Divorce proceedings are hard enough, but when your relationship with your attorney is difficult, it makes it all the more stressful. Handling your attorney so your case proceeds as smoothly as possible relies on establishing good rules of communication. Both you and your attorney should establish clear duties and responsibilities each of you can agree on. Do this early so your relationship with your lawyer starts off on the right foot.
Step 1
Discuss your case. Every divorce case is different. Make sure your lawyer knows what you want from your case. Ask your attorney to explain what she thinks your options are. You make the decisions, but your attorney advises you on what she believes are the best decisions to make.
Step 2
Ask about the fees. Always be clear about how much your attorney charges and when you have to pay her. Lawyers cannot charge divorce cases on a contingent-fee basis, which means you'll either pay an hourly fee or a flat fee. Discus the details of all fees before you begin your relationship with your attorney.
Step 3
Ask about communication. Your attorney is a busy woman. You can call whenever you want, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea. Be clear about what your lawyer expects from you and what you should or shouldn't do. Ask whether or not it is alright to call her or her staff with questions. Identify what she expects from you and what you can expect from her.
Step 4
Ask about the procedures. Every state has specific steps that all divorces must go through. Always ask your lawyer about this process and what to expect. Knowing what you must do and when to do it is an important part of your responsibilities, so make sure your lawyer keeps you informed.
