Whether your child is an infant or a high school student, you play an important role in helping her prepare for college. According to the USAA Educational Foundation, college graduates tend to possess self-confidence, develop good communication skills and make more money than their less educated peers. Start preparing your child for a university education as early as possible.
Step 1
Teach your child good study habits when she is in elementary school. Provide her with a homework-friendly place to study. The U.S. Department of Education describes an effective study area as quiet, free from distractions and within easy reach of reference books like a dictionary and a thesaurus. Be available to help her with her homework.
Step 2
Talk with your child often about what he would like to do as an adult. Help him to find out his talents and strengths. Encourage him to look into possible careers and universities by the time he is in middle school.
Step 3
Encourage your child to strive for A grades in her classes. While she will not need straight As to get into college, getting good grades will open up more possibilities to her. Ask her to see her teachers for extra help in subjects as necessary.
Step 4
Support your child's interests in extracurricular activities. Colleges and universities look for well-rounded students who have enjoyed various team and individual sports, volunteer work and academic clubs. Allow your child to get a part-time job outside the home if his grades are good.
Step 5
Meet with your child's guidance counselor to ensure she is taking the classes and tests necessary to get into the college of her choice. After your meeting, encourage your child to talk with the counselor herself to help her gain independence and an understanding of exactly what she needs to do.
Step 6
Help him as necessary in filling out college and financial aid applications. Provide any information that he needs, but encourage him to complete the applications himself. Gaining autonomy is an important part of preparing for college. Offer your opinion on which college he should choose to attend, but allow him to make the final decision.
Tips and Warnings
- Help your child do well in school by encouraging healthy habits, such as getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods and avoiding smoking and alcohol. These good habits will serve your child well in high school, college and adulthood.
