A fussy baby can make you feel frustrated and helpless when she doesn't respond to your soothing techniques. Day or night, an episode of crabbiness is often a challenge during a baby's first year. Some causes of fussiness are easy to diagnose, but other instances seem to occur for no reason at all. Figuring out how to soothe your baby helps everyone feel better.
Step 1
Watch your infant's behavior to try to determine the root cause of the fussiness. Common causes include hunger, teething, colic, illness, discomfort, gas or exhaustion. Rule out each potential cause. For example, offer your baby a bottle to check for hunger or feel her gums to see if a tooth is breaking through.
Step 2
Change your baby's diaper. Place him in comfortable, clean clothing appropriate for the temperature of the environment. A baby who is either too hot or too cold may become fussy. Swaddle him in a blanket if it comforts him.
Step 3
Move around while holding your baby; motion is often soothing and may ease her crying. Try rocking her, either sitting in a rocking chair or standing as you sway from side to side.
Step 4
Change the position in which you hold your infant. You may find a more comfortable position that eases your baby's discomfort.
Step 5
Take a walk around the block with your infant in a stroller. He may also enjoy the change of scenery. Another option is to place him in the car and drive around town. Some babies calm down from the constant motion of a car.
Step 6
Place your baby in a sling or a baby carrier so she is close to you. You can still to do some chores because your hands are free. Your baby enjoys the close proximity of your body and the movement as you walk around, which she may find soothing.
Step 7
Give your baby a warm bath with a soothing baby body wash, such as a lavender scent. Rub your baby's body with a soft washcloth, allowing the warm water to run over his body.
Step 8
Massage your infant using baby lotion after her bath to help reduce her tension. Stroke her arms, legs and torso with your hands to help calm her and ease her crying. Gently massaging her tummy may help if gas pains are to blame for her being upset.
Step 9
Move him to a quiet room; too much stimulation can irritate a baby. A white noise machine, fan or other constant noise may also help calm him while blocking out other noises.
Step 10
Sing to your baby in a calming voice. A shh noise may also help quiet her, according to La Leche League International.
Step 11
Contact your baby's pediatrician if the fussiness does not subside. A visit to the doctor can rule out any medical causes. The doctor may also have further advice on how to handle your baby's crying.
Tips and Warnings
- Stay calm with your baby despite any frustration you may feel. Getting upset may cause your baby to become more upset, which may escalate the situation. Ask for help if you lose patience with your infant. Ask your spouse, friend or neighbor to help out while you take a break.
