Divorce is one of the most common legal proceeding in the United States. In fact, in 2008 alone, the Center for Disease Control and Prevention reports that 1,065,775 people were divorced in the United States, with only 44 states reporting statistics. For some, divorce becomes a long and drawn-out process that can take months to conclude. However, a simple uncontested divorce can take much less time and can be done through a few simple steps.
Attorney
One of the first stops you will want to make when getting ready to file for a divorce is an attorney's office. Many attorneys focus on family law with some specifically specializing in divorce proceedings. An attorney will help explain and lead you through the divorce process, as well as represent your interests in any mediation meetings or court proceedings.
Divorce Papers
Once you have secured an attorney, you will need to fill out the necessary divorce papers for your state. Each state can have varying requirements on necessary paperwork, which is where your attorney becomes helpful. In order to fill out the paperwork, you may need to gather other documents such as bank statements, income tax returns, will or trust documents and real estate appraisals. Once you have gathered the documents, photocopy the necessary ones and store the originals in a safe place. Your attorney can help you fill out the paperwork and can file the papers with the court.
Mediation
In a simple divorce, mediation may be all that is needed to determine all of the details and arrangements of the divorce without needing to involve a courtroom. Mediation allows both parties to come together and civilly discuss issues such as asset division, child custody and spousal support. Using the agreement during mediation, your attorney can then file the dissolution of marriage action as well as any other paperwork to receive a final judgment.
Court Proceedings
The alternative to mediation is a family court proceeding with a judge. Using a family court can draw out proceedings, but it is an option when an agreement can not be made through mediation. From family court, the judge can be the final deciding factor on areas of the divorce that you and your spouse do not agree on.
