Behavior problems of children easily frustrate parents. But the best way to deal with problem behavior is through understanding and consistency. As your children grow, it is important to understand the normal changes that they experience, according to the Palo Alto Medical Foundation. In addition, you need to be clear about what you expect from your children, and consistently demonstrate that bad behavior is unacceptable and good behavior brings rewards. This will help you deal with problem behavior, according to the Family Doctor website.
Step 1
Define a clear set of rules for your home. Consider your child's age and behavior issues when setting rules. It is acceptable to have slightly different rules for different children.
Step 2
Define the consequences of breaking house rules and the rewards of following the rules. Base the consequences and rewards on your child's age.
Step 3
Write the house rules, rewards and consequences down with markers on a poster board. Post them where the entire family can see them. Discuss the rules, rewards and consequences with your children. Ask questions to ensure that they understand what you expect.
Step 4
Enforce the written rules consistently. Only administer consequences that you discussed with your children. Changing the rules, consequences and rewards on the fly confuses your children and undermines what you are trying to accomplish.
Step 5
Follow through with the rewards you have set in place for good behavior. When you see good behavior throughout the day, verbally praise your child.
Tips and Warnings
- You can use games to help teach new good behaviors to your children. For example, "Beat the Clock" helps teach your children to complete a task in an appropriate amount of time.
