Many parents look forward to the day when they can say goodbye to changing their young child's diapers. The toilet training process requires time and patience, and to avoid placing undue pressure on the child, it should only begin once she shows signs that she is ready for it. Every child is different, so the success and duration of the process will vary.
Age
Before toilet training can begin, the child must be developmentally capable of performing the necessary actions. Children may begin to show signs of readiness at 18 to 24 months of age, according to FamilyDoctor.org. However, it's not uncommon for a child to show signs after his third birthday.
Skills
The child should possess certain basic motor skills, such as being able to walk and pull her pants up and down, before toilet training. She should also understand and be able to follow instructions.
Signs
Some indications that a child is ready for toilet training include alerting his parents or showing discomfort when he's soiled his diaper. He may show an interest in or express a need to use the toilet. If he's capable of keeping his diaper dry for at least two hours or throughout a nap, he may be ready to begin toilet training, according to the University of Michigan Health System.
Tools
Training toilets for young children may include a small potty chair with a basin beneath it or a toddler-size seat that rests on top of the toilet. The child may feel more secure and comfortable using the potty chair, which allows her to place her feet firmly on the ground.
Process
FamilyDoctor.org recommends allowing the child to become familiar with the chair, sitting on it fully clothed, to become accustomed to it. Once the child indicates readiness for toilet training, parents should look for cues that he needs to use the toilet and bring him to the potty seat. Parents can also place the child on the seat for a few minutes after meals or at regular intervals throughout the day, offering praise and encouragement even if the child doesn't use the potty.
Time Frame
On average, the toilet training process takes three to six months, according to the University of Michigan Health System. However, children who are reliably toilet trained during daytime may have difficulty staying dry throughout the night, as they have less bladder control while asleep.
Considerations
Placing pressure on the child can cause resistance to potty training, which may prolong the process. If the child shows fear or reluctance to use the toilet, she may not be ready, and it may be best to postpone the training and try again after a few weeks.
Accidents and setbacks are common during potty training. Parents should remain calm and patient during these times, refraining from scolding or punishing the child. Encouragement and support are required to make the child feel comfortable using the toilet.
