According to the University of New Hampshire, self-esteem is defined as how you really feel about yourself. From the first few months of development in a child's life, he establishes self-esteem through recognition, appreciation and nurturing from his parents and caregivers. Instilling positive reinforcement with your child will help have high self-esteem and be a confident individual throughout life.
Importance
Self-esteem is important for a child because it helps them mold the person they are going to become. It can affect her development and their overall relationships with others throughout life. The National Network for Childcare states that a child who has high self-esteem takes pride in herself and has confidence in what she does both socially and in school. High self-esteem proves important in order to develop good and lasting relationships and have the confidence to defend against bullies and critical situations.
Low Self-Esteem Characteristics
A child with low self-esteem may feel deep inside like he is worthless or not good enough to fulfill the expectations of adults or peers. He may avoid trying new things, put himself down, blame others, feel unloved or be unable to tolerate frustration. If he has low self-esteem he may also be bullied, isolate himself, become shy or unwilling to engage in social or school activities. The Child Development Institute suggests that some cases of low self-esteem develop from the parent's behavior toward the child. This may include ridicule or giving your child a tough time if he fails a test or loses a baseball game. Children who are the subject matter of harsh criticism early on may develop low self-esteem.
High Self Esteem Characteristics
A child who has a high level of self-esteem will likely carry himself with dignity and self pride. The KidsHealth website says that she may show characteristics of independence, trying new things, offering help to others and being a leader in a group. She may also offer a helping hand to others in need. She will assume responsibility by completing tasks on time and showing confidence in the classroom and among peers.
Building Self Esteem
If your child experiences low self-esteem, there are steps you can take to build it up and make him feel good about himself according to the National Mental Health Information Center. The first step includes stopping any type of negative recognition for what they do. If he fails a test, instead of saying he is not smart enough, reaffirm to him that he needs to try harder next time. Help him succeed by getting him help or showing him how to correct a problem. Compliment children on how they look and act. Reward them with good behavior. Show love and affection frequently throughout the day.
Risks of Low Self Esteem
There are some risks associated with your child having low self esteem. She may be unable to develop or sustain lasting friendships. This can lead to loneliness and feelings of low self worth. According to MayoClinic.com says that low self-esteem can make it difficult for a child to handle stressful situations. Long term, if low self-esteem carries over to adulthood it may lead to depression and turning to addiction to feed loneliness and feelings of low self worth.
