An estimated 41 percent of Americans act as caregivers in some capacity to their elderly parents, according to a USA Today poll. Your parent's advancing age may show in memory loss, health problems and mobility issues. While this can be difficult to go through, it's likely you and/or family members are taking the responsibility of becoming caregivers. In addition to understanding the medical and financial implications of caring for your parents, you also must understand the emotional side.
Step 1
Obtain legal guardianship of your parent or parents. This ensures you can be involved in medical and financial decision-making should your parent's condition make it so he cannot make his own choices. Ensure your parent has a will and estate plan, according to the Chicago Sun-Times. Many healthcare providers, hospitals and community institutions have the necessary paperwork and forms to begin this process.
Step 2
Schedule an appointment with your parent's general practitioner or a gerontologist if your parent does not have a physician for a general health assessment. Discuss aging-related concerns, such as lost eyesight, ability to drive or memory problems in order to determine the best steps for your parent.
Step 3
Discuss with your parent her wishes concerning life-sustaining medical care, according to the U.S. Department of State. While this can be a difficult conversation, it is important your parent be given the opportunity to make her wishes known. Be open and honest about what you have learned concerning medical or financial considerations in your parent's life and always respect his wishes as much as possible.
Step 4
Share with your parent the time you have to spend assisting her. This can include shopping for groceries or other items, taking her to the doctor and preparing meals. Encourage your parent to care for his health as much as possible--practicing preventive care can help your parent to stay as healthy as possible.
Step 5
Familiarize yourself with alternative housing and medical options in your area. This includes assisted living facilities, senior centers and other organizations dedicated to caring for the elderly. Although this may not be a step you are prepared to take now, knowing what resources are available to you can help if managing your elderly parent becomes too difficult.
Tips and Warnings
- Taking time out for yourself is vital when you are caring for an elderly parent. Because the stress and pressure can be mentally draining, taking a walk, listening to music or conversing with a friend allows you to do something for yourself. If you neglect your own needs, you will not be able to care for your parent's.
