In 2007, nearly 29 percent of all households with children were single-parent households, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Unfortunately, as a single mother you can sometimes feel isolated and as if you're the only one dealing with the burden and stress of raising your children on your own. Use strategies that allow you to keep your sanity and give your children the best possible care.
Multitasking
As a single mother, you must master the art of multitasking. Think about the various jobs and responsibilities you have throughout the day, and find ways to condense and combine. If you need to run a few errands, use the time in the car for your child to complete his homework or practice his alphabet. When you make dinner, make double and triple portions to freeze for busy nights. When your child is in the bath. read over some work or style your hair. Multitasking allows you to squeeze the most out of every day.
Removing Guilt
When you see other children spending time with their dads or coming home to stay-at-home-moms, it can be easy to feel guilt about your situation. But you can do away with guilt by understanding that you are doing the best you can with the resources you have. If your child asks about your particular family situation, explain that families come in all shapes and sizes, and you love your family the way that it is. Taking extra time to spend with your child can help reduce guilt and allow you to feel better about your parenting abilities, according to BellaOnline.
Getting Help
You shouldn't have to face parenthood all alone, and luckily most single moms have family members and friends who are willing to pitch in and help. According to American Baby magazine, you should not be afraid to ask for help. When someone extends a hand, gratefully accept. If your son wants to go on a father-son campout, ask your dad or brother to take him. If you're too busy at work to attend your child's school play, send along your sister or friend. By creating a support system, you can fill the gaps.
Taking Time Off
Being a single mother is exhausting, and it's easy to become burned out. When you're burned out, you're not at your best. That's why it's important to take a time out for yourself, indulging in something that you love to do, according to Parents magazine. Take a weekend vacation on your own, have a date night or go out with some friends. If you feel guilty about leaving your child, wait until she's asleep for the night and take a few hours to read a book and rest. Take time to yourself to recharge and come back better than ever.
