Bullying is a serious problem that is a major issue in many schools. According to Kids Health, bullying is intentional torment by physical, verbal, or psychological means. It is embarrassing for a child to admit to being bullied. You probably felt angry when you found out another boy is bullying your son, but you must remain calm to help him. Explain to your son that together you will stop the boy from bullying him.
Step 1
Explain to your child it is not his fault that he is being bullied. Tell him how proud you are of him for telling you what is going on. Let him know that together you will get the boy to stop bullying him.
Give him a chance to talk about how he feels about being bullied. If necessary, have your child speak with a school counselor because self-esteem issues and depression can arise from bullying according to Mayo Clinic.
Step 2
Speak to your child's teacher or the adult who is responsible for watching the kids during the time the bullying occurs. Explain to the individual the situation and express your expectations. They should be able to keep an eye our for any bullying incidences that arise. Let your child know that he should go the supervising adult whenever bullying occurs from that second forward.
Step 3
Approach the bully's parents. They might know that the bullying is occurring. Speak calmly to them about what your son has told you. Do not approach them in a defensive manner. You do not want to be irate or cause them to become defensive. You want the boy to stop bullying your son, and his parents can be your biggest help.
Step 4
Enroll your son in a self-defense class, such as karate. The self-defense class is not for your child to fight back, but it will help him build his self-esteem and self-confidence. Other confidence-building classes include sports and art classes. These classes also provide opportunities for your son to make friends that he can enlist in the buddy-system to ward off the bully.
Step 5
Train your son to react to bullying in the proper manner. Tell him he is not to fight back, but he needs to verbally tell the bully to stop. This is the time for him to involve the adult in charge. He needs to immediately tell the adult when he is being bullied. If it is at all possible, tell your son to stay as far away from the bully as he can.
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