All children misbehave, argue and defy their parents from time to time, especially during the terrible 2s and adolescence, when they're asserting their independence. But when problem behavior becomes consistent and even crosses the line into cruelty and delinquency, a child could have what the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Behavior calls a conduct disorder. Although recent research has shown that many young people with conduct disorder grow up to be productive adults, some benefit from intervention before their behavior brings on serious consequences.
Conduct Disorder
A child with a conduct disorder behaves in socially unacceptable ways, according to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. They have difficulty following the rules, sometimes break the law and are often viewed as bad, rather than emotionally troubled. Trauma, abuse and even brain damage can cause this disorder. Fortunately, many of these children grow into productive and successful adults, according to Mental Health America.
Statistics
Conduct disorders are more prevalent among boys than girls, according to Mental Health America. Six to 16 percent of boys have the disorder, while the rate among girls is 2 to 9 percent. Onset is usually before a child is 10 or when he becomes a teenager. Those who have this disorder at an early age are more likely to have troubles with their peers and academic problems, Mental Health America says.
Oppositional Defiant Disorder
Oppositional defiant disorder is a conduct disorder characterized by consistently bad and deviant behavior. Symptoms include throwing tantrums, arguing, disobedience, revenge-taking and even violence, according to the Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. To have this diagnosis, a child must display the symptoms for at least six months and have trouble in his daily life because of his behavior, the Mayo Clinic says.
Treatment
The Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry says that treatment can be difficult, because the child may not cooperate and may distrust adults. Mental Health America suggests talking with a physician to determine what kind of treatment is best for your child. Treatment could involve psychiatric therapy, behavioral therapy, parental training, social training or a variety of other approaches.
Coping at Home
Having a child who exhibits problem behaviors can be hard on a parent. A parent herself may need counseling in order to deal with the child. The Mayo Clinic suggests learning anti-stress and calming techniques that will help you handle confrontations. Also, make time for yourself even when it seems impossible. This can renew your energy. Finally, forgive your child each time he does something wrong. If you hold on to old frustrations, it will be harder to deal with new situations as they arise.
