sheriff cannot find the harasser to deliver the notice. You must request the public notice through the court administrator for it to be valid. It will run for one week.
Prepare
Keep in touch with the court while you are awaiting a formal hearing. They need to know all your contact information if it changes. Show up for the hearing and bring witnesses and be fully prepared to explain why you are seeking the HRO, or harassment restraining order. Bring pictures if you've had medical treatment for abuse. Coworkers can vouch for any harassment that may have taken place at your job. Bring neighbors and relatives who have direct knowledge of the harassment.
Stay Safe
The restraining order is merely a legal formality on paper and does not guarantee your safety. When filing an HRO, keep in mind that you still may be in danger. According to End Stalking in America, the legal paperwork often ensures that the police will take your calls more seriously. Most stalkers and harassers do not obey restraining orders however. Don't rely on the paperwork to protect you. Continue to take appropriate safety measures to protect you and your family. Tell your neighbors and coworkers about the restraining order and keep a copy of the court ruling on you at all times. Give copies to neighbors and relatives.
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