Contact
Herpes is spread through direct skin-to-skin contact that includes sexual contact with someone who has it. It can even spread when there are no signs of an outbreak, which may include symptoms of blisters or bumps on the genital area. Herpes can also cause cold sores on the mouth and can be passed on through kissing. Active genital herpes can be transferred to a partner through sexual intercourse as well as through oral sex if the infected person has a cold sore.
Symptoms
Some symptoms of herpes simplex infection are so mild that people are not even aware they have the virus. Even with mild symptoms, they are able to spread herpes to partners. However, some people notice itching, tingling or other sensations before anything shows up on the skin. This can warn them that they are in the active stage of the virus. After the virus first enters the body through the skin, it moves to nerves within the body and stays dormant for days or months. It comes back to the surface from time to time to revitalize the virus. The virus is sometimes active before the symptoms are actually noticed.
Normal Sex
Herpes is usually spread during the period when the first symptoms appear or are noticed until the area is healed and looks normal again. Most people who recognize the symptoms when herpes lesions are present can avoid having sexual contact and therefore are less likely to spread the virus. Many couples where one or both partners have herpes are able to have normal sexual relations throughout the years by paying attention to the symptoms.
Unlikely Transmission
Genital herpes can be spread through genital-to-genital, mouth-to-genital and genital-to-anus contact. But the virus is not likely spread through toilet seats, bars of soap, towels, swimming pools and whirlpools. In fact, the virus is easily killed with soap and water.
Prevention
The herpes virus can stay anywhere around the groin. But the fingers, eyes and other body areas can become infected by coming in contact with the sores. To prevent such infections, do no touch the area during an outbreak. Always wash your hands as soon as possible after exposure to kill the virus.
Childbirth
Infants can become infected with the herpes virus during childbirth if the pregnant mother is exposed. The doctor should be notified of such an occurrence. A cesarean section may be necessary if the virus is active during delivery. Babies are vulnerable to the virus if kissed by someone with a cold sore. People with cold sores should not kiss babies.
