Children can use computers for school, communication and games, but Internet access can pose a threat to your child if you do not monitor computer usage. Many parents also choose to restrict the amount of time their children spend on the computer to encourage them to engage in exercise and other activities that promote a healthy, active lifestyle. Being aware of how much time your child spends on the computer and what he is doing can help you protect him and help him learn to make wise choices, particularly when it comes to staying safe on the Internet.
Step 1
Keep computers in a common area of your home. If you allow your child to have a computer in her bedroom, it will be difficult or impossible to monitor her usage.
Step 2
Create separate profiles on your computer for each member of your family. Set passwords on adults' profiles and do not share the passwords with your child. Set a password for your child's profile and input it yourself when you wish to allow him to use the computer, so you know when he is using it.
Step 3
Check the history of Internet browsers to monitor where your child goes online. Most Internet browsers record the history by default. Be aware your child can delete her Internet history, however.
Step 4
Set security levels high on your Internet browser under your child's account to help filter out pornographic and other inappropriate material. Security settings are typically in the "Options" or "Settings" menu on your Internet browser.
Step 5
Utilize the parental controls available on your operating system. For example, Windows operating systems have parental controls under administrator accounts that allow you to set time limits, security settings to help filter content and set up activity reporting where you can view when your child used the computer and for how long. Mac operating systems also feature parental controls that allow you to select and deselect options from a list depending on what features you wish your child to use.
Step 6
Ask your Internet service provider if they offer parental controls. Many service providers offer extra security to their customers free of charge or for a small fee.
Step 7
Purchase a security program that will allow you to set blacklists and whitelists to help you monitor where your child goes online. Third-party parental control systems allow you to create a list of preapproved websites your child can visit and lists of banned websites your child will not be able to visit when the program is installed and running.
Step 8
Talk to your child about appropriate use of the computer and discuss the dangers of talking to strangers online. Caution her to keep her personal information--such as her full name, address, phone number and school name--private.
Tips and Warnings
- Talk to your child about what she does online and where she goes. Encouraging your child to discuss her online activities with you can help you monitor her computer usage without pushing the issue and making her feel like you are invading her privacy.
- Do not create a profile for your child with administrator privileges. This will allow him to change settings and programs on your computer and could interfere with your ability to monitor his use.
Things You'll Need
- Parental control software (optional)
