The power of a positive attitude is an invaluable asset to your child's development. The state of mind that he habitually employs to approach the world will determine the consequences in his life. Kids who learn to stay positive become confident and capable adults, ready to prevail over whatever challenges life may present. You can nurture the development of a positive mental attitude in your child by taking steps that encourage him to find opportunity in every circumstance.
Step 1
Encourage your child to take note of the things that go right in her life. Periodically, invite her to describe what she feels has been the best part of a given day or week. Follow her reply with questions that require explanatory responses, those that fully revive the experience in her mind.
Step 2
Exhibit an optimistic attitude. Anger management coach Dr. Tony Fiore asserts: "As a parent, your own thinking style is always on display and your children are listening intently." Children learn less from what you say than from what you are. Your way of perceiving the world will have a significant impact on how your child learns to interpret the events in his life.
Step 3
Encourage your child to comment on age- and context-appropriate topics that you discuss with others. Leave an occasional opening for your child to communicate her ideas on matters that affect you both as a family. By showing consideration for the things your child has to say, you empower her to express her thoughts authentically with others. Social worker Carolyn Simmons contends, "If you cultivate your relationship with your child by listening to her and talking with her, you help to keep the lines of communication open between you. Your child will feel loved and special."
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