Whether you have a large or a small family, funerals are a time of grief. If you are not organized, they can also be costly. Even small funerals can run a high price. Contacting local nonprofit funeral groups and organizations can help give you information on what you need for your deceased family member's funeral. Perhaps the deceased relative has left behind some information or legal documents regarding the type of funeral that she wanted to have and has made specific requests. Planning for an unexpected death is more difficult since there are usually no legal documents already made for the funeral of the deceased person.
Step 1
Consider what type of funeral you want conducted for the deceased family member. Choose between a public funeral, private funeral, open or closed casket, if there will be a formal service with a minister and music, and so on. Talk to other members of your small family to get their opinions.
Step 2
Decide how much money will be available to spend on the funeral. Add in how much money you get from insurance, and then decide how much you are willing to pay for other expenses. Make a list of everything you need to spend money on.
Step 3
Check for any documents that the deceased might have left behind that discuss how he wants to be buried and where. Decide if it should be a cremation or burial. You will also need to determine what cemetery will be used.
Step 4
Look around for different local funeral directors with the best rates to discuss your small family's needs for your deceased relative.
Step 5
Decide if you want to use a funeral home and, if so, which one best suits your budget and your funeral plans.
Tips and Warnings
- Start planning the funeral before the person dies, if possible. Talk everything out with the members of your small family. Try to find any legal documents, including a will, that might have vital information that will help you plan a funeral.
Things You'll Need
- Legal documents


