No matter how much experience you have with women, talking and flirting with them can still cause anxiety and confusion. Talk and flirt with a girl to express romantic interest in her and help determine her degree of interest in you. By improving your flirting techniques, you can test a woman's interest level, without setting yourself up for rejection. Once you learn how to flirt with girls, your interactions with the opposite sex will become much more enjoyable.
Step 1
Locate a woman and get her attention by making eye contact from across the room. Avoid staring for more than two seconds, as this can appear threatening. Notice if she looks back at you once you have established eye contact, as this signals a level of interest.
Step 2
Approach the woman once she looks in your direction more than twice, because this shows that she has noticed your attempts. Make eye contact as you approach and smile before saying anything. Initiate the conversation by asking a question that requires her to give an answer, since you can read her level of interest based on the tone of her response.
Step 3
Talk to the woman about her interests without flirting too much. This will give you a chance to determine her interest level before going any further. Avoid asking questions that she can answer in one or two words, as this will kill the conversation quickly.
Step 4
Smile at her in a confident manner when speaking, but do not become excited. Make yourself appear completely comfortable in this situation, as this will make her much more at ease with you. Look to see if she smiles back, as smiles often signify romantic interest.
Step 5
Close the distance between the girl and yourself once you have conversed and feel comfortable. Avoid moving into her intimacy zone too quickly, as this could scare her off. Move to within 2 feet of her and pay attention to her body language, as this shows how much attraction she has for you.
Step 6
Touch the girl on the arm as you speak and pay attention to her body language. If the girl embraces this touch, you have flirted successfully. Prevent yourself from touching her too often because girls can interpret this as a threatening action.
Step 7
End the conversation and obtain her contact information. If you have flirted successfully, she will gladly provide you with a phone number or email address for future contact.
Tips and Warnings
- Flirt with women who have a similar level of attractiveness as you to have more success. Get a new haircut and buy some new clothes. This will make you feel better about yourself and girls will notice your newly found confidence
- If your flirting does not receive a positive response, leave the girl alone. Innocent flirting can turn into harassment if you invade her space uninvited.
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