Toilet training can be a time of excitement and anxiety for both children and their parents. The uncertainty of the toilet can be stressful for some kids, which can make the process stressful for parents. At the same time, though, children are often excited about reaching this milestone. The process can be time-consuming, but the payoff for parents--no more diaper changes--is usually worth it. When you are ready to start toilet training, make sure all your child's caregivers--whether it be grandparents, babysitters or daycare providers--are on the same page. Consistency is key.
Age Range
Children grow and mature at their own rate. Toddlers begin to show signs of being ready to toilet train between the ages of 18 months and 24 months, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. However, some children may not show signs until they are between 30 months and 36 months, and this is normal as well.
Cues
Children often begin to exhibit behavioral cues that they are ready to begin using the toilet. For example, your child may ask questions about the toilet or seem interested in watching someone go to the bathroom. Other signs that your child is ready include being able to pull his pants up and down, being able to follow directions and being able to answer basic questions, according to MayoClinic.com. It's also a good idea to wait to potty train until your child can stay dry for at least two hours and wakes up dry from naps.
Supplies and Equipment
Before getting started with toilet training, make sure you have all the necessary equipment and supplies on hand. You'll need either disposable training pants or washable, cotton training pants. Your child might also have an easier time using a small potty or a small seat to fit over the toilet seat, according to the University of Missouri Extension. As an incentive for your child, you can make a special trip to buy new underwear for her to wear after she is potty-trained. Books and movies about toilet-training can also help prepare your child for the process.
Getting Started
When you start potty training, it's important to take breaks several times throughout the day so your child can use the toilet, according to the University of Missouri Extension. Start each day by making a trip to the bathroom first thing in the morning. Even if he doesn't seem interested in using the toilet, have him sit there for a few moments, according to MayoClinic.com. Remember to have your child use the bathroom before leaving the house as well, and watch for signs your child might need to use the bathroom. Squirming and wiggling around or holding the crotch area are often indications that a child has to go to the bathroom.
Encouragement
Praise and encouragement are important during potty training. Offer verbal praise after each attempt at using the toilet, even if it isn't successful. Some children also respond well to an incentive chart allowing them to earn small rewards for successful trips to the bathroom. If you decide to offer incentives such as stickers or candy, be consistent.
Setbacks
Most every child will have at least one accident while potty-training, and it's nothing to be upset or alarmed about. But if your child doesn't seem to be picking up on how to use the toilet or when she has to use the bathroom, it's probably a good idea to stop and try again a few weeks or months later, according to MayoClinic.com. Also, keep in mind that nighttime bladder control takes much longer to achieve. Most children are 5 before they can stay dry through the night, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. Until nighttime control is achieved, use training pants to keep your child dry.
