Relationships create the spice of life. Without kindred spirits to share people's hopes and dreams, fears and objections with, life would resemble monotonous rituals of solitary boredom. Making new friends can seem a difficult prospect with the superficial results created through synthetic technological offerings, but making friends can be genuine and easy when pursued properly and through the right avenues.
Step 1
Don't be extreme in who you decide to spend time with, as certain doors of opportunity can open through individuals you may never have considered to be friend material. These people may know of other people that would be a great fit with the interests and hobbies you enjoy.
Step 2
Become very active in your community with public forums, festivals, art shows or anything that will bring many people out and together for a length of time. This will open up a large market of people that are social, interesting and willing to meet new faces and create new friendships.
Step 3
Setting up plans and parties will encourage others to get to know you and learn about your personality and hospitality. Take the necessary steps and invest in the right materials to present a new group of friendly people with a special experience. This will reduce any insecurity in others as they get to know new faces. Depending on your age and interests, cater to the individuals that are coming, and make sure they feel welcomed and appreciated.
Step 4
Utilize the relationships you currently enjoy to expand your friendship Rolodex. The concept of six degrees of separation relates to the fact that we are all connected to the right people and opportunities within six counter relationships of people we already know. Be patient and considerate when asking your current group of friends to invite other friends outside of the core group of individuals, and welcome them with genuine humility.
Step 5
Be consistent in your participation at local clubs, groups and functions. Relationships take time to develop and your consistency will offer plenty of time to create adequate communication of who you are and what you enjoy doing that may be mutually admired by another.
Step 6
Log onto social networking sites for a generic start at filtering potential relationships. From Facebook to Twitter, Myspace to other social sites, plenty of people are available to meet and greet with an expectation of even mild friendships that may in time, produce a more significant relationship.
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