Ending an affair with a married woman can be a difficult process. The process is dictated by your personal beliefs. If during the course of your affair, you are also cheating on a spouse or significant other you have other issues to deal with such as whether to tell your significant other. According to the Yourtango website, not telling your partner can be the best option. Although, if the affair has been an ongoing occurrence, your partner may already have an idea of your infidelity and not divulging the information could do more harm than good.
Step 1
Locate a neutral location where you can speak to the woman with whom you are having an affair. An ideal location would be a coffee house or restaurant where you can have some privacy but where she will be less likely to draw attention to your conversation.
Step 2
Speak with your lover and explain to her that you will no longer be able to see her. Make sure she understands that you will no longer be able to speak or see each other for any reason.
Step 3
Make a clean break from the woman making sure that you do not engage in any future conversations or socialize with her. Marriage Missions International states that total separation from your lover is the only way to successfully end the affair and not risking a renewal of the relationship.
Step 4
Speak with your significant other or spouse. Whether you decide to tell your spouse about the affair you will need to express your needs that led to the affair. The sexual or emotional needs met by your spouse that led you to an affair will help keep you from having another affair.
