Discovering that you have been cheated on usually comes as a total shock. Even if your marriage has been failing for some time, the realization your spouse is cheating can catch you completely off guard. Having to accept that a spouse is cheating is painful and unacceptable. Most people overlook the most obvious signs that a spouse is thinking of cheating.
More Fights
The spouse becomes increasingly argumentative for no apparent cause about finances, work or other normal stressors. The spouse may even become more critical of you, attempting to make you doubt yourself.
Too Nice
Be careful of the spouse that has become too nice if this is not a normal personality trait. You may be showered with gifts for no apparent reason, which may perhaps be a behavior compensating for secret infidelity.
Secrecy
A spouse that is thinking of cheating may demonstrate various signs of secrecy. In an effort to conceal his contact history and cover up any calls to a potential mistress, a potential cheater may be very protective of his cell phone, his call history or his contact list. A husband may close computer windows or delete browsing history to reduce suspicion.
Pay Attention
Your husband may be telling you about the other woman. If your husband is consistently talking about one particular woman from the office, from the gym or is just an acquaintance more than he usually does, it might be a sign for concern.
Appearance and grooming
if your husband is cheating, he may have become unusually more attentive to his appearance. He may buy new styles of clothing, cologne or grooming products.
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