Conflict in any capacity can be a challenging path to journey. When conflict rears its ugly head within the family unit, many emotions tend to compromise successful resolutions and disrupt quality communication. Managing family conflict will take time and determination on many individual levels but can produce positive rewards over time through proper execution.
Step 1
Discuss in detail the nature and full spectrum of the conflict. Without a clear understanding of the problem, no resolution can be found. Listen to each individual's perspective and hear what she is saying without any defensive response.
Step 2
Respond to the issues with "mirrored listening," which means the listener will repeat the stated comments back to the speaker to clearly display that he has been heard and understood accurately. Own up to your part in the conflict and be open to comments, as discussed by Erin Kelley-Soderholm, M.Ed. This can be done by anyone who is involved in the conflict at home.
Step 3
Create a plan of action that will clarify boundaries and expectations and will deal directly with resolving the conflict head on. From financial disputes to child rearing, a plan must be put into place, clearly explained to all parties involved and carried out with consistency.
Step 4
Move on and forget about hurt feelings or misunderstandings with others in your family. Forgiveness will heal the wounds that have occurred at a personal level, as well as inspire the other parties to forgive and move forward, recommended by the Counseling & Mental Health Center (CMHC) at The University of Texas.
Step 5
Accept compromise in certain areas of your personal agenda. Relationships require give an take on many levels, and this bumper of compromise will bring resolutions and peace back into the home.
Tips and Warnings
- If all efforts have been made to resolve conflict to no avail, contact a professional for assistance in helping with communication and resolution.
