It can be difficult to differentiate between normal and abnormal child behavior. “Normal” behavior varies by age, culture, development level and personality. However, aggressive or hostile behavior can create conflict in all aspects of a child’s life. Therefore it is important to understand why negative behavior occurs and how it can be treated.
Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
The Family Doctor website explains that attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a behavior problem that affects many children. Common symptoms include the inability to pay attention, impulsiveness and fidgetiness. These behaviors often transition into other areas of a child’s life, making relationships and learning more difficult. In children of ADHD, the brain does not create enough chemicals responsible for organized thought.
The disorder is linked to environmental toxin or cigarette smoke exposure while in utero. Speak to a doctor if you suspect your child suffers from this condition. There are a variety of prescription medications that can help decrease inappropriate behavior and improve concentration and attention. Among them include atomoxetine, dextroamphetamine and methylphenidate.
Stealing
According to the Kid’s Health website, children of all ages may resort to stealing. The reasons vary—a young child may not understand he has to pay, school-age kids may lack self-control or may chose to steal as a way to rebel. Other kids may use stealing as a way to seek your attention or to cry for help. It is up to you as the parent to discover the root of the negative behavior. The punishment for stealing should depend on a child’s age and whether or not a pattern of stealing has been developed.
Young children and school-age children should be taught that stealing is not acceptable. Have him return the stolen item to the store and apologize. For school age children, this is often enough embarrassment to prevent any future occurrences. If stealing becomes a repeated problem, consider seeking the advice of a therapist, doctor, pastor or support group. Often times, stealing indicates a more serious problem such as a compulsion disorder or abuse.
Aggression
For some children, frustration can morph into aggressive behavior such as kicking or hitting. Young children should be taught from a very young age that it is not appropriate to bite, hit or kick when upset. Instead, it is important to teach a child how to express his feelings through words. A child learns what he witnesses at home. Be sure that all who surround her are good role models and follow all house rules. If a child reacts aggressively, immediately reprimand so that he understands what he did wrong.
