Toilet training any child can be challenging, but training a child with special needs can be an even greater challenge. Special needs children often have mental, emotional or physical limitations that impact their ability to use the toilet independently. This task is particularly important for the special needs child, though, because it will give him a sense of accomplishment and bolster his self-esteem. It also gives the parents an opportunity to discover how the child learns best.
Look for Readiness Signs
The signs of a special needs child's readiness for toilet training are no different than for any other child, notes the Healthy Children website. The child should understand the concepts of wet and dry. She should be able to remain dry for at least a two-hour span, and show cognitive and emotional motivation to begin toilet training. She should demonstrate the ability or readiness to dress and undress, and she should know when she needs to urinate and reach the toilet in time with or without assistance. If the child exhibits these signs, she is likely developmentally ready to begin toilet training.
Make Your Child's Potty Chair a Favorite Possession
Toilet training a special needs child will likely be easier if you take the time to help him make his potty chair a valued possession. Allow the child to help choose his potty chair, advises the University of North Carolina's Center for Development and Learning. Let him sit on the chair while clothed to become comfortable with it, and allow him to use it as a seat while participating in activities such as playing games, reading, watching television or eating snacks. You can keep the potty chair in the child's play room to help him become familiar with it.
Reward Your Child
A special needs child often requires praise and rewards when she makes progress toward toilet training, according to the University of North Carolina's Center for Development and Learning. Give the child praise when she cooperates in the toilet training process. When she successfully uses the toilet, reward her with stickers, hugs and other small rewards. Give larger rewards, such as ice cream or toys, when she demonstrates independence by using the toilet on her own or proactively asks for assistance.
