It is not possible for parents to be with their children all the time, and as kids get older, they often want more freedom to go off alone with friends. Safety rules can make the world seem like a scary place, but they are merely additions to the other rules children often follow, such as wearing a bicycle helmet. Children who obey personal safety rules let their parents know they are ready for more freedom and responsibility.
Follow the Rules
Follow all of your parents' rules, including those for physical safety. Follow the rules even if you don't agree with or understand the reason for the rule. If you develop the habit of following the rules, if will be more natural for you to follow personal safety rules.
Home Alone
Know the rules for being home alone. Look around before entering an empty house to make sure everything is safe. If something does not seem right, leave and go someplace safe. Once inside, call your parents to let them know you are home safe. Don't leave the house or open the door for anyone without your parents' permission. Don't allow anyone in to use the bathroom or make a phone call. Keep all windows and doors locked. If someone is hanging around the house, call 911.
Playing Outside
Always check with an adult before leaving the house or going off to play or visit. Tell parents where you are going and when you will return and don't change plans unless you let your parents know. Take a friend along for safety. If playing outdoors away from home, stay out in the open with groups in public places. Don't accept gifts from strangers and don't agree to help any adult with a problem. Adults should not ask children for help. Don't approach cars. If a car follows you, run in the opposite direction and find a trusted adult.
It's OK to Say No
It is OK to say no to an adult, to holler or to run if you feel unsafe. If an adult asks you for help, say no and run away. If an adult touches you, holler for help and yell "This is not my parent." Stand up for yourself. Tell someone if you feel unsafe. Tell your parents if you feel sad or fearful. Tell them when you need protection or help.
Internet Safety
Don't give anyone online your address, telephone numbers, parents' information or your school name. Tell your parents if information you see or a person online makes you uncomfortable. Tell your parents if someone asks to meet you. Never agree to meet anyone you meet online. Don't send photos of yourself to strangers and don't respond to inappropriate messages. Tell your parents if a stranger contacts you.
Tips
Memorize your address, telephone number and the full names of your parents. Know how to contact your parents at work or when they are away from home.
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