Teenagers should be ready to handle the complications that sometimes arise in a dating relationship when they start dating. Dating for the first time can be emotionally difficult for young boys and girls, and sometimes their lack of experience with dating can negatively affect their lives and the lives of the people who care about them. Teens as well as their parents will find that there are some important issues attached to teenage dating.
Parent Consent
Some parents do not approve of dating at a young age. This puts a lot of pressure on a teenager. The teen may want to date someone he is interested in, but he may also want his parents to say they are OK with it. If a teenager decides to date without the parent’s consent, it may prevent the parents from knowing the type of person their child is dating and whether that person is someone they would want their child to date. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services' Girls Health website, dating should only occur when a teenager is ready to date, and when the teenager’s parents or legal guardians allow dating.
Abuse
According to NYC Teen Mindspace, different types of abuse may occur. Of these types, the abuse can be emotional or psychological. Sometimes, a teen may become the victim of an abusive relationship and not even be aware of it. Bouts of anger directed at a teen and cursing are abusive actions that are not considered part of a healthy relationship. A controlling attitude is also abusive and can include a teen telling a boyfriend or girlfriend what should and should not be done, along with keeping a watchful eye on every action. Putting the blame on a partner instead of admitting you were at fault is another form of abuse. Forced sex, drug and alcohol intake are common teenage dating issues as well, and it can sometimes lead to violent behavior and/or rape. Taking a partner’s possessions against her will is another issue some teens deal with when they are dating.
Sex
Sex is an exciting part of dating, but for a teenager, the results of having sex at such a young age can be devastating. A dating teenager may not stop to think about what the future would be like after having sex. Sex can lead to an unwanted pregnancy, or a sexually transmitted disease, such as herpes, gonorrhea or AIDs. Having sex with someone who cares only about having sex can also leave a teenager with hurt and regret. A teenage boy may try to talk his partner into having sex with him by making her think she can prove her love for him by giving in. The Girls Health website recommends teens focus on their future education and career plans and on the plans their partner has, rather than think about sex.
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