When a child reaches the age of 3, he has the ability to listen and accept directions. At this age, due to the child's language development progress, rules begin to sink in. However, because the child is still in his toddler years, behavioral problems can still occur. Any concerns you may have about your child's behavior should be discussed with a pediatrician.
Social Behavior
At the age of 3, the child may still spend most of his time playing alone, according to the National Network of Child Care. However, at this age, he will like to be near other children, playing side by side instead of interacting. He may not enjoy playing directly with other children because sharing and cooperating are concepts that he still needs to learn.
Following Directions
A 3-year-old does not have the memory capabilities of an older child. It is important for a parent to keep repeating herself to ensure that the child learns how to behave properly. Eventually, the child internalizes the directions you give her and when you remind her of a rule, she can follow it.
Emotional Development
According to the Dr. Sears website, 3-year-old children are typically easier going than their 2-year-old counterparts. This is because the pre-school child starts to consider the needs of others besides his own. Children at this age have an increased sensitivity and are less egotistical. The child aims to please the adults in his life and therefore is more likely to follow rules.
Making Choices
A part of a child's social and emotional development at this age is the ability to make choices, states the National Network of Child Care. Make the child feel important by giving her simple choices to make. Choices may include her clothing for the day, a toy to bring in the car or a snack for lunch. Limit the choices to only two to avoid overwhelming the child.
Discipline
When disciplining a 3-year-old, avoid lecturing and encouraging the child to do something because it is the morally right thing to do. Instead, set a clear consequence for each rule that is broken. For instance, not sharing a toy gets the toy taken away.
