It is possible for friendships to develop into strong, rewarding romantic relationships, according to Planned Parenthood. Friends who spend a lot of time together and have many common interests can gradually develop a romantic attraction to each other. If a friendship has strong communication, trust and honesty, it can provide an excellent foundation for a healthy romantic relationship. But making the transition can be difficult. Remember that any healthy relationship is based on honesty and trust, so being honest about a growing attraction to a friend is important.
Step 1
Consider all of the possible outcomes of a dating relationship with a close friend. According to Planned Parenthood, you need to realize that when friendships turn romantic, the dynamics can change between the two people. If the romance ends, you also could lose your friendship.
Step 2
Choose an appropriate place and time to talk. Dating a friend can create an awkward change in the relationship. Choose a private setting, away from distractions, so you and your friend can discuss your feelings openly and honestly.
Step 3
Make a direct and clear invitation with a specific activity in mind. According to Planned Parenthood, dating a friend might be awkward at first, and it can help to make a direct invitation to go out on a date. That way, there is no confusion about your intentions.
Step 4
Be prepared for potential awkwardness, especially if your friend does not have romantic feelings for you. In that case, it can take time to regain your platonic friendship. And if your friend does reciprocate your feelings, there can be an initial awkwardness as your interactions change from platonic to romantic.
Step 5
Take time to see how the dating relationship progresses, and communicate honestly. According to the University of Texas Counseling and Mental Health Center, dating partners should check in with each other periodically to share their feelings about the status of the relationship. It is important for partners to maintain independent activities and interests, and not to place too much pressure on a new romantic relationship.
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