Mental abuse involves name-calling, neglect, criticizing and diminishing a child's self-worth and self-esteem. Children from abusive homes have difficult times concentrating on studies, making friends and controlling their emotions. In severe cases, they grow up to repeat the cycle of abuse, as it's the only type of behavior they know. If you're trying to intervene and prove child abuse happened with a child you know, there are a few ways to go about documenting the abuse and its effects to help make your case for removing the child from an abusive situation.
Step 1
Schedule your child for a full physical. One type of abuse often leads to another, so if your child shows signs of physical abuse or sexual abuse, it will strengthen your claim of mental abuse. Neglect is the most common form of abuse, according to the American Academy of Family Physicians, and manifests itself in malnourishment, untreated illnesses or injuries, just to name a few.
Step 2
Have your child evaluated by a licensed psychologist who specializes in children and mental abuse. The psychologist will be able to estimate the type, duration and extent of abuse; however, it may take several visits for your child to develop trust and to disclose information to the psychologist. Ask the psychologist to share her records with the courts.
Step 3
Talk to your children's teachers or child-care providers. Ask about any changing patterns of behavior associated with mental abuse, such as withdrawal, trouble controlling emotions and difficulties making friends, according to HelpGuide.org. These are often signs of child abuse. Ask for a written statement that outlines your child's behavior changes.
Step 4
Gather any police reports that coincide with family violence. Health Guide.org reports that allowing children to witness acts of violence against other family members is a type of emotional and mental abuse that deeply impacts children.
Step 5
Allow your child to testify in court. Help her to prepare by asking open-ended questions in a loving and supportive manner. Abused children often fear doing something wrong or disappointing the adults in their lives, so take extra care not to lead the child toward the answers you want. For example, instead of saying, "Your daddy calls you mean names, doesn't he?" say, "Tell me what happens at your dad's house when you get in trouble." Your attorney or family court liaison will help you to prepare, as well.
