As a foster parent, you have a responsibility to fulfill the emotional and physical needs of children under your care. Taking out your frustration or anger out on a child is abuse and can have serious consequences for both you and the child. The Prevent Child Abuse America website states that child abuse is the second leading cause of death of children under the age of 5 in the United States.
Types
When a child is abused by a caregiver such as a foster parent, he can be hurt in several ways, states the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services. The Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act explains that most states classify the mistreatment of a child as being physical abuse, sexual abuse, neglect and psychological maltreatment. Abuse can occur by physical assault, which may involve something as slight as grabbing a child's arm too hard to a severe form of abuse that involves physically causing harm upon him. Emotionally, a foster parent can abuse a child by making him feel worthless or badly about himself. Neglect is also a form of abuse. This could mean not feeding or taking care of a child’s basics needs. A foster child may also be sexually assaulted by foster parents.
Identification
If you suspect a foster child is being abused in any way, you need to learn ways to identify the abuse. Helpguide explains that a child who is neglected might appear to dress in dirty or tattered clothing. She may have poor hygiene or seem dirty or smelly. In some cases a child may be malnourished. She may look underweight or seem to be searching and begging for food. Bruises, burn marks, scratches, hair loss and visible scars on the arms, face, legs or neck can be indications that a child is being abused at home.
Screening Process
Every adult who wishes to be a foster parent must go through a screening process to be eligible to give care. This screening process is a contributing factor in the state determining if a child will be placed in a safe environment. The National Foster Parent Association explains that there are basic requirements for a foster parent to meet, such as references, training, interview, stability in family and a thorough background check including criminal history and finger printing of all members of the household over 18.
Effects
The effects of child abuse by a foster parent can be devastating for children. Because foster children have been taken away from their birth parents, they may already have a sense of insecurity and abandonment. The Child Welfare Information Gateway states that some of the effects of being abused include brain damage, emotional difficulty, cognitive delays, behavioral problems, depression, violence and isolation.
Prevention
Preventing the abuse of a child can occur through being aware of a child’s unusual or out of the ordinary appearance or behavior. If you notice a sudden change in his personality or he begins acting out in a negative way, don’t hesitate to report your concerns to your local law enforcement or state Child Protection Agency. The Prevent Child Abuse America website states that you can leave a tip anonymously if desired, to protect your identity.
