If you have a relative who was adopted, it can be challenging to try to find that person years later. But there are some steps you can take. You need your family member's personal information, including the state where the adoption was finalized. As you gather this information, think about ways you can increase your chances of success by widening your search. Don't be afraid to ask other searchers for help. You might be surprised when another adoptee gets in touch with you, telling you she knows your family member and how to get in touch with him.
Step 1
Register with an adoption reunion registry. The reunion registry is an electronic file, maintained online and indexed by adoptee name, physical description, date of birth and hospital of birth, according to the website How to Investigate. Sign up with the state adoption reunion registry in the state where your family member was adopted. Restrictions in that state could limit your ability to conduct your search, but fill out your profile, providing as much information as you have.
Step 2
Join an adoption search and support group. Some of these groups communicate with other search groups in order to broaden members' search areas, according to How to Investigate. If someone in another area has heard of your family member, he might be able to update you.
Step 3
Collect any information you can about your family member. This includes name, date of birth, where she was born and the name of her adoptive family. Write a letter to the adoption agency or state agency requesting information about your family member's adoption. Again, state laws could limit your efforts to get this information, according to How to Investigate.
Step 4
Direct your inquiries regarding release of adoption information to the state where the adoption was finalized. The federal government does not control access to adoptee information, according to the Child Welfare Information Gateway.
Tips and Warnings
- Become a member of adoption reunion registry forums. These websites help you widen your search area. While you are searching for your family member, keep in mind that he might not react positively to your approach.
