How Women Like to Be Kissed

Kissing is an art form. For a woman, a good kiss isn't rushed or hurried. Women don't like to feel an aggressive tongue forced down their throats (the snake effect).

If you have never kissed a woman, a "less is more" approach should be taken. You need to test the waters first to see how she responds and what she likes. First, kiss her lips softly with a teasing, gentle kiss. Women love passion and romance. If you approach kissing ravenously (like you approach eating a roast beef sandwich), you won't win her favor.

Some women like a gentle suck or nibble on their bottom lip. Concentrate on the actual lips before you snake your tongue inside her mouth. If you shove your tongue inside her mouth as soon as you start kissing, you will probably turn her off instantly with your lack of finesse.

Nibble and suck on her lips as you alternate slow soft kisses on her mouth. Don't forget to kiss her cheeks, chin, eyelids, jawline and neck. The neck is a sensitive area on a woman's body and many women love to be kissed on their necks. Nibble on her earlobes and kiss behind her ear very gently. Some women love their arms and hands to be kissed. Use your imagination when it comes to kissing a woman. Don't just concentrate on her mouth. Some women will let you know what they like or do not like. Pay attention to the signs and signals she sends your way.

If attempting French kissing, make sure she is responsive. Slowly tease her lips with your tongue to see if she is ready for your tongue. When you French kiss, make sure you gently intertwine your tongue with her tongue. Don't force your tongue down her throat until she can't breathe. Some women like their tongues to be sucked. As you kiss her, pay attention to how she responds to you. If she is moaning and sighing, you probably have hit the right kissing buttons. However, if she keeps her lips locked tightly together, she probably doesn't want your tongue inside her mouth. Make sure you aren't slobbering over her face or chin. That's an instant turn-off for women. Slobbering is meant for dogs and babies, not grown adults.

If you follow these few simple steps when it comes to kissing a woman, she will soon melt and swoon in your arms. You don't have to be a famous movie or rock star to know how to kiss a woman. You just need to be perceptive, sensitive and use your creative imagination.