Potty training is a big deal for both parent and child. It is a learning game that requires patience, repetition and dedication. Although some show interest much earlier, most children are ready for toilet training by 2 years of age. Forcing or encouraging it before then can prolong the process and create headaches for all involved.
Follow Child’s Lead
According to the Dr. Spock website, a parent should never force her child to potty train. Instead, let your child figure out when she is ready. While you are waiting for her to show signs of readiness by showing interest in toilet activities, be sure she can follow basic directions and that she can pull her pants up and down. Let her observe you using the restroom.
When he begins to show interest, sit your child on the potty several times a day. Even if your child does not urinate in the toilet, praise him for trying. When he eventually uses the potty, cheer and praise him for performing this grown-up activity. Continue this routine until your child has mastered potty training.
The Potty Game
The Ask Dr Sears website suggests viewing toilet training as a game. Just like a sport, use equipment and practice drills to your advantage. Start by sitting your child on a potty-chair, fully clothed. Read books about potty training together. Observe your child right before he goes to the bathroom in his diaper. Look for any cues—he may make particular expressions, sounds or movements. Bring him to his potty chair and encourage him to go.
When your child goes in the potty, reward him with a present or try placing a sticker on the back of the chair for each successful attempt. Continue training, setting a timer every few hours to remind him to try to go potty. Because some kids can have severe behavior reactions to switching to real underwear, such as holding in bowel movements out of protest, transition slowly out of diapers.
Be Consistent
The Mayo Clinic recommends preparing your child for potty training before actually starting. Keeping a positive attitude and sense of humor, talk to your child about bathroom use, using correct terms. Empty his diaper contents into the toilet to help him understand that’s where his excrement belongs. Encourage your child to sit on an adapter seat, with or without a diaper, several times throughout the day. Even if he doesn’t go, continue encouraging through regularly scheduled potty breaks.
When your child begins to show signs that she has to go the bathroom, get her to the toilet quickly. This will help her understand her own body’s signals so that she will eventually be able to get to the toilet on her own. Be consistent, being sure that all baby sitters and family members follow your potty-training routine.
