The decision to purchase a cell phone for your child signifies a responsibility to both you and your child. While a cell phone can help to keep your child safe in the event of an emergency, your child may use the cell phone for unintended consequences--such as calling friends late at night or giving the number to strangers. By educating your child and limiting phone time, the phone can provide peace of mind to you as a parent.
Considerations
The right age for your child to receive a cell phone depends upon your child's maturity level and the places he or she may go. For example, if you have a teenager, a cell phone may be necessary in the event of an emergency, according to Keep Kids Healthy. If your child participates in numerous after-school activities or spends time with his other parent, a cell phone may be a valued communication tool.
Time Frame
Limit the amount of time your child can spend talking on the phone on a daily basis, according to Scholastic. You may wish to take the phone before your child goes to bed in order to prevent her from making late-night calls that you may not be able to monitor. Limiting call time also helps to prevent her from neglecting homework or chores.
Features
If you choose to purchase a cell phone for your child, it's important to review the safety features with him. Features such as speed dial and accessing emergency numbers quickly can be vital if your child is experiencing an emergency, according to Scholastic. Devices made especially for children may have a global positioning system that help you to identify where your child is, according to Keep Kids Healthy.
Identification
You can purchase a phone that enables you to limit who your child can call or receive calls from. Program the phone together in order to ensure your child is not placing calls to unknown numbers that could prove dangerous. You also should discuss cell phone precautions--such as not giving strangers his phone number, according to Keep Kids Healthy. You should also instruct him to refrain from answering calls or text messages from unknown callers.
Warning
Cyberbullying--a form of harassment via text message or phone call--can occur if a classmate or older person receives access to your child's cell phone number, according to Safe Kids. If your child seems to resent his cell phone, is afraid to share calls or exhibits signs that he may be the victim of bullying, it's important to discuss this with your child. You also should inform him that bullying other kids using his cell phone is inappropriate and unacceptable.
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