Preschoolers often eagerly anticipate the day when they strap on a backpack and head for kindergarten. Chances are, however, that they might also be anxious about how they will fare in that room filled with her peers. You can help build a child's confidence by boosting his self-esteem, shedding light on the unknown and staying actively involved in his school life.
Step 1
Build her self-esteem and sense of competence by praising her efforts often and loudly. Give her opportunities to grow and try out new things. Let her make her bed, fold her clothes or put the silverware away. Encourage her to keep trying if she makes a mistake. Show your excitement when she masters a new skill. This helps children approach challenges, such as starting kindergarten, more positively because they know they have already been successful in other areas, according to Kids Health.
Step 2
Alleviate the confidence-draining fear of the unknown by visiting his new school. Meet the teacher and acquaint yourself, as well as your child, with the classroom routine. Ask about the lunchroom procedure for kindergarten, recess time, gym class and other activities your child will experience at school. Most schools set up special days for kindergarten orientation. Directions regarding it should be included in the packet of information you received during registration. Alleviate some practical worries by walking him through the halls so he can find bathrooms, drinking fountains and other important areas. If the school has a public playground, spend some playtime there before school starts.
Step 3
Let her go. Most kindergartners appreciate a few extra minutes of your presence that first day. Walk her to the classroom, but avoid making the goodbye too long. Keep smiling and stay positive. Reassure her about the excitement of starting school and leave. Your confidence in her readiness for school will boost her feelings of competence.
Step 4
Talk about his school experience. Open his backpack every evening and review papers, permission slips and other notes from the teacher. Ask him about recess, art activities or reading assignments. Give him time to talk about his worries or frustrations over school. Increase his confidence by helping him come up with ways to solve problems. If he lacks friends, for instance, invite classmates to your home and plan some get-acquainted games.
Step 5
Ask her teacher for suggestions if you feel your child's lack of confidence might interfere with her social, emotional or academic life. The teacher might have tips pertinent to your child's situation or make suggestions about community activities that can help boost confidence, such as a sports program.
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