Language is a powerful tool. Words allow us to express our ideas and feelings to each other clearly and in depth. But words are not the only way we can communicate with each other. Nonverbal methods of communication are common in our everyday lives, and in many cases are just as important as speaking as a way of conveying information.
Definition
Nonverbal communication is any form of communication that does not involve language. Common ways of communicating nonverbally include gestures, tone of voice, body language and even display--such as wearing a uniform or decorating a room in a certain manner. Whether intentionally or subconsciously, nonverbal forms of communication express ideas to those around us.
Language Barriers
One of the most common ways nonverbal communication is used is when two people speak different languages. Tourists in foreign countries may be lucky to understand a handful of words; gestures and play-acting can sometimes suffice to get across simple concepts. Uniforms are a type of communication that transcend language barriers as well, as there may be differences in design, but doctors, policemen, soldiers and firemen tend to wear similar outfits the world over.
Social Order
Nonverbal cues can be a subtle way of reinforcing a social pecking order. Tell a ribald joke to a group of people, and you might watch members of the group eying the leader to determine whether or not they should laugh or act offended. Many people in leadership positions have, either naturally or through training, learned to project an air of confidence and control through nonverbal cues like a steady voice and solid eye contact. In contrast, someone whose voice cracks and who can’t keep his eyes still will most likely have a difficult time maintaining an air of authority.
Deception
Subconscious nonverbal communication can be a way to tell if someone is disguising her true intentions. Deception specialists are trained to read gestures, body language, and even subtle, brief facial expressions to determine whether a subject is lying or telling the truth. While the science is still considered experimental by some, learning to understand these subtle cues can help you learn the true meaning behind a speaker’s words.
Nuance
Nonverbal communication can also be an important method of clarifying spoken words. The phrase “I’m going to kill you” has considerably different meaning when shouted and accompanied by signs of tension than it does when said with an exasperated smile. You can use nonverbal cues in addition to language to pin down the exact meaning behind what a person says.
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