Adoption can be a complex, sometimes maddening process that brings profound rewards to both parent and child. In addition to the ways you can help a child and the world become better, examine why you want to adopt. Focus your ideas by taking a course offered by local, state and federal caregiver resources or start with a limited commitment like fostering to explore your motivation.
Biological Clock
As a female's fertility begins to decline in her 30s, the desire for a child---or for another child---may become more intense, according to Katheryn Patricelli, MA in "Choosing to Adopt." In today's society, later marriage, singles-by-choice and blended families have become almost as common as the traditional family; adoption has become a way to "beat the clock" and contribute to the next generation at an older age.
Lack of Genetic Partner
Adoption also may be a choice for parents who have lost children or if a partner has a genetic condition that makes conception risky. Couples also may consider adoption when one partner has a hereditary genetic condition that they do not wish to pass on to another generation. Same-sex couples and single parents also face the dilemma of the lack of a genetic partner.
Paying It Forward
Nearly 58 percent of the American population has had experience with adoption, either personally or through their family or friends, according to the Evan P. Donaldson Adoption Institute. Many want to invest the success they have had in children who are not as fortunate. Adopted as a child himself, businessman Dave Thomas participated wholeheartedly in national adoption campaigns and established the Dave Thomas Foundation to provide resources and services for prospective parents and adoptees nationwide.
Social Conscience
Whenever disaster strikes, children are often the first and most vulnerable victims and many Americans want to help. Adoption of these children often brings special requirements in patience and rehabilitative efforts and international adoptions often involve considerable expense. There are also children displaced by American violence and disasters in need of homes.
Warning
No matter how well-intentioned the parent's motivations for adoption, most applications are decided by courts that consider the best interests of the child ahead of all other parties. An honest, clear set of reasons for adopting helps convince agencies and courts that potential parents know why they want to adopt.
