Cocaine is a powerfully addicting stimulant drug that alters the way the user relates to loved ones. The Cleveland Clinic notes that many cocaine users do not realize they have a drug problem, and when confronted they often push loved ones away. Helping someone with a cocaine addiction is a complex and often frustrating process. If you are facing the challenge of helping a cocaine user, remember that you are not alone; support is available, and persistence is key.
Step 1
Talk to your loved one. In a private setting, share your concerns about the cocaine use and invite the person to freely express his thoughts. Use an assertive communication style to express how you feel about the person when he uses cocaine rather than lecturing him on what he should or should not be doing.
Step 2
Establish boundaries in the relationship. Explain to your loved one that you will not supply her money to obtain the drug nor will you allow her to visit when she is intoxicated. Placing these boundaries may be painful, but your loved one needs to understand you will not contribute to her unhealthy behavior.
Step 3
Understand the reality of the addiction. Cocaine addiction is not necessarily due to ill intent of the user. Realize that your loved one may struggle with denial of his addiction, which makes quitting the drug difficult. Do not attribute his cocaine problem to weak character. Inform yourself about the cycle of addiction through reading about and attending support programs.
Step 4
Educate your loved one about local resources. Make a list of local Cocaine Anonymous groups and substance abuse counselors in the area. Provide this list to your loved one. Explain that help is available when she is ready to explore this option. Do not impose the resources upon the user; simply offer the information.
Step 5
Remain consistent. Making the decisions to quit using drugs can be difficult for an addict. Consistently express your concerns and support no matter whether the user is ready to quit or not.
Tips and Warnings
- Familiarize yourself with psychological and physical health concerns related to cocaine addiction, but do not bombard your loved one with these statistics. If you feel stress from dealing with the cocaine user, remember to nurture yourself and take time away from the problem. Try not to make dealing with the addiction the center of your life.
- Never try to communicate your concerns about addiction to your loved one when he is intoxicated. This may result in an aggressive response that places you in harm's way. Call 911 if you suspect your loved one has overdosed or may inflict harm upon herself or others.
